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How do girls brain's work?
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Ive never done the "date anyone to make the last dude jealous" thing, not intentionally
that might be projecting a bit
that might be projecting a bit
Have you done that/had that done before? I have not. I can tell when someone is doing that and usually put an end it pretty quickly..but then I still feel hurt and rejected...even though I ended it.
It's like that old wives tale that pulling off a bandage quickly causes the least amount of pain. People theorized that a quick tug at a bandage is preferable to slowly pulling it off. People assume that a short spike in pain is better than extended pain in smaller amounts. IDK if that's true. Ask a burn victim who has to have bandages removed painfully from large amounts of their bodies daily which one they prefer.
So...I'm not sold on what is the best way to hurt someone. lol!
idk...when my ex husband and I split up cutting off contact almost totally for a little while was the best way to deal with it
and I'm not going to lie...I felt pretty smug when I realized I had the upper hand by not initiating contact at all and keeping all contact initiated by him extremely brief
and really really smug in one scenario where he called me to a job site he was on..but when I showed up he was "busy" so I gave him 10 minutes of waiting then got in my car and left without saying a word
he was stunned when he realized I took off without saying anything and called me to ask me if I had left..I said yes, call when you have more time..bye.and hung up
he admitted later (cpl yrs) it really took away his feeling of control of the situation
and I'm not going to lie...I felt pretty smug when I realized I had the upper hand by not initiating contact at all and keeping all contact initiated by him extremely brief
and really really smug in one scenario where he called me to a job site he was on..but when I showed up he was "busy" so I gave him 10 minutes of waiting then got in my car and left without saying a word
he was stunned when he realized I took off without saying anything and called me to ask me if I had left..I said yes, call when you have more time..bye.and hung up
he admitted later (cpl yrs) it really took away his feeling of control of the situation
I'm assuming that you had to cut off contact becauase you HAD to becuase he was probably treating you like shit. I think no contact is a good rule in those situations. I have to admit though...being on the receiving end of no contact is fuggin brutal.
I'm sure it isn't true for every relationship break-up but the whole 'I've got someone new now' stopgap thing by latching onto the nearest guy is a common response amongst younger females. The most obvious example I can think of is when my m8 told this girl he was seeing he was no longer interested when in his car outside a club after she phoned him to lift her. She got out and kissed the next guy she saw on the sidewalk in front of him just to get back at him.
lol it's annoying how everything turns into a competition after a break-up too. I agree with the people who say no contact is the way forward, otherwise it just gets messier and messier.
uamaverick
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This is a gay faggot ass thread.
BTW, I've always broke up with the girl. Sometimes I'll get the feeling that she's about to break up with me, and I'm like fuck that shit nagro and I pull the trigger before she knows WTF is up and I destroy her world and then she gains 200 lbs and has 2 kids with some ugly piece of shit within a year.
(That last part is actually true)
BTW, I've always broke up with the girl. Sometimes I'll get the feeling that she's about to break up with me, and I'm like fuck that shit nagro and I pull the trigger before she knows WTF is up and I destroy her world and then she gains 200 lbs and has 2 kids with some ugly piece of shit within a year.
(That last part is actually true)
well this is just it..it had turned into a competition..over a child and about 600k in assets
it started with being locked out of a home I bought and paid more than 30% in cash for
and then having the cops called on me for breaking and entering when I broke in to my own fuggin house.
and the game playing just escalated from there
I walked (not on the child) ..I wasnt dealing with it anymore
I think both men and women jump onto dating/relationship so soon to "prove" to themselves they did right and that they are over the person and can just move on, also that "they still got it"
When I broke up with my ex in college I quickly started seeing someone else (like 3 weeks after the break up)but several factors took place, A. I had been wanting to break up with him for a loooong time and he'd always avoid it by crying, fake passing out, threatening to kill himself, etc B. it was a pretty self esteem destroying relationship for me so I wanted to just be liked by someone, anyone...
So pretty much what I'm saying is there are many reasons why someone may jump on to dating/relationship quickly, it's not just cheating or being a whore...
