Disturbing trend amongst alot of young guys i know that got married.....

[NJjuice22]

I have like 3 buddies from high school that all had kids young and got married and became these super dad/husbands. Never go out, always with their wife and kid. Work, spend time with them..thats it. well 2 already had their wives leave them , and the 3rd just had his wife say "i want a divorce" . they are all around my age. 25. Now these guys did not cheat, did nothing wrong for the most part.


I have always said this and I think alot of people know it. Women dont want that perfect guy..you need to be kind of an asshole and have an attitude and put them in their place sometimes. I mean you dont need to be shady or evil but I guarantee if your Mr Nice perfect husband it wont last. Especially nowadays and especially with young attractive women! YOu need to have some drama in your relationship..keeps you both interested.

 

[EnderJE]

Dunno about that. I think that the problem is that people have some fantasy about what marriage or what it will mean to you. When the marriage actually occurs, they begin to realize the difference between their perceptions and reality.

 

[hamstershaver]

it doesnt have to do with the fact that the guys were too nice, it has to do with the fact that they married too young, women that age have no clue what they want

 

[javaguru]

A lot of peopel get married thinking it's some kind of "answer" that will provide happiness.

 

[MILF69]

There is no such thing as the perfect guy or girl. To be honest I really dont know why people even get married anymore. The divorce rate is over 50% and most men and women cheat on their spouse anyway. It is rare that things are "normal" anymore, but what is normal? The 3 bedroom house with the white picket fence and 2 kids and a dog in the yard? Sorry not today it's not.

O.K. so I'm bitter just a little. I myself like a bit of a bad boy...but I'm pretty wild myself. I dont want mr. perfect I just want to share my life with someone who's my friend. Frendship is soooo important. I'm just not sure I need a piece of paper attached to it.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

teach your friends to think that life is a disney movie

 

[EnderJE]

To be honest I really dont know why people even get married anymore.

Because, sometimes, its nice to believe in the fairytale. It's nice to believe in Superheros. Its nice to believe in God. It's nice to believe in love.

Christ, that was sappy.

 

[MILF69]

Dunno about that. I think that the problem is that people have some fantasy about what marriage or what it will mean to you. When the marriage actually occurs, they begin to realize the difference between their perceptions and reality.

You can't talk about our relationship that way...I thought it really meant something to you!

 

[theoak01]

Because, sometimes, its nice to believe in the fairytale. It's nice to believe in Superheros. Its nice to believe in God. It's nice to believe in love.

Christ, that was sappy.

lol homo

I want a family but im not in a hurry at all,if i meet the right girl it would be a long ass time before id consider marriage,but in this day and age there really isnt a point as after 6 months of living together she gets half your shit anyway

 

[KillahBee]

people are stupid. and childish. and unrealistic. it's no fun being level headed and intelligent and think about the future when making decisions. I take so much joy in watching marriages fall apart.