Ever just blow the fuck up, start slamming, throwing things????

[Smurfy]

You know, like keep your cool up to a certain point but them BAM, you completely flip out and slamming things (doors,drawers, objects onto the counter) and throwing things (whatever you can get a hold of, silverware, a chair, an easter basket with a lightbulb in it that shatters all over the china cabinet) actually feels very fucking good? Like the ultimate release? God damn.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Never.... I just cry and implode. Sorta like I'm doing now.

Then when I am done, I get up off the floor and try to find a way to keep breathing.

 

[rnch]

i've been known to swing a badly aimed baseball bat when provoked........

 

[H_T_]

i lift weights. anger is gooood energy...

 

[PICK3]

Once ... then I got my xanie script refilled.

 

[heatherrae]

No, I may throw a stapler or something but I usually aim it into a soft chair so that nothing breaks. That is the extent of me throwing things. I never raise my voice and I don't really throw fits.

 

[Smurfy]

No, I may throw a stapler or something but I usually aim it into a soft chair so that nothing breaks. That is the extent of me throwing things. I never raise my voice and I don't really throw fits.

it feels good

 

[redguru]

Smurfy, focus your anger into an ecstatic moment. Or at least allow us to imagine you at grudge sex.

 

[heatherrae]

it feels good

maybe I should try that, but I don't want to break my things... Maybe I can come over to your house and break stuff...lol.

 

[jh1]

And peeps accuse me of having anger issues.

ooooooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllololollololoollll

 

[Smurfy]

maybe I should try that, but I don't want to break my things... Maybe I can come over to your house and break stuff...lol.

You'll have to get in line.

 

[ghettostudmuffin]

Not since I was a teenager.

As lame as it sounds I try to breath and calm myself.

I'm afraid what I'd do if I truly just let go.

 

[calveless wonder]

only when trenbolone was involved, otherwise i'm cool like the other side of the pillow

 

[velvett]

MMMMmmm no.

But I do throw a velvett hammer.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

nup. all of my violent outbursts are quite rational. part of me decides "im taking this mofo apart now, and later, i have to get laundry powder, and check the oil in the car. deep breath, here we go!" and then i launch

 

[rnch]

MMMMmmm no.

But I do throw a velvett hammer.

sounds like the same one my mother used on my father and the kids all those years......

 

[stilleto]

nope. i don't throw things. but i do cry when i'm alone for no apparent reason on occastion.

smuff, what was really bothering you?

 

[pintoca]

never

evolution won't allow me

 

[NickyE3]

i lift weights. anger is gooood energy...

^^^

EXACTLY

 

[covergrl80]

Every women that has a man or kids does all of the above. And yes it does make you feel better

 

[Raptorex]

Get a new job, management is stressful

 

[jackangel]

smurfy is a ticking time bomb.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Every women that has a man or kids does all of the above. And yes it does make you feel better

Nope, I don't EVER do that stuff. Why? Because then I will have to clean it up, not to mention that it might break my stuff? How could that possibly make me feel better?

I just cry alot and want to be left alone. I don't even let my husband hug me. I just want to be alone.

 

[covergrl80]

Nope, I don't EVER do that stuff. Why? Because then I will have to clean it up, not to mention that it might break my stuff? How could that possibly make me feel better?

I just cry alot and want to be left alone. I don't even let my husband hug me. I just want to be alone.

well then I guess your one of the few. I can not tell you why it make a person feel better, it just does. You have to make sure that when you pick something up and are getting ready to break it that it is not yours.
Everyone deals with things different.

 

[Raptorex]

my mother use to crack wooden spoons over my head and try to sweep me out from under the bed with a broom when I was escaping.

I love her very much. Discipline worked.

 

[Bikini Mod]

well then I guess your one of the few. I can not tell you why it make a person feel better, it just does. You have to make sure that when you pick something up and are getting ready to break it that it is not yours.
Everyone deals with things different.

I've just never been able to lash out.

My father was an explosive alcoholic, would say whatever the hell came to his mind whether he was drunk or sober never caring who he hurt. Then my mother would always act five minutes later like a tornado DIDNT just hit the house and *poof* everything was normal.

I swore that I would NEVER be like that which I suppose can be to my detriment as I turn all my anger inward.

 

[pintoca]

Nope, I don't EVER do that stuff. Why? Because then I will have to clean it up, not to mention that it might break my stuff? How could that possibly make me feel better?

I just cry alot and want to be left alone. I don't even let my husband hug me. I just want to be alone.

agreed. Wifey don't throw stuff either.

you seem to forget the only thing wimin need to throw around is that scathing tongue of yours to cause some real damage

 

[Cutiebaby]

I slam shit all the time, nothing major though..I more or less just yell...When I get too pissed off I like to leave and go shopping. Even if I buy one product for like 2 dollars I still get satisfied.

