got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[Longhorn85]

Re: got dumped..

Yeah, I have a Masters degree.. an M.S. not an MBA. I've gotten job offers in other states for 75-85K range but wasn't ready at the time to make a move across the country... part of the reason for that was because I had a great girlfriend here.... I may start looking more aggressively now.

And yeah I suppose there are a lot of great looking ladies here, but there are a lot of good looking people in general... so competition is always high.

Yeah, competition is tough. From what you've said here, you're competitive though. Remember this: your stock goes up as your age and salary goes up: if you stay in shape that is. Just TRY to stay single. It won't be easy.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Re: got dumped..

thanks man.

I woke up with her on my mind again this moring

You're going to do that for a while. Try altering your morning routine a bit and see if that doesn't help.

 

[chesty]

Re: got dumped..

That is exactly how my wife would talk. I think it is over. I just have those feelings for you any more at this moment. I don't know if I can ever feel like that again or want to. Or go there if I do get those feelings, etc. If I feel them I will act on them. I will keep an open mind etc.

I think she has someone else she is seeing and is too chicken to tell you.

Depending on how long you have been with her it could be a while before you feel normal. It has taken me a long time and it still hurts.

I would take her back in a heartbeat if she asks, but hopefully for both of us if it came to that it would be before I met someone else special.

Good luck bro. PM me if you want to talk. I know exactly what you are going through.

 

[Longhorn85]

Re: got dumped..

Anyway... he would be chilling in the club, and when a girl would walk near or be standing near him he'd say:

Him: "Would you like to dance?"
Her: "No"
Him: "Get the fuck away from me then"

Classic.

Awesome. So how did some of the women react to this?

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Re: got dumped..

Awesome. So how did some of the women react to this?

probably bout the same as:
boy: do you want to dance
girl: no
boy: im sorry, you misheard me- i said, you look fat in that dress

im going to use it though

 

[Longhorn85]

Re: got dumped..

Have you ever turned a woman down who asked you to dance for a legitimate reason (like having to go to the bathroom or waiting for someone?) you might as well give her a major insult given the way they react.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

Re: got dumped..

Have you ever turned a woman down who asked you to dance for a legitimate reason (like having to go to the bathroom or waiting for someone?) you might as well give her a major insult given the way they react.

I have a few times.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Awesome. So how did some of the women react to this?

basically with shock... by the time they realized what just happened there was no point in reacting.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Yeah, competition is tough. From what you've said here, you're competitive though. Remember this: your stock goes up as your age and salary goes up: if you stay in shape that is. Just TRY to stay single. It won't be easy.

I hear what you are saying. And you are right, its tough to stay single, I usually don't stay single for long. But I'm usually not all that satisfied either.. it takes a month or so even start getting to know someone... and 3-4 to really even get a sense of who they are and are they compatable with you... I hate bouncing from girl to girl just trying to find someone that really clicks. I'm not super picky, but I have a couple key things I look for:
1) Intelligence - not someone who thinks they are smart, or has been told they are so many times by their friends and family they have somehow convinced themselves. Someone who is just plain intelligent.
2) Fit - you don't have to have a knockout perfect 10 body. Just care about yourself and what you look like, that usually means you look half decent. You don't have to be in the gym 5 days a week, but a couple times would be nice.

 

[velvett]

Re: got dumped..

telling her you are ok could surprise her. If it sounds like you are getting on with your life, she may think 'shit, he's gotten over me quickly' and it will turn the tables on her, she won't like that feeling.......it's a bit of reverse psychology.

That could work - or she'll just go pyscho on him after he finds a new girl.