Having relationship problems

[DIVISION]

LMAO @ you refering to that as a perfect relationship...

That's true @ aap...

If it was "perfect" she wouldn't have run back to her ex who cheated on her ass repeatedly.

DIV

 

[alien amp pharm]

I know now it wasn't perfect, but if you could see the way it started out you'd think it was from a fairy tale or something. That's why it's so rough on me.

It's a terrible thing to play with someone's feelings like that if she indeed was playing a game the whole time. I can't believe people sometimes and what they are capable of.

 

[DIVISION]

I know now it wasn't perfect, but if you could see the way it started out you'd think it was from a fairy tale or something. That's why it's so rough on me.

It's a terrible thing to play with someone's feelings like that if she indeed was playing a game the whole time. I can't believe people sometimes and what they are capable of.

Being with a woman in a relationship can seem like fighting a war at times. Love is a dirty game, aap. You know that now because of your situation.

Often, it's truly like war......you against her, fighting for control, a battle of wills.

DIV

 

[Gymgurl]

Could someone please explain why would a guy break off a relationship when all seems rosy?? I am confused about that sort of behaviour.....
What goes on in a man's mind at that point in time? Would it be commitmentphobia or he is looking for greener pastures?

Some men are afraid of commitment (and women) and tend to push people away or find the smallest thing about themthat they can pretend they don't like and dump them.

Just do all you can do and be done. Men seem more attractive when they walk away and not hound you until you give in. I can say this from expereince since I am old enought o be your mother lol. Everyone has given you good advice. If I was her like Sugarplum said, I would be waiting for you to dump me again for no reason and why live like that!

 

[BUBBLES]

I know now it wasn't perfect, but if you could see the way it started out you'd think it was from a fairy tale or something. That's why it's so rough on me.

It's a terrible thing to play with someone's feelings like that if she indeed was playing a game the whole time. I can't believe people sometimes and what they are capable of.

I can understand how you would have felt it was the perfect relationship because I was in a similar situation and when you find out it is over it is such a rude shock...but we were BLINDED by LOVE....anyway the lesson I have learnt is if your instinct tells you something is not right about the person you are seeing (however little!!!) instigate the situation or if you simply do not feel anything for them tell them upfront and don't waste people's time because there are many other goodlooking, sexy and delicious fish in the sea!!!

 

[fistfullofsteel]

There is only one solution if you want her back!!! Send her my way and she will come running back to you and will never leave you. Yeah, I have that effect on women. Damn, I'm good.