Disturbing trend amongst alot of young guys i know that got married.....

[Raina]

I think a lot of people do what they think they're supposed to. From the outside things look perfect but at some people someone realizes that they have a life they don't want. I get that and I also think the younger people marry, the more likely that is to happen. Just a general statement not a rule, I know plenty of exceptions.

 

[stilleto]

it doesnt have to do with the fact that the guys were too nice, it has to do with the fact that they married too young, women that age have no clue what they want

i think you're right. most people that age don't really know what they WANT, only what they are supposed to want.

 

[EnderJE]

You can't talk about our relationship that way...I thought it really meant something to you!

Sheesh, didn't you read the "Because, sometimes, its nice to believe in the fairytale. It's nice to believe in Superheros. Its nice to believe in God. It's nice to believe in love." line?

That's it. From now on, I'm calling you Wonder Woman.

 

[Frisky]

I have always said this and I think alot of people know it. Women dont want that perfect guy..you need to be kind of an asshole and have an attitude and put them in their place sometimes. I mean you dont need to be shady or evil but I guarantee if your Mr Nice perfect husband it wont last. Especially nowadays and especially with young attractive women! YOu need to have some drama in your relationship..keeps you both interested.

I hate to admit it but I have to agree... You CAN'T treat her like a queen, give her attention non stop, We all, including you damn guys, need to be put in our place now and again.

Its ashamed, that you see more abusive relationships last than those that one person is just to damn good to the other one. Im not sure why mentally this is so, maybe its some sort of conqure the other mentality.. and with the abuse its horrible.

I know quite a few married couples that are still together despite mental abuse and one partner being just a total asshole. For the life of me I dont understand it but its true.

I need a partner that will in some sorts take control of things, I have always had to be in control 24/7 but there is no way any relationship can endure such a one sided way. I also... *cough* (gd will be all over this) need to be put in my place now and again. I'm by no means a high maintence woman.. but im not perfect either. I could never live my life with an asshole, or someone abusive.. but I like confidence and a strong personality. Someone willing to sa 'NO' every now and again.

OMG, this totally is gonna ruin my evil reputation.

 

[NJjuice22]

i think you just have to have the formula correct and it will work ..ateast for 10-20 years.

you need to be equally attracted to each other, and the dude cant be a punk. thats all you need.

 

[EnderJE]

lol homo

I want a family but im not in a hurry at all,if i meet the right girl it would be a long ass time before id consider marriage,but in this day and age there really isnt a point as after 6 months of living together she gets half your shit anyway

Hold me.

 

[awittyusername]

it doesnt have to do with the fact that the guys were too nice, it has to do with the fact that they married too young, women that age have no clue what they want

Hammy is exactly right.

Women think they need to be married...kids...house...etc. Society tells us that this is the perfect life and you should do this in your early 20's.

Most women get married to create a life that others will see as perfect on the outside....When they should just relax and find out who they are...what they want...and who they want to be with.


NJ. I have had over 5 friends the same way. You will have more. Most are in their second wives now going through the same thing. (they married younger chicks). One is working on his 3rd at 33

 

[MILF69]

Sheesh, didn't you read the "Because, sometimes, its nice to believe in the fairytale. It's nice to believe in Superheros. Its nice to believe in God. It's nice to believe in love." line?

That's it. From now on, I'm calling you Wonder Woman.

Aw babe you really do care...I just read your other post...all is forgiven...FOR NOW!

 

[EnderJE]

I hate to admit it but I have to agree...OMG, this totally is gonna ruin my evil reputation.

Wow. You're really working on your New Year res not to be a frosty bitch.

 

[Smurfy]

I think it's hard to make a generalization about the success or failure of marriages. There are so many factors to consider. What we DO know is that the majority of marriages dont last. How can we say why they dont last?