got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

well if you ever wanna party it up in la bro -- look me up. I know that feeling *all* too well.

i may take you up on that.. I'm not so big on the club scene though.. never really been my element... but I'm usually up for whatever.

 

[Becoming]

Re: got dumped..

I hope this is the case for me....

I have no problem dating chicks.. its just finding the quality that is tough...

I'm not trying to be a dick, but I'm done dating chicks that are waitresses... didn't go to college... work bullshit admin jobs... that was cool a few years ago, but now when I look for someone to date i look for someone who is on the same level as me in many different ways... not just a hot piece of ass that is fun to bang.. THAT gets old real quick (and expensive many times).

I also have found I need a type a personality.. because I am one as well.. and type B's are just TOO passive... this girl was a definite type A.. but we worked together most of the time so it was awesome.. every once in a while we'd clash, but all it took was a second of taking a step back and remembering what was really important here and things were ALL good.

dude stop thinking about her ass... when you least expect it you will find the next one...

 

[jubei]

Re: got dumped..

Go for some good rebound sex. Give it time bor, you'll be feeling better in no time. Occupy your time (and mind) with something positive. Like say, a nice tren and winny cycle to make you look like a cyborg.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Re: got dumped..

what was the first most depressing post?

we were together for something a year and 9 months... a little off and on in there... a rocky start.. then she was away at school for a semester.. but the last year has been solid.

Was this the girl your friends set you up with who you had good chemistry with or was that someone else.

If it was a 21 month relationship, yeah the week after you break up you'll feel bad. Thats a given.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Nah, the worst was several years ago some guy made a post asking about how he wanted to start taking heroin. After some prodding by other posters he said that he was in his 30s, with a good job and a relatively good life but he wasn't married and didn't have kids and he figured it was too late to have a family so he wanted to either kill himself or shut his mind off with drugs.

shit man. that sounds a lot like my roommate... 34 now.. not married.. no kids.. used to be mormon.. he feels like his whole life was a waste.. he's never had a girlfriend.

 

[Lao Tzu]

Re: got dumped..

shit man. that sounds a lot like my roommate... 34 now.. not married.. no kids.. used to be mormon.. he feels like his whole life was a waste.. he's never had a girlfriend.

sounds like me in 10 years. Tell future me past me says 'Hi'

 

[jerseyart]

Re: got dumped..

Lestat

she goes on to say that she feels like she needs to be on her own.. to have some space.. to know what its like to date other people.. that she is young and feels like there is still stuff she needs to do...

Just don't take it personally man. At least she was honest with you. She sounds like a stand up girl. Think about it, if she was like most guys, she could have kept you on the side and just did her thing behind your back. By breaking things off cleanly she did you a favor and a good turn.

Women are different than guys. She probably does need the time, and it could have been anyone, not just you.

I was pissed.. didn't want to get emtional then.. so I left... that left a lot unsaid so we've talked on the phone.. in person.. over email.. a lot since.. and I know what you'll say.. i need to stop... the constant reminders of her are not going to do me any good.

I won't try to tell you what to do. At some point you will figure it out on your own that the best thing is a clean break for a while and to just move on. I broke up with my ex after a lot of years, and even when you are the one breaking it off, it still hurts like hell. I had to stop talking to her, and felt like a shit heal for doing so. But there was no other way to move on. The longer you stay in contact, the longer you will drag out the pain. It's hard to accept that it's over, but once you do then you can start healing. The other way is like constantly ripping out the stitches

 

[Becoming]

Re: got dumped..

Go for some good rebound sex. Give it time bor, you'll be feeling better in no time. Occupy your time (and mind) with something positive. Like say, a nice tren and winny cycle to make you look like a cyborg.

hell yeah - no chick? time to brew up a giant ass mess of tren!

 

[bran987]

Re: got dumped..

this is my #1 most depressing post, it's sad. maybe you will feel better knowing you have known what it's like to be so happy?

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=3234357&postcount=18

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Was this the girl your friends set you up with who you had good chemistry with or was that someone else.

If it was a 21 month relationship, yeah the week after you break up you'll feel bad. Thats a given.

hmm i don't think so.. I'm trying to think about the chicks I've posted about on here... there hasn't been too many.... I'll be the first to admit I've loved flirting with the EF hotties and talking about your girlfriend isn't the best way to get those nude pics.. especially when competing with people like Dial_Tone, WODIN, and BBF....

OHHHHHHHH the girl that a friend set me up with... that was my most serious relationship before this one.. my first love.. it started when I was 21.. she was 18... it lasted a year.. then we broke up for a year.. then we got back together for a year.... but with her... the breakup was tough.. but I knew the whole time that I wasn't ready to settle down... I knew she wasn't perfect for me.. I was just 21.. and she was the first really hot chick that I had dated for more then a week... she had other great qualities too.. good family, very sweet... but there was always something lacking there.. which is why even though she broke up with me.. I don't reget it. She was my first love though.. something to be said about that.

This girl was my second love (there has only been two!).. and only the second relationship that I would really say was worth anything...

All the others were like 1-4 months or so.. and I didn't love any of them... some good times... good memories.. but nothing satisfying or substantial.