Fiancee expects me to pay for her gas. Yes/no?

[bodybyjake]

Wrong answer...

That is "the highest form of love" - we are talking brotherly love, think Ghandi and Martin Luther King, Jr. One does not desire sex with people for whom they feel this sort of love.

Guess again.

really? well - i do enjoy sex with her and am physically attracted to her but i like more when we just snuggle or cuddle up on the couch to a movie.
eros would be too sexual.. philos i guess would fit as well though.

 

[Bikini Mod]

really? well - i do enjoy sex with her and am physically attracted to her but i like more when we just snuggle or cuddle up on the couch to a movie.
eros would be too sexual.. philos i guess would fit as well though.

You are missing the point.

Agape is totally inapplicable here. Agape is the most evolved form of love and does not involve sexual feelings. You love your country and die for it. Does that help with my explanation a bit?

Philos is a non-sexual love as in the love felt between mother and child, siblings, very good PLATONIC friends etc. NO SEX AT ALL.

OK you get one more guess so you'd better make it count!

 

[bodybyjake]

You are missing the point.

Agape is totally inapplicable here. Agape is the most evolved form of love and does not involved sexual feelings. You love your country and die for it. Does that help with my explanation a bit?

Philos is a non-sexual love as in the love felt between mother and child, siblings, very good PLATONIC friends etc. NO SEX AT ALL.

So you get one more guess so you'd better make it count!

hahah: so you think for me it is eros and all about sex? that goes for all married / involved couples? i would have liked to have thought that i was a bit more "mature" than that !! but primal right !

 

[puddlemonkey]

I fell deeply in love with her - more in love with her than any other serious gf i have had.

You're screwed! I can't wait for the "she cheated on me and took everything" divorce thread 2-3 years from now. When will you guys learn?

 

[bodybyjake]

You're screwed! I can't wait for the "she cheated on me and took everything" divorce thread 2-3 years from now. When will you guys learn?

she better never...

 

[Bikini Mod]

hahah: so you think for me it is eros and all about sex? that goes for all married / involved couples? i would have liked to have thought that i was a bit more "mature" than that !! but primal right !

This is not about maturity ALL COUPLES marry for sex. Well most do anyways.

Eros is the love between a man and woman (or two adults of the same gender if they are sexually attracted to one another) and it is not only healthy and normal but it is expected. The urge to reproduce is one of our strongest biological urges.

So now... lets remove the whole *love* notion.

Really, Why did you choose this woman in particular for a partner for life?

We know you are attracted to her sexually, that is a no brainer... LOL And NOT a bad thing.

Tell me ONE SOLID reason you chose this woman above all others because we have already eliminated this notion of "love".

 

[puddlemonkey]

The urge to reproduce is one of our strongest biological urges.

lol for a woman maybe! We just want the gummy hole!

 

[bodybyjake]

This is not about maturity ALL COUPLES marry for sex. Well most do anyways.

Eros is the love between a man and woman (or two adults of the same gender if they are sexually attracted to one another) and it is not only healthy and normal but it is expected. The urge to reproduce is one of our strongest biological urges.

So now... lets remove the whole *love* notion.

Really, Why did you choose this woman in particular for a partner for life?

We know you are attracted to her sexually, that is a no brainer... LOL And NOT a bad thing.

Tell me ONE SOLID reason you chose this woman above all others because we have already eliminated this notion of "love".

she was sweet and had a good attitude, very funny also. made me laugh.

 

[Bikini Mod]

she was sweet and had a good attitude, very funny also. made me laugh.

OK now we are getting somewhere.

Surely there must have been other women who also fit this bill?

Those qualities don't sound nearly strong enough to justify why THIS WOMAN is good enough to be YOUR WIFE.

 

[bodybyjake]

OK now we are getting somewhere.

Surely there must have been other women who also fit this bill?

Those qualities don't sound nearly strong enough to justify why THIS WOMAN is good enough to be YOUR WIFE.

well we arent married yet - so these things we're going through could be tests.