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got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!
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thelegacy again
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thats why you dump her first
Ok guys and gals... a much better updated.
Got my first action since the breakup.
I was feeling down, lonely, etc. This chick had fucked with my head, I was thinking I couldn't get another girl, or there was something wrong with me. So I just had to prove that I still had the touch. Having not been in the single scene for nearly two years I figured I may have lost it.
So I remembered this girl that I met once because she was a longtime friend of anothre female friend of mine. I never really knew this girl too well, we talked once or twice and she gave me her number so I could call her if I ever was having a party or anything. She knew about my girlfriend, but didn't know her personally. She knew I had broken up because our mutual friend mentioned it to her.
So yesterday I called and asked if she wanted to hang out. She said sure! Anytime. So I said ok, how about Thursday, she said cool.
So I called today around 7pm after my workout and asked if she still wanted me to come over. She said yeah, but she was stressed out over this and that... all kinds of drama. I told her we can just stay in and catch up.
So I get there and she is in the shower...this is 9pm or so. That is a good sign, she was showering up for me.. had an outfit all picked out and everything. Good sign. Her roommate, a dude, let me in and was hanging with me as she got ready.
We start out in the living room, watching some TV, had a couple beers, just chilling. Talking about nonsense. At this point I'm thinking this isn't a good idea because all her chit chat is just reminding me of how good I had it with my ex... I didn't have to sit an sound interested in bullshit I could give a fuck about. Don't think I'm being harsh either, she was telling me about her 30 different lip glosses and how she spends $120 a month on them, and telling me their names.. like Lust, and Passion and all that shit..and how they are different then lipstick.. and you can mix colors to get the right combo. I was about to bail the fuck out at this point.
Then she says... "I wanna take you to my room, because Jason (her roommate) keeps flipping the channel"
I said sure.. the roommate knew it was a made up excuse and said "oh whatever.." he knew the game that was being played.
In the room I start making a little flirtly small talk... asked her why the shower took so long... she said she was shaving everything... I said wow, you must have been expecting someone important!
So we hang out for a bit and she starts rubbing my arms and chest.. this is where it gets good... good for the ego that is... before this point I was thinking that if I DIDN'T get any action I'd feel like even more of a fucking jackoff loser and be so pissed I even set myself up for another rejection.
Luckily boys and girls, that did not happen.
She starts off with "wow your arms are so big..." music to my ears... this is the type of thing any guy who has spent years working out wants to hear..
then its "and damn, your chest is big too! I just felt it was like whoa, there is something big there!"
then here it comes.. I could have called this.....
"is everything on you big?"
now I know velvett is rolling her eyes at this point.. and yes, this girl isn't the brightest I've ever been with, but I'm just looking for some ass ok.. a little rebound action.. i deserve this right?
I'm touching her, she's showing me her tits.. they are big.. like D or DD.. but she's showing me how firm they are and how they don't sag when she doesn't have a bra on.
Then she turns the TV off.. puts on some music... Alice in Chains - Jar of Flies... great fucking CD. She lights all these candles then gets back on me straddling me.
She does her thing.. I won't get into too much detail here.. but she started at my neck.. worked her way down... but didn't touch my cock until pretty much everything else had been covered... by far one of the best blowjobs in my life... she went real slow at times... didn't neglect the balls.. played with my ass.. it was as good as it gets, and she swallowed every drop.
I asked her if she wanted me to do anything for her.. she said "no, I like to please" but she did have me check out how wet her pussy was and show me her collection of glass dildoes.
I hung out for a bit after, playing with her hair, rubbing her back... then I said I gotta bail.. it was nearly 2am and I work tomorrow.
I could definitely pay a repeat visit on that anytime soon. She's a curvy brunette, shoulder length straight hair, D or DD tits, aobut 5'4 or 5'4" .. she's older then me.. i am 27.. she is 31. She was with one guy for most of her life then 2 years ago he fucked her over big time.. left her.. she went bankrupt.. etc. etc and since then has basically said fuck long term relationships.
So on the way home I was feeling great, even now I am going to bed feeling great. Not thinking about my ex... or at least not missing her for the moment. It felt good to have another conquest. I was beginning to think I had lost the touch.
Got my first action since the breakup.
I was feeling down, lonely, etc. This chick had fucked with my head, I was thinking I couldn't get another girl, or there was something wrong with me. So I just had to prove that I still had the touch. Having not been in the single scene for nearly two years I figured I may have lost it.
