got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Take some time for yourself! Remember who YOU are and celebrate that. Use this time to re-evaluate yourself and your life and where you're going next. The hurt will lessen over time...

I'm trying man, but its still hard to not view everything in the context of her.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

to be honest im still in the deperate phase where I want her back.. where I still think that somehow love will conquer all.... that her feelings may have changed, but they can change back.. that this is all just temporary... but she's told me she's not in love with me anymore...

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Re: got dumped..

Involve yourself in as much other shit as you can.

Hang in there, lots of people out there. Grass is always greener...you;re single now...it equals freedom from her, even if you do not want that today.

Some of my most productive times occur post let down. I wrote my books last time this happened. Find something to do with all this energy and the pain will melt away.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Re: got dumped..

I'm trying man, but its still hard to not view everything in the context of her.

I completely understand that. She's been an integral part of your life and will likely always be an integral part of your memories. It's a good time to start viewing things in terms of who you are and what adventures you're going on next.

 

[presguy]

Re: got dumped..

Well Brian what I've found that helps getting over that "dumped" feeling is to go out and fuck as many hot sluts possible. This will help temporarily camouflage all those negative & hurtfull emotions your feeling at the moment. Eventually once you'r out of that rut, you can then beign to date "quality" women again and you'll be good to go. Time seems to heal all. Good luck bro.

when i got dumped i didnt want to shag anyone but the chick that dumped me

 

[The Wenis]

Re: got dumped..

Based on the the way i feel and how i was feeling towards the end, i
do feel that our time together is behind us now. I cant say anything
is for sure or forever, but that is what i feel and what my heart and
gut are telling me at this point. I dont like writing the answer to
this becuase it gives you the ability to read and re-read and maybe
reinterpret every word, but its too hard for me to keep having these
talks with you in person.

Maybe it doesn't matter to you, maybe it does, but i cherish you as a
person and that is something that i know will be true forever. if i
am lucky enough to be able to call you a friend i would feel truly
fortunate.
_________

OMG. women must have a damn book that they get this shit out of. the first chick i really fell for sent me a letter almost identical to this which i "read and re-read and maybe reinterpreted" alot. aaaarrrrrrr.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Involve yourself in as much other shit as you can.

Hang in there, lots of people out there. Grass is always greener...you;re single now...it equals freedom from her, even if you do not want that today.

Some of my most productive times occur post let down. I wrote my books last time this happened. Find something to do with all this energy and the pain will melt away.

thank man.. i'll try.

Another example... i figured sweet, I'll devote more time to the gym.. make sure my workouts are focused and quality.. even more so then before...

but my first workout after things ended was terrible.. why?

Her and I used to workout together at least once a week.. she got into weight training largly because of me and we'd spot each other and what not.. she'd work her workout schedule sometimes so we'd intentially be there at the same time just so she could see me..... that felt good. Now I go there and it feels fucking empty.. it all reminds me of her.

I'd change gyms.. but I use the one I have here at work.. its free.... unfortunately she works here too and uses the same gym.

Luckily we don't see each other during the day with our regular jobs.. we're in completely different buildings.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

I completely understand that. She's been an integral part of your life and will likely always be an integral part of your memories. It's a good time to start viewing things in terms of who you are and what adventures you're going on next.

I'm a fucking pussy.. i nearly cried reading that. Where'd my fuckin nuts go??

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Re: got dumped..

Sorry to hear about this hun if I could I would give you a big hug. Break ups are hard especially when you are the one getting dumped. Time is the best healer by far.

 

[Mr. Black]

Re: got dumped..

when i got dumped i didnt want to shag anyone but the chick that dumped me

I suppose it could be tough. I personally have never had a problem fucking new women post-break up as most relationships seemed to end quite bitterly, but sometimes you gotta suck it up and do what ya gotta do. Sex with sluts seem to increase seratonin levels which help you through the transition of recovery.