 

[Bikini Mod]

agreed. Wifey don't throw stuff either.

you seem to forget the only thing wimin need to throw around is that scathing tongue of yours to cause some real damage

I am well aware, hence the reference to my father and THE MAIN REASON I ask to be left alone when I am angry. I dont want to say hurtfull things out of anger that I will regret. Was done to me my whole life and I HATED it.

My husband is getting better at learning to leave me alone when I am upset, but still he will "follow me" on occasion...

 

[NickyE3]

my mother use to crack wooden spoons over my head and try to sweep me out from under the bed with a broom when I was escaping.

I love her very much. Discipline worked.

i have been chased with a wooden spoon many of times too
lol

 

[covergrl80]

I've just never been able to lash out.

My father was an explosive alcoholic, would say whatever the hell came to his mind whether he was drunk or sober never caring who he hurt. Then my mother would always act five minutes later like a tornado DIDNT just hit the house and *poof* everything was normal.

I swore that I would NEVER be like that which I suppose can be to my detriment as I turn all my anger inward.

Well hell I was raised my a military father and One hell of an Italian mother! There was structure thats for sure. But if something is bothering me I will do what I have to do, without hurting another human. So I look at it like this.....If I feel better by slaming a door then so be it, atleast it was not a persons head in THE DOOR.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Well hell I was raised my a military father and One hell of an Italian mother! There was structure thats for sure. But if something is bothering me I will do what I have to do, without hurting another human. So I look at it like this.....If I feel better by slaming a door then so be it, atleast it was not a persons head in THE DOOR.

LOL point well taken.

 

[jnevin]

When I was getting divorced, I came home and saw that the wife took my dog with her and she wasn't answering her phone. The house had doors that were solid wood instead of hollow wood or whatever they make them with now. I paced around the house clenching my teeth so tight I thought they might break and then I punched my bedroom door right off the hinges across the room. That's the only time I can think of.

 

[digimon7068]

i punched out a hamburger once. . .i cooked some burgers on the grill. . .when they were finished i tossed one on a bun and took a bite. . .hot grease from inside the burger squirted me in the face. . .i threw the offending burger down on the table, delivered three hard over hand blows to it's solarplexis then picked it up, opened the front door to my house and hurled it halfway across the front yard. . .

 

[digimon7068]

smuff, what was really bothering you?

mmmm. . .s'muff. . .i need sum-muff. . .think i'll run home for lunch. . .

 

[vixensghost]

Nope, never was into throwin stuff. I give "the look" and people get outta my way pretty fast though.

 

[jnevin]

I've also put people through walls, but that was after they came after me. As far as a waambulance temper tantrum goes, the door was all I did.

 

[sardonicone]

You know, like keep your cool up to a certain point but them BAM, you completely flip out and slamming things (doors,drawers, objects onto the counter) and throwing things (whatever you can get a hold of, silverware, a chair, an easter basket with a lightbulb in it that shatters all over the china cabinet) actually feels very fucking good? Like the ultimate release? God damn.

I'm in danger of doing that on a daily basis.

 

[NJjuice22]

almost daily. but its a good thing. If I was to hold it inside I would wind up doing something i'd regret later.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I've also put people through walls, but that was after they came after me. As far as a waambulance temper tantrum goes, the door was all I did.

did you hit them with your fat ass ?

 

[jnevin]

did you hit them with your fat ass ?

Nope. With my he gunt.

 

[stilleto]

Nope. With my he gunt.

that's a "gock".

 

[jnevin]

that's a "gock".

Aaaand, stolen.

 

[harmonica]

i have been chased with a wooden spoon many of times too
lol

That must have been big in the 70's

 

[jackangel]

i punched out a hamburger once. . .i cooked some burgers on the grill. . .when they were finished i tossed one on a bun and took a bite. . .hot grease from inside the burger squirted me in the face. . .i threw the offending burger down on the table, delivered three hard over hand blows to it's solarplexis then picked it up, opened the front door to my house and hurled it halfway across the front yard. . .

lol

 

[superqt4u2nv]

It has been know to happen from time to time.

 

[digimon7068]

lol

i've also used my 20lb sledgehammer to destroy toys that have injured (pinched fingers, hand stuck inside of toy, etc.) my children (twin girls). . .i plan on using this same method to deal with the first asshole that breaks one of their hearts too. . .

 

[biteme]

You know, like keep your cool up to a certain point but them BAM, you completely flip out and slamming things (doors,drawers, objects onto the counter) and throwing things (whatever you can get a hold of, silverware, a chair, an easter basket with a lightbulb in it that shatters all over the china cabinet) actually feels very fucking good? Like the ultimate release? God damn.

