for some reason, I am unable to hold a grudge in life. Now, you may think this is a positive trait but it isn't. It means that people tend to do things repeatedly and I keep forgiving so long as they say they are sorry. I seriously have to quit doing that!
How about you? Do you forgive and forget or do you have the memory of an elephant?
No, i forgive and remember, however i disenpower the person to hurt me, or cause me harm..
see the difference..
holding a grudge implys that you would take action/revenge and that's not my style.. not being with me, or working with me, or being around me.. that's punishment enough..
well, that sounded egotistical, sorry about that, but it keeps acidic people out of my day to day life..
your assistant is a perfect example, i wouldn't allow that type of person to be around me..
I don't rent space in my head for anyone. That's what a grudge is. If I put one more thing into that head, my locker combination will fall out.
So, it's just not worth my time.
I don't hold and grudge either HR. At times I have even said to myself "I WISH I could still be mad at them for what they did to me because they deserve it!" But I cannot do it. I get over stuff really easy.
I don't rent space in my head for anyone. That's what a grudge is. If I put one more thing into that head, my locker combination will fall out.
So, it's just not worth my time.
depends on the situation but, if someone fux me over I'll flat out shut that person out of my life. i can go months/years without talking to that person even if they're in the same room with me.
i cant hold a grudge if someone paid me to do it.... i cant stand it. but life is too short to go around pissed off all the time at people. especially for petty shit.