no offense but if most people spent the same amount of effort minding/understanding/tending their relationship as they did their finances, there would be a lot less of this bullshit going around
human capacity for compartmentalisation of the obvious aspects of their lives is amazing. people make sure they regularly service their car, computer, check their accounting etc etc...but the obvious stuff - the food they put in their mouths, choosing and securing a mate etc etc...gets almost NO attention
twits.