got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

It really sucks to have your heart broken. Sorry you're going through this. In time it will get easier but there will always be some pain when you think of her. Best thing you can do now is create some new memories for yourself...focus in the gym, etc. and have a goal to reach.

Even though the airplane chick is taken, maybe she'll know of a single friend that you might like. Fate is weird like that, maybe that's why you two were brought together.

Wishing you the best.

Thanks a lot for the wishes.

Yeah, the airplane chick seems cool, but it sounds as if her social circles are limited. I imagine she gave me her number because she's looking for me to help provide her with some addional contacts and what not. But I do see your point, this could just be one step on the way to meeting someone new.

I'm trying to create some new memories, its tough though because my mental state has been so fucked I've been unable to do much, or at least enjoy much. I am hitting the gym again hard next week and will hopefully gain some weight back.. I'm looking like skin and bones now.

 

[georgie24]

Re: got dumped..

bro!!! she will be back begging for your mercy TRUST me, YOU sound sound like a good seed. she will be back...do NOT take her back. she fucked you over. please do not take her back.

i give her another 2 weeks before she coms back


you can do much better.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

bro!!! she will be back begging for your mercy TRUST me, YOU sound sound like a good seed. she will be back...do NOT take her back. she fucked you over. please do not take her back.

i give her another 2 weeks before she coms back


you can do much better.

I doubt she'll be coming back, but that isn't my concern.. or at least I'm doing my best to get that idea out of my mind.

She didn't really fuck me over.. she hurt me.. she didn't want to.. but its how she feels... she doesn't want to be with me right now. It hurts like hell.. worse then anything to face that reality.. but I wouldn't say she fucked me over. She truly cares about me and has told me more then once she would do anything to see me smile again... I can't exactly ask her to just love me... feelings don't turn on and off like light switches although sometimes I really wish they did.

 

[Robert Jan]

Re: got dumped..

you twat! you texted her.

big no no now

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

you twat! you texted her.

big no no now

i was feeling so desperate...

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

today is starting out tough. Of course last night most of my dreams were about her.

I have a whole Sunday ahead of me now with no real plans. Normally I'd think this was a great thing because I am usually pretty busy and have committments and what not, but today it just means more time to sit and think, which is painfull. She used to have me over for dinner nearly every Sunday. We'd also go to the beach or read at a coffee shop or something.

 

[UA_Iron]

Re: got dumped..

today is starting out tough. Of course last night most of my dreams were about her.

I have a whole Sunday ahead of me now with no real plans. Normally I'd think this was a great thing because I am usually pretty busy and have committments and what not, but today it just means more time to sit and think, which is painfull. She used to have me over for dinner nearly every Sunday. We'd also go to the beach or read at a coffee shop or something.

dont you have any friends or anything? I'd get the hell out of the house and stay busy.

Its easy for everyone to tell you to stop feeling sorry for the situation - but its not that easy. I was in a funk for a longass time after breaking up with my ex but now I am really happy it happened

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

dont you have any friends or anything? I'd get the hell out of the house and stay busy.

Its easy for everyone to tell you to stop feeling sorry for the situation - but its not that easy. I was in a funk for a longass time after breaking up with my ex but now I am really happy it happened

yeah.. i've got a lot of friends.. but I dunno... i really don't even feel like doing anything for some reason.. its very unlike me.

I do have a bbq to go to later today with some co-workers.. that will be something to do.

 

[velvett]

Re: got dumped..

You know what - it's ok to sulk and lose motivation for everything - sometimes it's good to feel loss it teaches you to appreciate joy.

 

[gonelifting]

Re: got dumped..

You know what - it's ok to sulk and lose motivation for everything - sometimes it's good to feel loss it teaches you to appreciate joy.

I agree.