That passes as well. Men tend to concern themselves with their ex being sexually involved with another man, where women tend to concern themselves that their ex can love another woman.
A few months from now it won't matter to you either way. You'll go on and develop a relationship with someone else and then look back on that and be happy you went through it to become who you are at that point to have the relationship you have then.
When those feelings hit, do something positive for yourself. Re-enforce yourself and all that is good about you. WRITE IT DOWN each time. Keep re-enforcing those feelings and emotions with good things about YOU.
When those feelings hit, do something positive for yourself. Re-enforce yourself and all that is good about you. WRITE IT DOWN each time. Keep re-enforcing those feelings and emotions with good things about YOU.
I remember when Kurt Cobain killed himself... I never could understand how or why he would do something like that.. he was a huge success, had a wife, a child, accomplished what many people couldn't.. yet he was still SO UNHAPPY with his life that he chose to end it.
Now I'd never do such a drastic thing, however I can now totally understand that feeling. Despite all my successes, all the good things I have going on in life, even the women that have been and are interested in me... it doesn't seem to mean much at all.. it feels like shit because the person I did love, for whatever reason no longer loves me. It makes it so hard to enjoy anything else in life... and I'm not sure exactly why.
On the same token, when we were dating... I was on a constant high.. even if I wasn't with her, the thought of her made me feel so good, just knowing what I had.. it made life so sweet.
On the same token, when we were dating... I was on a constant high.. even if I wasn't with her, the thought of her made me feel so good, just knowing what I had.. it made life so sweet.
You need to feel ^^^this^^^ way about you! Then you're ready to step into another relationship. YOU are the most important person in your universe. Get to that point with you! Start NOW!
You need to feel ^^^this^^^ way about you! Then you're ready to step into another relationship. YOU are the most important person in your universe. Get to that point with you! Start NOW!