Never. LOL. I once threw my keys down so hard that they bounced up and hit the ceiling. I rarely get to that point and I never break anything expensive or hurt anyone. One guy I know smashed a 1000$ television.

 

[ksharp01]

I have in the past and then cried because I broke something that was special to me and haven't done it since....I work way to hard to get what I got so I sure as hell don't want to replace things I broke just out of anger

 

[MrMuscle]

I have never lost it like that no. Im way to calm and level headed.

 

[biteme]

i've also used my 20lb sledgehammer to destroy toys that have injured (pinched fingers, hand stuck inside of toy, etc.) my children (twin girls). . .i plan on using this same method to deal with the first asshole that breaks one of their hearts too. . .

I just decapitate them.

 

[gotmilk]

If you break it, it will be three years before Lummy gets around to fixing it.
Why break it?

 

[DannoMight]

You know, like keep your cool up to a certain point but them BAM, you completely flip out and slamming things (doors,drawers, objects onto the counter) and throwing things (whatever you can get a hold of, silverware, a chair, an easter basket with a lightbulb in it that shatters all over the china cabinet) actually feels very fucking good? Like the ultimate release? God damn.

yes, once in a while. when I can't hold it in no more.

 

[Raptorex]

smurfy, are you done whining?

 

[Smurfy]

nope. i don't throw things. but i do cry when i'm alone for no apparent reason on occastion.

smuff, what was really bothering you?

I dont cry. That doesnt feel good or satisfying to me. Crying is very uncomfortable to me. In fact, I avoid it whenever possible.

Not sure what's wrong. Short fuse. Outta nowhere.

 

[redguru]

I dont cry. That doesnt feel good or satisfying to me. Crying is very uncomfortable to me. In fact, I avoid it whenever possible.

Not sure what's wrong. Short fuse. Outta nowhere.

Why'd you throw that picnic table into the Potomac?

 

[rnch]

i've also used my 20lb sledgehammer to destroy toys that have injured (pinched fingers, hand stuck inside of toy, etc.) my children (twin girls). . .i plan on using this same method to deal with the first asshole that breaks one of their hearts too. . .

i reccommend a used, worn out, dented metal baseball bat...

 

[Smurfy]

If you break it, it will be three years before Lummy gets around to fixing it.
Why break it?

lmaoooo indeed

 

[Smurfy]

Why'd you throw that picnic table into the Potomac?

I dont know my own strenf

 

[blueta2]

You know, like keep your cool up to a certain point but them BAM, you completely flip out and slamming things (doors,drawers, objects onto the counter) and throwing things (whatever you can get a hold of, silverware, a chair, an easter basket with a lightbulb in it that shatters all over the china cabinet) actually feels very fucking good? Like the ultimate release? God damn.

I've never reacted this way. I get so much aggression out throughout the day (talking, driving with loud music, gym etc) that I have no agression left for breaking shit.
But this does remind me of a song I OFTEN listen to when I drive.

Listen to this song Smurf, you'll feel a hell of a lot better




LIMP BIZKIT LYRICS

"Break Stuff"

Its just one of those days
When you don't wanna wake up
Everything is fucked
Everybody sux
You don't really know why
But you want justify
Rippin' someone's head off
No human contact
And if you interact
Your life is on contract
Your best bet is to stay away motherfucker
It's just one of those days!!

[chorus]
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit
Lettin' shit slip
Or you'll be leavin with a fat lip
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit talkin that shit
(Punk, so come and get it)
Its just one of those days
Feelin' like a freight train
First one to complain
Leaves with a blood stain
Damn right I'm a maniac
You better watch your back
Cuz I'm fuckin' up your program
And if your stuck up
You just lucked up
Next in line to get fucked up
Your best bet is to stay away motherfucker
Its just one of those days!!

[chorus]

I feel like shit
My suggestion is to keep your distance cuz right now im dangerous
We've all felt like shit
And been treated like shit
All those motherfuckers that want to step up
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your ass raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your ass raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your ass raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break your fuckin' face tonight!!
Give me somethin' to break
Give me somethin' to break
Just give me somethin' to break
How bout your fuckin' face
I hope you know I pack a chain saw, what!!...
A chain saw, what!!...
A motherfucking chain saw, what!!...
So come and get it

[chorus]

 

[Smurfy]

Blueta - the weird thing is - I dont have bad days where Im all moody or pissed or in a bad way or crabby. I'll be perfectly fine but suddenly my tolerance for frustration becomes absolutely null and void and I flip. It's like my normal tolerance level just plummets.

 

[stilleto]

I dont cry. That doesnt feel good or satisfying to me. Crying is very uncomfortable to me. In fact, I avoid it whenever possible.

Not sure what's wrong. Short fuse. Outta nowhere.

i enjoy a good cry.
i cried tonight in fact. nothing bad happened to cause it, but i felt better afterwards.
usually its my fucked up family and childhood that does it.
not like "daddy didn't hug me enough" childhood, more like "quick, the fbi is after us, we have to move" kind of childhood.

