Holding a Girls Purse

[DaBangEm]

the last girl i "dated" asked me to hold her purse at ihop while she put her coat on. i just looked at her and calmly said "no".

she got all flustered and set her purse on the empty bench that was right next to us (what a problem solver!).

later she said "i am kinda pissed at you for not holding my purse for me while i put my coat on"

and isaid "and im kinda pissed thatyou would ask me to do that"

im not dating her anymore, mostly because she was overweight, but partially because she was a fuckin annoying retard

Lololololol

 

[Sub-Zero]

*applauds*

Not only should your man-card be renewed, it should also be upgraded to a gold card.

lol renewed? did i lose it at some point?

 

[iggy]

Sounds to me like a bunch of insecure guys.

Then again I don't know this girl and can't see how she acts while asking him to hold her purse.

If I was with any girl and she politely asked me to hold her purse as a matter of convenience while she used a public restroom I would do it np.

It all really depends on the girl. Just because a girl asks you to hold her purse while she uses the restroom does not mean she is dominating you. That sounds like male insecurity. It all depends on the context. Plenty of guys think they are masculine, but real masculinity isn't worried about holding a purse for someone for a couple of minutes.

Now this "particular" girl sounds like she just might be a real bitch speaking for him and taking control of him. In that case he needs to man up to her and if she doesn't like it, ditch her.

Any man that has a problem pushing a cart with a purse in it is a real candy ass imo. It's not cute and funny. It's pathetic and insecure.

I feel ya bro.
But "asking" and "telling" are two different things.

 

[*ebony*]

why carry a purse if your not gonna carry it? Why go to the restroom without ur purse, besides the obvious fact that one would need access to it for makeup freshening/touchups before leaving the RR. There's also purse hangers in stalls also shelves or seats/couch in ladies roomies where you can hang/leave purse from.

 

[canadianhitman]

lol renewed? did i lose it at some point?

It's like a professional license; it has to be renewed every year, and can be subject to a tribunal of good bors should worthiness come into question. No worries, my man...you're a credit to the gender; your worthiness has never been in doubt. Some of the SWVs around here ,on the other hand...

 

[SPEKTOR-AAA]

Sounds to me like a bunch of insecure guys.

Then again I don't know this girl and can't see how she acts while asking him to hold her purse.

If I was with any girl and she politely asked me to hold her purse as a matter of convenience while she used a public restroom I would do it np.

It all really depends on the girl. Just because a girl asks you to hold her purse while she uses the restroom does not mean she is dominating you. That sounds like male insecurity. It all depends on the context. Plenty of guys think they are masculine, but real masculinity isn't worried about holding a purse for someone for a couple of minutes.

Now this "particular" girl sounds like she just might be a real bitch speaking for him and taking control of him. In that case he needs to man up to her and if she doesn't like it, ditch her.

Any man that has a problem pushing a cart with a purse in it is a real candy ass imo. It's not cute and funny. It's pathetic and insecure.

Your right but from the description it didnt seem polite and/or asking.....obviously if it was nice there are no issues with it. Sounds like shes just a bitch

 

[calveless wonder]

I think the whole bitch part is completely independent of the purse thing.

she's a bitch, but saying here hold this while i go to the bathroom isn't emasculating in itself.

having your girlfriend answer questions for you is

 

[SPEKTOR-AAA]

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having your girlfriend answer questions for you is

this wouldnt make me feel any less.....it would just make me fuking pissed lol

 

[nimbus]

who fucking cares about holding a purse; rummage through her shit and have fun with it

 

[the.gladiator1987]

lmao. i agree with ghetto, smart man