got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[Big Rick Rock]

Re: got dumped..

That could work - or she'll just go pyscho on him after he finds a new girl.

Yup... Some women just LOVE to sabotage your new relationships... I had an ex-gf right out offer me to "suck your dick and ride it the way you like it"... The bitch wasn't even looking my way till she seen me with a new GF, and then all of the sudden she had the balls to come to my house and offer me some poonhtang. Women can be crazy like that.

 

[jh1]

Re: got dumped..

Yup... Some women just LOVE to sabotage your new relationships... I had an ex-gf right out offer me to "suck your dick and ride it the way you like it"... The bitch wasn't even looking my way till she seen me with a new GF, and then all of the sudden she had the balls to come to my house and offer me some poonhtang. Women can be crazy like that.

Yup.

Take it from me on this one... Look up my 'Psycho Ali' threads for background. Bitch is crazy... won't leave me alone...

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

I must sound like a broken record and a pussy.. but I'm bummin again.

I feel alone again. I see myself as empty now, missing a big part of me. This sucks. I was doing really well today in general. Able to keep my mind off her. But then it just comes back hard and feels like a stab in the heart. Its so hard for me right now not to call or email her.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

so tough not to go back and read old emails either... from a happier time.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Re: got dumped..

delete the emails, delete the letters, throw away pictures, or get someone to send them to her. no contact, no rememberance, no thought of happy times.

happy times = ignorant times

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

its hard to control my thoughts man.. especially when I am going to bed alone just wondering what the fuck happened.

 

[Spartacus]

Re: got dumped..

Talk about a shitty fucking feeling..... now I understand why that dude with the wife that left him for some other dude is all over the boards posting... you feel like you just need some release...

My ex.. who broke up with me Saturday night.. sent me this today via email when I asked how she was feeling about things, etc.

_______
Based on the the way i feel and how i was feeling towards the end, i
do feel that our time together is behind us now. I cant say anything
is for sure or forever, but that is what i feel and what my heart and
gut are telling me at this point. I dont like writing the answer to
this becuase it gives you the ability to read and re-read and maybe
reinterpret every word, but its too hard for me to keep having these
talks with you in person.

Maybe it doesn't matter to you, maybe it does, but i cherish you as a
person and that is something that i know will be true forever. if i
am lucky enough to be able to call you a friend i would feel truly
fortunate.

Brian, it kills me everytime i think of you hurting but i know you are
the strongest and best suited to deal with what comes your way and i
know 100% for sure that you will find happiness.

also, i've been amazed at the depth and articulate nature of your
emails. holy shit. you can write too!
_________

I'm sorry people,but this thread was getting so much action I checked in,and after doing so and reading the initial thread I have to say "I'd have cut bait long ago"

 

[Spartacus]

Re: got dumped..

I've tried to work myself into this mentallity.. really... but let me tell you why I think this is hard...

1) this was the first chick I ever dated that worked out regularly
2) this was the first chick I dated that watched what we ate more closely then I did!
3) this is the first chick I ever dated that i felt was actually even smarter then me (for example she got a 760 out of 800 on the GMAT.. she went to Duke)
4) this is the first chick that really accepted me and all my little fucked up problems... I'm a pretty normal guy, but there are a couple things that just really irk me and she completely understood (e.g I hate strawberries... I hate gum..)
5) sex with this girl was killer.... she knew exactly what I loved and would often go a whole session just pleasing me.... plus, this was a first.. this girl would cum pretty much EVERY time we had sex.. at least once.. many times more... I've had girls that its fucking once in a blue moon that they cum and thats with a lot of extra help.. or they only cum from oral... etc.
6) her family was awesome.. he parents and siblings loved me.. her little brother looked to me like a big brother.. her dad invited me on trips and shit with him... her mom would have had me over for every meal of the week if I wanted and when she did have me over she'd feed me like 5 turkey burgers.. or a pound of fish.. you couldn't have asked for more.
7) she got along with all my friends.. Im 27.. she is 23... I have a lot of friends.. mostly couples and she went on trips with me and them and fit right in and my friend and their significant others loved her.
8) most importantly.. she just made me feel fucking happy every day.. i felt loved every second that we were "together" meaning even if we were not together in person I just knew.. i had the ultimate sense of security.
9) normally when i date chicks.. there is always something missing.. I get that feeling that this is all so cool.. EXCEPT.... or I WISH this one thing was just different.. or I WISH i felt this certain way.. with this girl there was none of that... I never once seriously questioned things.. I knew from day 1 that this girl was a 100% keeper
10) she wasn't drama filled at all.. I can't stand that.. having to constantly deal with some stupid drama.. that burns me out fast... there was none of that.. we had a couple times where we talked about "us" that was emotional.. but that is to be expected and we were always stronger each time after.. but no petty bullshit here.

there is so much more too.. the thought of finding that in someone else seems so impossible to me now.

I stand corrected,that is a most illusive situation...

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

What set me off thinking today was...

This girl works at my company, but in a different building a block over, so we don't really see or talk to each other in our day to day jobs.

She did come over to my building today. I didn't know she was coming, and she didn't stop by my office (a good thing).

However, one of my friends there who also became my exes friend by association was talking to me and said that she saw her today for a moment.

That made my stomach go funny again, I don't know why, but it just made me think of her in my building... and how sad it is that she can't even stop by and say hi now.. I know it wouldn't be good for her too.. but the situation is just sad... before she'd stop by my office everytime she was in my building.. sometimes leave a cute note on my car... now we have to ignore each other.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

I stand corrected,that is a most illusive situation...

there are some links to pics of her and I.... my "love goggles" have been on for so long I can't look at her objectively... she's beautiful to me, although now that we are broken up some of my friends are telling me differently. You never know if they are just saying that to make you feel better though.