JavaGuru said:
Evangelical based or real world? Guess what, intoxication is not a defence in the "real world."
No but trying to communicate on how to protect yourself as part of a practicum lecturing to student living groups that if one thing can be understood that to not put yourself in the position.
I lectured on it, I know that women also put themselves in dumb positions, as I said, the girl often isnt the innocent little lamb in the situation> yes I lecture on when a girl says no.
Also I tell the woman to say, NO, if you proceed you will be raping me. Hello, reality check to the guy. In most instances that reality check will cause a sonic boom leaving the room.
Thats where I lectured on communication.
But, to get drunk with a guy, lay back and then later say they werent down with it in a survy is what inflates the numbers.
I know, b/c I interview women and was a counselor, plus Ive seen rape victims. There is a huge difference in a forceable rape and a regrettable sexual experience.
HUGE.
Following longitidunally a group of females asking them to report on a periodic basis if they were sexually assaulted shows that "reports" of rape by women are hugely exaggerated in surveys, but monthly surveys of "IF, its happened in the last thirty days" shows that it happens at one hundredth of that according to freshman college students.
Ive taken how to lie with statistics in University. Its sad at such an issue that I spent time on in my life to try and correct is debased by people pushing bs, not at all related to DD at all though.
Just alcohol and drugs cause HUGE communication problems that I tried to explain to young adults