 

[digimon7068]

i reccommend a used, worn out, dented metal baseball bat...

shit. . .i'd probably miss

 

[DannoMight]

i enjoy a good cry.
i cried tonight in fact. nothing bad happened to cause it, but i felt better afterwards.
usually its my fucked up family and childhood that does it.
not like "daddy didn't hug me enough" childhood, more like "quick, the fbi is after us, we have to move" kind of childhood.

Damn, mine was more like tell them you fell off the swing type shit. Or somedays I wasn't allowed to go to school. That shits long gone though and I don't have to worry nomore.

 

[stilleto]

Damn, mine was more like tell them you fell off the swing type shit. Or somedays I wasn't allowed to go to school. That shits long gone though and I don't have to worry nomore.

the repercussions of my family are intensely reverberrating in my life every day.

 

[blueta2]

Blueta - the weird thing is - I dont have bad days where Im all moody or pissed or in a bad way or crabby. I'll be perfectly fine but suddenly my tolerance for frustration becomes absolutely null and void and I flip. It's like my normal tolerance level just plummets.

Sounds like it's pent up emotion and then it builds (maybe subconsciously) and then bang!
The solutiuon for this is to eat lots of pie with ice cream ;-)

Like Stilleto, I just have a good cry once in a while, like I did this morning.

 

[Sub-Zero]

You know, like keep your cool up to a certain point but them BAM, you completely flip out and slamming things (doors,drawers, objects onto the counter) and throwing things (whatever you can get a hold of, silverware, a chair, an easter basket with a lightbulb in it that shatters all over the china cabinet) actually feels very fucking good? Like the ultimate release? God damn.

quite often.

or if i know who/what the cause is i tend to want to do it to their flesh with my fists

 

[Sub-Zero]

its funny when i was younger i thought adults yelled and shit because they were allowed to, not because they were just as immature as little children and just couldnt take it anymore

 

[DannoMight]

the repercussions of my family are intensely reverberrating in my life every day.

It bothers me more if I'm alone or even working by myself and not keeping myself occupied in some way.

 

[caligirl]

You know, like keep your cool up to a certain point but them BAM, you completely flip out and slamming things (doors,drawers, objects onto the counter) and throwing things (whatever you can get a hold of, silverware, a chair, an easter basket with a lightbulb in it that shatters all over the china cabinet) actually feels very fucking good? Like the ultimate release? God damn.

i did it just last week, and I still feel like shit.


"I'm a donkey on the edge"

 

[Smurfy]

i did it just last week, and I still feel like shit.


"I'm a donkey on the edge"

See my eye twitchin'!!??

 

[Stefka]

I threw stuff a lot when I was in high school - water, fruit, books, shoes. I haven't done that in years though. I have mastered the silent angry stare.

When I am really angry I just eliminate the person who made me angry from my life. I can hold a grudge like no other.

 

[Sassy69]

I punched a hole in a wall once. Otherwise I bring it to the gym & burn it out w/ some heavy metal & a punching bag if I need it.

 

[caligirl]

I punched a hole in a wall once. Otherwise I bring it to the gym & burn it out w/ some heavy metal & a punching bag if I need it.

nice sassy! I have a liking of doors, or I used to. I have some beautiful scars on my knuckles, they're very "lady like"

I hadn't snapped in a long time, just last week I threw a protein bar across my kitchen into my toaster cause I was pissed about all the death in my life recently. just fucking pissed, still am actually... I guess it's just part of it. freaking rollercoaster.

 

[Raptorex]

nice sassy! I have a liking of doors, or I used to. I have some beautiful scars on my knuckles, they're very "lady like"

I hadn't snapped in a long time, just last week I threw a protein bar across my kitchen into my toaster cause I was pissed about all the death in my life recently. just fucking pissed, still am actually... I guess it's just part of it. freaking rollercoaster.

sorry...likewise, lost is a better word

p.s. did it toast well?

 

[caligirl]

sorry...likewise, lost is a better word

p.s. did it toast well?

your right, "lost" is the perfect word. I'm sorry for your loss too MM, I feel your pain.

no, but I ran out of bars last week and luckily, I remembered I threw one behind the toaster... my new secret hiding spot. Ended up being a good thing..lol

 

[Raptorex]

your right, "lost" is the perfect word. I'm sorry for your loss too MM, I feel your pain.

no, but I ran out of bars last week and luckily, I remembered I threw one behind the toaster... my new secret hiding spot. Ended up being a good thing..lol

thanks...RIP best buddy and training partner.

 

[WODIN]

You are probably border line bi-polar and try a sledge hammer some time. Don't swing it sideways...Words to live by.