got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[MattTheSkywalker]

I dunno how you guys feel about online dating.. but I made a profile on match.com and my email is blowing up with responses after just one day!

I think superdave is the online dating authority here.

In a big city, the online stuff is probably pretty decent, lots of people etc. I know some 'normal' people who have tried it with decent results....everyone I know says they got lots of dates, lots of sex, and a big fat bag of nothing six months later.

Have fun with it.

 

[jerseyart]

Lestat,

Just be casual about it and you will be cool. I did the online thing once a few years back for like a month. As long as your not looking for anything serious you won't be disappointed. I did that AOL free service thing, so maybe that had something to do with my personal experience. But from what I could tell, after 20+ dates, it's mostly just a sex service. The women I met were freaky, and I could tell there was a lot of bouncing around.

Don't give them your number!!!! No fucking way. Make up a disposable e-mail addy and cell number until you know them. Anyway that's true of most dating nowadays. I learned that the hard way.

 

[Lestat]

thanks for the advice. I'll let everyone know how it turns out.

Update on the breakup...

been a full week now and no contact with the ex. It is still tough.. I still think of her all the time, though not as much as before. I'm still kinda just shocked and still wondering what the hell happened. Appetite is coming back a bit though and I have been able to enjoy some things that I normally do and I sleep better. Its been 2 full weeks since the breakup.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

thanks for the advice. I'll let everyone know how it turns out.

Update on the breakup...

been a full week now and no contact with the ex.

Good for you mah knuwgga!


PS: If you want to get some pussy online Adultfriendfinder.com is the way to go. If you want to get something serious going, I think the other PG13 sites might be better for you.

 

[Becoming]

Dude I so wish I had known about that online shit back when I was single... soo much bootay to be accessed so quickly... hit that shit up before you get to old to take advantage....

 

[Lestat]

Good for you mah knuwgga!


PS: If you want to get some pussy online Adultfriendfinder.com is the way to go. If you want to get something serious going, I think the other PG13 sites might be better for you.

Its not tough to get pussy.. even in day to day life.. what I find is hard is meeting quality women.. women who I wanna hang out with for more then just a couple weeks and then I'm done... I don't have my hopes up, but I'm thinking maybe doing the online thing will expose me to some more quality women.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

Its not tough to get pussy.. even in day to day life.. what I find is hard is meeting quality women.. women who I wanna hang out with for more then just a couple weeks and then I'm done... I don't have my hopes up, but I'm thinking maybe doing the online thing will expose me to some more quality women.

I agree that most "quality" women are either taken or emotionally unavailable because some asshole fucked them over, now they hate all guys...

I hope you find what you are looking for. I’m not really into casual one night stands. I’m a 5 night stand kind of dude… The it is time to move on

 

[Lestat]

I agree that most "quality" women are either taken or emotionally unavailable because some asshole fucked them over, now they hate all guys...

I hope you find what you are looking for. I’m not really into casual one night stands. I’m a 5 night stand kind of dude… The it is time to move on

well ultimately I'm looking for someone who I can bond with, get really close to, share most of my life with...

but in the meantime some good times and fun sex will suit just nicely.

 

[Lestat]

yo golden.. how you hanging in there man?

I still wake up thinking about her. And so many things throughout the day remind me of her. I wish the feelings would just die already.

 

[Lestat]

I nearly sent this today as a response to the last email she sent me a week ago...... but at the last minute I didn't.

Thank you. I'm not ignoring you either, I'm just trying to figure out
what is best for both of us. It takes more self control then I ever
though I had no to email you, call you, IM you, etc. I just saw an
email from you show up on a mail list at work and I can't describe
the feeling it made me feel in my heart.

I'm still left with a lot of wondering, unanswered questions, and that
type of thing and I figured that just ignoring it, removing the
reminders of you, and blocking it from my mind would somehow suffocate
the feelings so much that one day it won't feel like this anymore.
That the feelings will be dead.

I really want to send this to you...... but I wont.