So I remembered this girl that I met once because she was a longtime friend of anothre female friend of mine. I never really knew this girl too well, we talked once or twice and she gave me her number so I could call her if I ever was having a party or anything. She knew about my girlfriend, but didn't know her personally. She knew I had broken up because our mutual friend mentioned it to her.
So yesterday I called and asked if she wanted to hang out. She said sure! Anytime. So I said ok, how about Thursday, she said cool.
So I called today around 7pm after my workout and asked if she still wanted me to come over. She said yeah, but she was stressed out over this and that... all kinds of drama. I told her we can just stay in and catch up.
So I get there and she is in the shower...this is 9pm or so. That is a good sign, she was showering up for me.. had an outfit all picked out and everything. Good sign. Her roommate, a dude, let me in and was hanging with me as she got ready.
We start out in the living room, watching some TV, had a couple beers, just chilling. Talking about nonsense. At this point I'm thinking this isn't a good idea because all her chit chat is just reminding me of how good I had it with my ex... I didn't have to sit an sound interested in bullshit I could give a fuck about. Don't think I'm being harsh either, she was telling me about her 30 different lip glosses and how she spends $120 a month on them, and telling me their names.. like Lust, and Passion and all that shit..and how they are different then lipstick.. and you can mix colors to get the right combo. I was about to bail the fuck out at this point.
Then she says... "I wanna take you to my room, because Jason (her roommate) keeps flipping the channel"
I said sure.. the roommate knew it was a made up excuse and said "oh whatever.." he knew the game that was being played.
In the room I start making a little flirtly small talk... asked her why the shower took so long... she said she was shaving everything... I said wow, you must have been expecting someone important!
So we hang out for a bit and she starts rubbing my arms and chest.. this is where it gets good... good for the ego that is... before this point I was thinking that if I DIDN'T get any action I'd feel like even more of a fucking jackoff loser and be so pissed I even set myself up for another rejection.
Luckily boys and girls, that did not happen.
She starts off with "wow your arms are so big..." music to my ears... this is the type of thing any guy who has spent years working out wants to hear..
then its "and damn, your chest is big too! I just felt it was like whoa, there is something big there!"
then here it comes.. I could have called this.....
"is everything on you big?"
now I know velvett is rolling her eyes at this point.. and yes, this girl isn't the brightest I've ever been with, but I'm just looking for some ass ok.. a little rebound action.. i deserve this right?
I'm touching her, she's showing me her tits.. they are big.. like D or DD.. but she's showing me how firm they are and how they don't sag when she doesn't have a bra on.
Then she turns the TV off.. puts on some music... Alice in Chains - Jar of Flies... great fucking CD. She lights all these candles then gets back on me straddling me.
She does her thing.. I won't get into too much detail here.. but she started at my neck.. worked her way down... but didn't touch my cock until pretty much everything else had been covered... by far one of the best blowjobs in my life... she went real slow at times... didn't neglect the balls.. played with my ass.. it was as good as it gets, and she swallowed every drop.
I asked her if she wanted me to do anything for her.. she said "no, I like to please" but she did have me check out how wet her pussy was and show me her collection of glass dildoes.
I hung out for a bit after, playing with her hair, rubbing her back... then I said I gotta bail.. it was nearly 2am and I work tomorrow.
I could definitely pay a repeat visit on that anytime soon. She's a curvy brunette, shoulder length straight hair, D or DD tits, aobut 5'4 or 5'4" .. she's older then me.. i am 27.. she is 31. She was with one guy for most of her life then 2 years ago he fucked her over big time.. left her.. she went bankrupt.. etc. etc and since then has basically said fuck long term relationships.
So on the way home I was feeling great, even now I am going to bed feeling great. Not thinking about my ex... or at least not missing her for the moment. It felt good to have another conquest. I was beginning to think I had lost the touch.
wutangnomo
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Dude she probably just finished giving her roommate a blowjob. lol
Looks like you're getting better though. Atta boy! hehe
Looks like you're getting better though. Atta boy! hehe
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Ulcasterdropout
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I'm happy for you....
Sounds like your comming around. You're much stronger
then you thought you were....
Sounds like your comming around. You're much stronger
then you thought you were....
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Ulcasterdropout
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I have no idea why this was a double post????
delete if you want mods..........
delete if you want mods..........
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nothing wrong with a good hummer, helps clear your head....you do know you were fishing in the bottom of the barrel though....31, bankrupt, roommate etc.
Keep this one in your cell phone for a while until you emotionally get your legs back underneath you.
