Fiancee expects me to pay for her gas. Yes/no?

[puddlemonkey]

she was sweet and had a good attitude, very funny also. made me laugh.

You wont find her nearly as funny when she 'forgets' to take her birth control.

 

[Smurfy]

Does she say thank you? I really doubt that shes gonna come clean your place to show her apperciation. And I almost feel its silly that you expect that....

She should be greatfull that you help her, and you should feel good that you can help your fiance out. But as long as she says thank you and is sincere that should be all you need.

Now if you want her to do things for you because you want her to make you feel special that is a different situation all together.

If you want her to clean or cook cuz you gave her money you are no longer doing her a favor, you are now paying her for a service.

You should give her the gas money and be happy your a good fiance. Then you need to talk to her about the things you would like her to do for you to keep you happy and feeling apperciated in your relationship. This should have nothing to do with the gas money you gave her.

um whoever this guy is, he's smart!

 

[Basikstylz]

um whoever this guy is, he's smart!

aww thanks Smurfy!!

 

[Smurfy]

also, we need pics of this fiancee\

and what does she do for a living?

 

[bodybyjake]

also, we need pics of this fiancee\

and what does she do for a living?

well she used to work with developmentally disabled individuals but now she is looking for job.

 

[Smurfy]

well she used to work with developmentally disabled individuals but now she is looking for job.

does she have a particular skill set or educational or training?
how much money does she typically make?
and what happened to the last job and how long ago did she lose her job?

 

[Bikini Mod]

well we arent married yet - so these things we're going through could be tests.

I know that, but you did ask her and she did accept right?

I would NEVER accept a marriage proposal from a man that I did not fully intend to marry.

So tell us, what is the reason why YOU CHOSE this woman to be your life partner? So far you haven't really come up with anything substantive. Does that tell you something?

 

[bodybyjake]

does she have a particular skill set or educational or training?
how much money does she typically make?
and what happened to the last job and how long ago did she lose her job?

she doesnt have a college degree and didnt make a whole lot of money - 25k/yr
she got laid off about 3months ago.

 

[bodybyjake]

I know that, but you did ask her and she did accept right?

I would NEVER accept a marriage proposal from a man that I did not fully intend to marry.

So tell us, what is the reason why YOU CHOSE this woman to be your life partner? So far you haven't really come up with anything substantive. Does that tell you something?

i chose her because of how strongly i felt for her. i wanted to be with her.

 

[Smurfy]

she doesnt have a college degree and didnt make a whole lot of money - 25k/yr
she got laid off about 3months ago.

ok so honestly even when she does work, and you two are living as a married couple, youre going to be paying most of her expenses anyway.

as long as you're cool with that.