Going through a huge seperation...Man this sucks

[Mike P.T.]

Your a respected member of the anabolic board, so nobody would consider this as stupid. We all go through periods like this son, just remember that whatever happens happens, it is out of your hands. If you two were meant to be together then you will eventually fall back in place.

Exactly. Good luck bro and keep your head up.

BTW - If things don't work out between the two of you just no that tommorow is another day and as long as you learn from this experience and grow from it, you don't lose. I know this is not what you need to hear but you will see as time passes. If things do work out again though then good for u.

 

[muscleup]

I'm out for the night, can't stay in the apartment to long to many memories flying around here...

 

[muscleup]

Exactly. Good luck bro and keep your head up.

BTW - If things don't work out between the two of you just no that tommorow is another day and as long as you learn from this experience and grow from it, you don't lose. I know this is not what you need to hear but you will see as time passes. If things do work out again though then good for u.

Thanks my good man.

 

[szof]

I went through a similar situation about a year ago. We were going out for 3 years. she was really a great girl: beautiful, perfect little body, never, not once played games with me, never did something to piss me off (except get needy for a commitment towards the end), did everything for me, took care of me when i was sick from sust, bought me protein and a foreman grill too , great sex too.

Then she (and her mom especially) put pressure on me to commit and I started having "doubts". I was 22 at the time so you can imagine. We broke up 3x because of my "doubts" before she finally gave up on me. She has been seeing another guy for about a year now (started seeing him 1 month after we broke up). Obviously a rebound guy, but whatever...

I'd like to say the pain goes away but it doesn't. My greatest difficulty is when I am with a new girl I can't help but compare my ex to her and I end up dumping the new girl inevitably. You can only grow stronger from it, stronger meaning more callous. Wish you luck bro.

 

[me2dammit]

It may sound imature or

primitive, but thats why I never put all my eggs in one basket. I imagine its devestating to be with one woman and build with her and then have her say "BYE"!! My ego is to big for that shit.

I have several women I love and who love me and prefer to keep it that way. I hope everything gets better for you and know, no matter what, its not easy, but you learn from your mistakes. Don't let women change you. You wont be happy. They should accept your good qualities and your flaws. And always keep them guessing, once they can figure you out, you are no longer a challenge or 'thrill' to them and they usually stray. Drop some roses on them a few times a month. Bubble baths with candles. Foot massage. Next time when nothing but shity games come on, take her out on sunday, she will think you are god because you gave up football. LOL Simple sweet shit goes along way. Not saying you didn't do this, I don't know, but 9 times out of 10 if you do, you should have no problems unless she is a head case. LOL

Meanwhile get in the gym, Iron is always there for you bruh. It will never leave you. And you just might find the love of your life in there.

 

[akathegame]

Bros,

Women are a bad thing period. You need them to get you rocks off, but they are the fucking anti-christ. Nver get too attached to them bros, they are fickle, unreliable and so self-centered. I have plenty of bitches I throw the bone, but I doubt I'll ever care more deeply about a woman, other than my ma and sis, much less marry one. I am a strong dependent MAN and I'll be damned if I'm gonna let some whore-in-the -making get half a chance to burn me. No one, and I MEAN NOONE, is gonna have the power to drag my feelings and life into the dumps. This means never trusting a woman b/c no matter how well you think you know them and think you are in love, they are a emotional bomb just ticking away. Don't tell me she is the best and you trust her cuz I've seen bros who had what I thought was the perfect relationship with the perfect woman, but they still ended up an emotional train wreck. No sir, not for me. I don't hate women and it may surprise you to learn that I haven't personally had a bad break up, but I'm a guy who learns from the world around me and I am smart enough to know that the best policy is to keep your heart protected. Save the romance for Shakespeare bros, the best move is to fuckem and forget em. Otherwise, you are playing with fire and it sucks to get burned. Who wants their training screwed up cuz you've got a female on your mind? Be strong bros and muscleup, you'll be fine with time, but don't forget the feeling and protect yourself, bangem but don't love em. As always, Bros before Hoes. Out.

 

[The Terminator]

Times heals bro. That's really all I can tell you.

 

[Dantes]

The only way I've ever gotten over an Ex is by finding a new one.

 

[siceone]

Keep your head up man...

go do something you have been wanting to do for a long time...

and if youc an take a vacation I sugesst Cali

good luck brotha

 

[Silent Method]

Bros,

Women are a bad thing period. You need them to get you rocks off, but they are the fucking anti-christ. Nver get too attached to them bros, they are fickle, unreliable and so self-centered. I have plenty of bitches I throw the bone, but I doubt I'll ever care more deeply about a woman, other than my ma and sis, much less marry one. I am a strong dependent MAN and I'll be damned if I'm gonna let some whore-in-the -making get half a chance to burn me. No one, and I MEAN NOONE, is gonna have the power to drag my feelings and life into the dumps. This means never trusting a woman b/c no matter how well you think you know them and think you are in love, they are a emotional bomb just ticking away. Don't tell me she is the best and you trust her cuz I've seen bros who had what I thought was the perfect relationship with the perfect woman, but they still ended up an emotional train wreck. No sir, not for me. I don't hate women and it may surprise you to learn that I haven't personally had a bad break up, but I'm a guy who learns from the world around me and I am smart enough to know that the best policy is to keep your heart protected. Save the romance for Shakespeare bros, the best move is to fuckem and forget em. Otherwise, you are playing with fire and it sucks to get burned. Who wants their training screwed up cuz you've got a female on your mind? Be strong bros and muscleup, you'll be fine with time, but don't forget the feeling and protect yourself, bangem but don't love em. As always, Bros before Hoes. Out.

This was just one big "look at me, I'm severely insecure" post.


Muscleup bro, I wish comfort. It's going to take time, but you'll get there. BTW, 5 years and straight on to another guy? I'm sure your love for her is real, but she's not the best girl for you. (Do not try to replace her. Before YOU attempt to find another love, ride it out until your mind is clear.)

Cry, be catatonic at work, go out for walks, listen to some good tunes and cry some more. Do what you need to do. I believe this type of pain is not unlike the pain we inflict on ourselves in the gym - you will heal up stronger than before. The present is gloomy, the future is bright. Peace bro...