Keep this one in your cell phone for a while until you emotionally get your legs back underneath you.
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Dude this is just more evidence that you were gone way before you even knew it...Lestat said:
As for your story of last nights romantic adventures- good for you bro... glad to see you back in the saddle... awesome humor to boot.. tell me again why I never wanted to live in CA during my young single days? (I am only 29 even now tho, just not single)
Oh and next time get a pic! (of her)
Yeah man, DEFINITELY fishing the bottom of the barrel, I'll be the first to admit that.MattTheSkywalker said:
I had to go for the low hanging fruit first... I didn't want to risk getting any other rejections now matter how small because it would just make me feel like even more shit. Although this doesn't fix anything, it was a good short term ego boost.
I gotta say, this thread was one of the most beneficial ones I've ever posted. I've had multiple people PM me saying that they are going through the exact same thing right now... that the feeling I am describing match theirs to a tee.
I've got a breakfast date tomorrow with someone new. I'll keep you all posted.
I've got a breakfast date tomorrow with someone new. I'll keep you all posted.
GoldenDelicious
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yeah well my sympathy for you just returned to zero 
Robert Jan
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Who cares how anyone fails just try it.
Lestat said:
I think superdave is the online dating authority here.
In a big city, the online stuff is probably pretty decent, lots of people etc. I know some 'normal' people who have tried it with decent results....everyone I know says they got lots of dates, lots of sex, and a big fat bag of nothing six months later.
Have fun with it.
Lestat,
Just be casual about it and you will be cool. I did the online thing once a few years back for like a month. As long as your not looking for anything serious you won't be disappointed. I did that AOL free service thing, so maybe that had something to do with my personal experience. But from what I could tell, after 20+ dates, it's mostly just a sex service. The women I met were freaky, and I could tell there was a lot of bouncing around.
Don't give them your number!!!! No fucking way. Make up a disposable e-mail addy and cell number until you know them. Anyway that's true of most dating nowadays. I learned that the hard way.
Just be casual about it and you will be cool. I did the online thing once a few years back for like a month. As long as your not looking for anything serious you won't be disappointed. I did that AOL free service thing, so maybe that had something to do with my personal experience. But from what I could tell, after 20+ dates, it's mostly just a sex service. The women I met were freaky, and I could tell there was a lot of bouncing around.
Don't give them your number!!!! No fucking way. Make up a disposable e-mail addy and cell number until you know them. Anyway that's true of most dating nowadays. I learned that the hard way.
thanks for the advice. I'll let everyone know how it turns out.
Update on the breakup...
been a full week now and no contact with the ex. It is still tough.. I still think of her all the time, though not as much as before. I'm still kinda just shocked and still wondering what the hell happened. Appetite is coming back a bit though and I have been able to enjoy some things that I normally do and I sleep better. Its been 2 full weeks since the breakup.
Update on the breakup...
been a full week now and no contact with the ex. It is still tough.. I still think of her all the time, though not as much as before. I'm still kinda just shocked and still wondering what the hell happened. Appetite is coming back a bit though and I have been able to enjoy some things that I normally do and I sleep better. Its been 2 full weeks since the breakup.
Big Rick Rock
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Lestat said:
Good for you mah knuwgga!
PS: If you want to get some pussy online Adultfriendfinder.com is the way to go. If you want to get something serious going, I think the other PG13 sites might be better for you.
Its not tough to get pussy.. even in day to day life.. what I find is hard is meeting quality women.. women who I wanna hang out with for more then just a couple weeks and then I'm done... I don't have my hopes up, but I'm thinking maybe doing the online thing will expose me to some more quality women.Big Rick Rock said:
Big Rick Rock
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Lestat said:
I agree that most "quality" women are either taken or emotionally unavailable because some asshole fucked them over, now they hate all guys...
I hope you find what you are looking for. I’m not really into casual one night stands. I’m a 5 night stand kind of dude… The it is time to move on
well ultimately I'm looking for someone who I can bond with, get really close to, share most of my life with...Big Rick Rock said:I agree that most "quality" women are either taken or emotionally unavailable because some asshole fucked them over, now they hate all guys...
I hope you find what you are looking for. I’m not really into casual one night stands. I’m a 5 night stand kind of dude… The it is time to move on
but in the meantime some good times and fun sex will suit just nicely.
I nearly sent this today as a response to the last email she sent me a week ago...... but at the last minute I didn't.
