**UPDATE**
I ended this relationship Saturday evening... Things have been brewing since this post plus a little before.. I am a little depressed but I keep thinking of the negatives about this relationship and her. I am actually more pissed at times about the waste... I did get my ring back. dont know what I'll do with it but I made sure I got it back: fuck etiquette
So, Im single again - I hated dating but I guess I have to all over again...