One of my friends in hs dates a 32 year old when she was 16 and I remember thinking this guy was a complete slime ball (even though he was very attractive and clean cut) - my friend was very forward sexually, but she'd also been molested for like seven years as a child and had not dealt with that past on any level....so he was high fiving himself before bed at night, while she was basically re-enacting abuse.
I think of this guy every time smurfy drops some kind of insinuation about lummy dating a high school aged girl.
Just saying....lol