Thank you. I'm not ignoring you either, I'm just trying to figure out
what is best for both of us. It takes more self control then I ever
though I had no to email you, call you, IM you, etc. I just saw an
email from you show up on a mail list at work and I can't describe
the feeling it made me feel in my heart.
I'm still left with a lot of wondering, unanswered questions, and that
type of thing and I figured that just ignoring it, removing the
reminders of you, and blocking it from my mind would somehow suffocate
the feelings so much that one day it won't feel like this anymore.
That the feelings will be dead.
I really want to send this to you...... but I wont.
Thank you. I'm not ignoring you either, I'm just trying to figure out
what is best for both of us. It takes more self control then I ever
though I had no to email you, call you, IM you, etc. I just saw an
email from you show up on a mail list at work and I can't describe
the feeling it made me feel in my heart.
I'm still left with a lot of wondering, unanswered questions, and that
type of thing and I figured that just ignoring it, removing the
reminders of you, and blocking it from my mind would somehow suffocate
the feelings so much that one day it won't feel like this anymore.
That the feelings will be dead.
I really want to send this to you...... but I wont.
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Ulcasterdropout
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You got a BJ like less then a week ago. You haven't lost that much game...Lestat said:
Anyways, it's better to lose it then to never had it at all like this lamer
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strongsmartsexy
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Lestat said:
And this too shall pass...
strongsmartsexy
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chordz said:
That passes as well. Men tend to concern themselves with their ex being sexually involved with another man, where women tend to concern themselves that their ex can love another woman.
A few months from now it won't matter to you either way. You'll go on and develop a relationship with someone else and then look back on that and be happy you went through it to become who you are at that point to have the relationship you have then.
GoldenDelicious
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im still here, and youre doing better than me mate 
Big Rick Rock
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strongsmartsexy said:
So fucking true...
strongsmartsexy
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Lestat said:
When those feelings hit, do something positive for yourself. Re-enforce yourself and all that is good about you. WRITE IT DOWN each time. Keep re-enforcing those feelings and emotions with good things about YOU.
I try... but it just doesn't seem to help...strongsmartsexy said:
I remember when Kurt Cobain killed himself... I never could understand how or why he would do something like that.. he was a huge success, had a wife, a child, accomplished what many people couldn't.. yet he was still SO UNHAPPY with his life that he chose to end it.
Now I'd never do such a drastic thing, however I can now totally understand that feeling. Despite all my successes, all the good things I have going on in life, even the women that have been and are interested in me... it doesn't seem to mean much at all.. it feels like shit because the person I did love, for whatever reason no longer loves me. It makes it so hard to enjoy anything else in life... and I'm not sure exactly why.
On the same token, when we were dating... I was on a constant high.. even if I wasn't with her, the thought of her made me feel so good, just knowing what I had.. it made life so sweet.
strongsmartsexy
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Lestat said:
You need to feel ^^^this^^^ way about you! Then you're ready to step into another relationship. YOU are the most important person in your universe. Get to that point with you! Start NOW!
velvett said:
check your PM.
GoldenDelicious
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MUCH better than me
Big Rick Rock
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velvett said:
Don't let him fool you babe.... A man saying "I'm emotionally unavailable" is a nice way of saying "I want to play the field".
Big Rick Rock said:
I was refering to another thread that Matt and I were on - I know what it "really" means, believe me I've figured that out pre thirtes and denied it all through my 20's.
Men have been calling me "emotionally unavailable" for years and it was never about playing the field it was about just not being interested enough.
GoldenDelicious
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lestat one day ill tell you some details, and give you some dates. youre doing great
i kicked a 16 year old (or had she just turned 17? fuck knows) blonde who was taller tahn me out of bed because i just couldnt go through with it. too upset.
yeah all you guys can laugh at that, i dont give a toss. sex isnt something i have to jump at. i do it when i want or not at all
anyway, its the weekend. have fun
i kicked a 16 year old (or had she just turned 17? fuck knows) blonde who was taller tahn me out of bed because i just couldnt go through with it. too upset.
yeah all you guys can laugh at that, i dont give a toss. sex isnt something i have to jump at. i do it when i want or not at all
anyway, its the weekend. have fun
Big Rick Rock
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velvett said:Men have been calling me "emotionally unavailable" for years and it was never about playing the field it was about just not being interested enough.
Not interested enough? you the same girl that dated those fat, ugly, dumb dudes?
I remember once somebody posted a link to a vid of a purple hippo dacing to the "thong song", you said the hippo looked like a guy you use to date... ( ? )
Velvett's ex:
