HELP! My wife's clock is ticking...

[myway]

Hmm, somehow I thought that making sure we were ready financially ready and assuring that we have time to dedicate to our child and school or work was being a man. My bad. Maybe after my sissyjunction trip, i'll venture over to worthlessbabydaddy.com

Hmmm. After thinking about the options, I think ur original thinking was on point.

 

[MOmedic]

Thanks MW. I'm running out of bright, shiny things to distract her.

 

[myway]

Thanks MW. I'm running out of bright, shiny things to distract her.

Hmm. I wonder what her mother would say?

 

[heatherrae]

LOL, I didn't think this thread would generate these replies. Heather, I would love to do my manly duty, but she's in school and I want her to finish before we have a young'un. It doesn't help that my best friend had a baby last year and another close one is expecting, which she doesn't know yet and we're afraid to tell her (until the bomb shelter is complete anyway) BTW, congrats to you.

Ah well, just lay the pipe then and fake coming in her, then pull out and come between the bed and the wall. Gets messy, but it will be a long time before she figures it out.

 

[MOmedic]

Hmm. I wonder what her mother would say?

She'd side with me cuz I'm her fav. Not to mention her younger sister has three kids whose baby daddy is on the run in FL dodging child support. Hmm, I wonder why I'm not jumping right into this?

 

[myway]

Thanks MW. I'm running out of bright, shiny things to distract her.

Have her do the math for how much it would cost to take care of a baby for one month. Have her come up with a budget to make it work with the new expenses for each month(if the math challenge doesn't change her mind, maybe the lack of play-money will). Have her come up with a schedule of how she could still do everything she NEEDS to do, now, AND care for a baby.
THEN
Come up with a plan of how things "could be" if she would only wait a little longer. Show her how a little more time planning for the future could positively impact the money and quality time the two of you should have for your child.
Ask her what's REALLY important.

 

[javaguru]

She'd side with me cuz I'm her fav. Not to mention her younger sister has three kids whose baby daddy is on the run in FL dodging child support. Hmm, I wonder why I'm not jumping right into this?

Vasectomies are cheap bor....just sayin'

 

[heatherrae]

Have her do the math for how much it would cost to take care of a baby for one month. Have her come up with a budget to make it work with the new expenses for each month(if the math challenge doesn't change her mind, maybe the lack of play-money will). Have her come up with a schedule of how she could still do everything she NEEDS to do, now, AND care for a baby.
THEN
Come up with a plan of how things "could be" if she would only wait a little longer. Show her how a little more time planning for the future could positively impact the money and quality time the two of you should have for your child.
Ask her what's REALLY important.

Great, now the poor girl would NEVER have children.

 

[myway]

Great, now the poor girl would NEVER have children.

Maybe we should ask him how old she is.

 

[heatherrae]

She'd side with me cuz I'm her fav. Not to mention her younger sister has three kids whose baby daddy is on the run in FL dodging child support. Hmm, I wonder why I'm not jumping right into this?

Just joking, by the way. Do whatever makes you happy. =-)