how do you deal with a BROKEN HEART?

[madbomber31]

dont judge me, i have said bits and pieces of my situation, but never the entire story... i just wanna kknow how you deal with a broken heart.. the gym was my way, but my shoulder is fucked once again, so i am stuck with cardio and legs... with a little bit of arms and abs in there... no back, shoulders, or chest training... i couldnt make it through them anyway, i get sick just looking around and thinking.

 

[KAYNE]

EXACTLY HOW LONG WERE YOU DATING THIS GIRL?

 

[Hannibal]

Time, time, and more time. I've been through it recently and there is NO easy way really. You can try to distract yourself, but in the end your mind will always return to it. The best you can do is surround yourself with family and friends

Good Luck MB

 

[karson]

dude

broken hearts never fully heal. time is the only thing that can help you, but it will be hard.....

 

[Gilbyag]

I fuck as many girls as I can for as long as I can... that always helps me. It eventually gets old or you find one you really like.

 

[decibel]

the only way to deal with it is to keep yourself busy. don't sit around and think .

go out with friends as much as you can. surround yourself with people at all times -- and of course, meet other girls!! going out on a date with a girl you just met is a really cool feeling. you should look forward to that instead of looking back.

whatever happens, it'll take time, there's no way around it, but don't freak out. you'll get over it and you know it, just ... relax !!

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Time is a good one.

Another good one is to start your own business. You would be amazed how hard it is to think about women when you work 24 hours a day.

Seriously though: time and an active social life are the best answers. Don;t sit still - it;ll make you nuts.

 

[HappyScrappy]

alcohol.
the cause and solution to all of lifes problems.

 

[Sassy69]

Happy - you have such clear insight into life...!

But seriously - give yourself enough time to "grieve" (you have to acknowledge the emotion, not ignore or bury it), and then move on. Keep yourself occupied. The thing is, if she bailed on you or whatever, it never would've worked anyway, so you didn't lose anything. If you would've stayed and suffered through the things that didn't work, you'd have wasted just that much more time before it fell apart - then you might have had more invested and more lost too. Life just sucks that way.

Its hard to fill the gap & familiarity that that person left - so try to find ways to fill it so it doesn't just feel like a big nothing. Don't wallow in it because people pick up on that and will want to stay away too - that just makes it harder to not think about it. Hang w/ your friends & family and see where you can contribute to their lives too!

OK everyone - big GROUP HUG!

 

[HappyScrappy]

whacking off a lot helps too