GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently its .

[shrimp poboy]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

Before you laughed at how she looked in her cervical collar you had plenty of kind, compassionate things you could have said and done that would have made her feelings for you, if anything, grow.

Now, you're fucked hard. The best you can do is immediately send an extremely extravagant bunch of flowers with an enormous apology note asking if there is anything she needs and telling her, repeatedly, how sorry you are for what happened and then wait for her to contact you. You really want to be smart, if she lives alone, offer to pay for maid and laundry service and have someone cook for her, that might encourage her to stay off her feet.

She just started returning my text and the last one said"I just want to go back to work and live my life"Fuk me

I offered to do anything and everything for her MM shes so pissed at me right now its horrible.

 

[stosstruppe]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

Lol at the people believing this.

 

[musclemom]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

She just started returning my text and the last one said"I just want to go back to work and live my life"Fuk me

I offered to do anything and everything for her MM shes so pissed at me right now its horrible.

I told you, you hurt her on two levels. You may never fix it, sorry, but I suppose you can try. Take a lesson from this, Shrimp, chicks are not guys and most cannot be treated like guys, there is some shit they can't tolerate. For future reference, something like this, you can't be the first one to laugh (which you could do with a guy buddy) if she had started laughing about it, you could have joined in but not the other way around, you stepped in deep doo-doo.

I would suggest you text her back that she can't go to work until the doctor says it's okay or she might aggrivate the injury or it could take longer to recover. Tell her if she needs a note to give to her job she could call her doctor and you offer to go pick it up from the hospital and take it to her place of business. Turn into the world's most compassionate human being. Try to anticipate shit that needs doing, things like asking her does she need prescriptions dropped off/picked up, shit like that. Remember the flowers and the apology note and think about offering to do or have stuff done for her.

Odds are, you kiss her ass a bit, she'll forgive you. Probably depends on how fucked up her neck is and how many times you've belittled her emotions in the past. Chicks keep a mental scoreboard, you know. All the times that you hurt their feelings, all the times you forgot about them or disregarded them, they don't forget shit like that (we can't help it, it's hardwired). The smart man periodically does something unexpected and truly thoughtful, and that single act of genuine kindness usually causes the bad stuff on the board to be wiped clean. But if you make the wrong mistake before the bad stuff on the board has been wiped clean you just might have committed the sin that breaks the camel's back, so to speak. Most breakups are not caused by one catastrophic event, but a series of small bullshit things that just kept piling up.

 

[musclemom]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

Lol at the people believing this.

Maybe so, if that's the case then he's a complete POS. Personally, I've decided on the philosophy on the boards to believe people (well, with the obvious exception of 7 figure salaries, supermodel wives/GFs and 15" cocks). If they're liars it comes out one way or another and I just Ignore them. But until then, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt.

 

[canadianhitman]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

I'm having a hard time with this. Your description implies that her neck was not bearing any weight when this happened....that it happened when her muscles tensed up during orgasm. That, to me, means it's nothing but a goddamn muscle cramp...a pulled muscle...the kind of shit we get in the gym from time to time. And if that's the case, she's being a gigantic drama queen. Yeah, it hurts...but its not your fault in any way, shape, or form...it's HER FAULT for being 1)out of shape with stringy weak little neck muscles or 2) being dehydrated, causing her to cramp up. Either way, some muscle relaxers and a couple of days of rest will fix it up...it's not like she herniated a disc because you were ass-slamming her in the piledriver position or something. Geez.

 

[shrimp poboy]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

Maybe so, if that's the case then he's a complete POS. Personally, I've decided on the philosophy on the boards to believe people (well, with the obvious exception of 7 figure salaries, supermodel wives/GFs and 15" cocks). If they're liars it comes out one way or another and I just Ignore them. But until then, I give everyone the benefit of the doubt.

MM thanks you have given some great advice.I would not make this up her neck is not broken its just really sore from me being rough and the fact that when she has an orgasm she has sometimes a mild epileptic type fit with her neck bouncing around the 2 combined pulled it out of line i feel horrible.

 

[miplank]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

lololol

 

[puddlemonkey]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

poboy cannot be trusted

 

[musclemom]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

I'm having a hard time with this. Your description implies that her neck was not bearing any weight when this happened....that it happened when her muscles tensed up during orgasm. That, to me, means it's nothing but a goddamn muscle cramp...a pulled muscle...the kind of shit we get in the gym from time to time. And if that's the case, she's being a gigantic drama queen. Yeah, it hurts...but its not your fault in any way, shape, or form...it's HER FAULT for being 1)out of shape with stringy weak little neck muscles or 2) being dehydrated, causing her to cramp up. Either way, some muscle relaxers and a couple of days of rest will fix it up...it's not like she herniated a disc because you were ass-slamming her in the piledriver position or something. Geez.

Don't justify his boorish behavior, that's right up there with blaming the rape victim. The issue isn't her pain, the doctors acknowlege the pain is there and exists and are treating it. He mocked her pain and the treatment for it, and all you're doing is giving justifying what he did to her. You're telling him it's okay he laughed at her suffering, no matter how mild or severe it is. Not one of us is capable of experiencing the pain threshold of another person. What is a 5 to me, may be a 9 or 10 to you, or vice versa.

And you don't know what's going on with her neck, I've heard plenty of stories of people ending up with herniated discs just from turning their head funny, nothing more.

 

[miplank]

Re: GF sustained a very serious neck injury while we were having sex and apparently i

pic of g/f in neck brace!