Having relationship problems

[jh1]

Woah... seek help from Alien Amp Pharm pronto...

That man has some 'begging' under his belt... he can let you know what works and what doesnt....

 

[Carmen]

Well then I guess I will just feel like shit for the next few days and go back to being the man whore I used to be with my superficial bullshit relationships that are available to me in this rediculous fucking town. Thanks for the replies guys...they reaffirmed what I thought.

you'll win her back, it'll take time and patience- she's gunshy now and afraid, but if you really regret breaking up with her, she'll see that. keep talking to her and telling her how you feel about her letting her into your life and give her time.

 

[Kroliczek]

You told her how you feel. You made it up to her as best as you can. I don't know what else she could expect you to do? If you explained yourself, I see you in the right. Any more sounds like too much maintenance. Just my op.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Bobber, tell her that you have expressed your feelings and do not know what else to do. Don't call continuously, back off a little, make yourself a little scarce. If she still has feelings for you, your absence will make her think about you more. You can't convince her to do anything, she must make that decision.

Exactly.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Woah... seek help from Alien Amp Pharm pronto...

That man has some 'begging' under his belt... he can let you know what works and what doesnt....

Hey I can give some good advice....I just don't seem to follow it myself at times.

 

[Bobber]

Well I am 100% positive that she knows how I feel about what i did and what I feel for her. I am not going to contact her in anyway. She said she was going home to see her mom saturday so I will get up early then and put a rose on her windshiels along with a note or poem to reinforce my thoughts. After that no more from my side untill she shows signs of wanting it again. I feel like if I do more she will either keep the wall up or think I am her bitch.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Well I am 100% positive that she knows how I feel about what i did and what I feel for her. I am not going to contact her in anyway. She said she was going home to see her mom saturday so I will get up early then and put a rose on her windshiels along with a note or poem to reinforce my thoughts. After that no more from my side untill she shows signs of wanting it again. I feel like if I do more she will either keep the wall up or think I am her bitch.

If she already knows how you feel, don't leave the flower/poem thing. Give it some time until she comes around.

 

[Bobber]

If she already knows how you feel, don't leave the flower/poem thing. Give it some time until she comes around.

Are you sure? I am getting mixed advice about this from my friends. Half say do, half say don't.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Are you sure? I am getting mixed advice about this from my friends. Half say do, half say don't.

lol, I'm probably the last person to be giving you advice at this.

How much have you did so far of letting her know? Just don't go overboard with it. Let her know how you feel, that you made a mistake, and am willing to make it up to her (I think you already have).

If you must leave the rose/poem, DEFINITELY let that be the last contact you make. Let her decide from then on out.

(Oh, and don't act desperate like I seem to always do)

 

[-SD-]

Are you sure? I am getting mixed advice about this from my friends. Half say do, half say don't.

The key here is she needed to know exactly why you broke up for no reason, since in her mind there wasnt one. In a situation like this when everything is rosy in the relationship and someone inexplicably breaks it off, there is a psychological issue going on with the person that broke it off, i.e. YOU. I know because like a dumbass I did the same thing more than once. You are going ot ahve to get very uncomfortable if you havent already and reveal to her your insecurities and psychological reasoning within yourself for breaking up with her, otherwise she wont trust you fully. Remember, in order for someone to regain trust they cant be in the dark as to why their sig. other did something to hurt them.