Having relationship problems

[bluepeter]

Just do the exact opposite of a high-heeled sissy like me.

 

[split endz]

Bobber, there is great power in backing off. Fight your instincts to crawl back to her on all fours. That image is not attractive to women. Be confident and strong even if you are falling apart inside. You have shown her enough of the sensitive you, now show her the strong you. It may re-ignite her old feelings for you.

 

[BUBBLES]

In a situation like this when everything is rosy in the relationship and someone inexplicably breaks it off,

Could someone please explain why would a guy break off a relationship when all seems rosy?? I am confused about that sort of behaviour.....
What goes on in a man's mind at that point in time? Would it be commitmentphobia or he is looking for greener pastures?

 

[alien amp pharm]

Could someone please explain why would a guy break off a relationship when all seems rosy?? I am confused about that sort of behaviour.....
What goes on in a man's mind at that point in time? Would it be commitmentphobia or he is looking for greener pastures?

My ex broke off a perfect relationship to go back to her ex that cheated on her.

It's not just men, but people in general that do stupid crap.

 

[velvett]

So why did you break up with her?

It may never be the same, you've shattered her trust and faith in you and there is no way of knowing if or when she'll be able to have either in you again.

Welcome to your life lesson.

 

[Bobber]

She thought it was because two of my really good friends just ended their serious relationships and I wanted to go be single with them again, which was told to her by one of the friend in questions ex girlfriend. If I had just thought before I spoke everything would be fine.

Now she holds ALL the fucking power and I have zilch.

 

[Bobber]

Could someone please explain why would a guy break off a relationship when all seems rosy?? I am confused about that sort of behaviour.....
What goes on in a man's mind at that point in time? Would it be commitmentphobia or he is looking for greener pastures?

Commitment is deffinetly with out a doubt a major factor, especially when you have been leading a single college party life for the past 2.5 years. As for greener pastures...it's got to be way greener.

 

[gymrat]

hey how's the dog bor?

 

[DIVISION]

So why did you break up with her?

It may never be the same, you've shattered her trust and faith in you and there is no way of knowing if or when she'll be able to have either in you again.

Welcome to your life lesson.

I know it sounds harsh, Bobber......but Velvett is spot-on with her assessment.

I'm sorry you made a bad decision, but now you gotta live with it. I hope she takes you back, but realistically she probably won't.

DIV

 

[jh1]

My ex broke off a perfect relationship to go back to her ex that cheated on her.

It's not just men, but people in general that do stupid crap.

LMAO @ you refering to that as a perfect relationship...