Day two of sobriety

[Delinquent]

coming from someone, myself, with way too much experience with drugs, your kid comes first. everything else is a distant second. i have no anger against drugs. i find it very hard to believe you need to be high to hang with your kid. i smoked weed daily for years and did the work, school, meetings, etc high and have since given it up in preparation for having kids. spin this whatever way you want, you have a kid. you dont NEED drugs. you CHOOSE them. please, take care of your kid. i have friends who cant have children who would cut off a hand to have one. consider yourself lucky and start assuming some real responsibility. if you need to be high to do everything, something is wrong with you and self rehab aint gonna fix it. im not judging you, my concern is with your kid. a court of law wouldnt say you are fit parents, spin away as much as you want.

Ok since it seems that you haven't even read this thread otherwise most of those questions were answered. I'll reiterate this one part because I'm not gonna waste my time. The smoking weed multiple times a day has been for the past 3 days. The first day we stopped methadone, we only smoked once which is what we normally do. Just once. Just 15-20 minutes of alone time while our daughter playfully enjoys and even acts out the baby einstein movies so it's obvious she enjoys them.

We don't need to be high normally. Actually today, we haven't smoked at all. We started getting back to unpacking the house we just moved in to. See, you think that reading about how I'm smoking weed all day was the norm for us but it isn't. Marijuana is just hobby. Just like going to the bar for football and drinking. As I have already stated, there are responsible ways of using marijuana and many many people with much higher educations and salaries than both of us combined do the same thing. They go to work, raise their kids, and do all the normal things a typical family does.

Coming from someone that used to party, you must have not been able to handle it. You still consider marijuana this evil drug that confuses the mind and warps reality. I don't know why you think this if you used to party because if that's what was happening to you, you were smoking some shit that was sprayed.

 

[timtim]

Ok since it seems that you haven't even read this thread otherwise most of those questions were answered. I'll reiterate this one part because I'm not gonna waste my time. The smoking weed multiple times a day has been for the past 3 days. The first day we stopped methadone, we only smoked once which is what we normally do. Just once. Just 15-20 minutes of alone time while our daughter playfully enjoys and even acts out the baby einstein movies so it's obvious she enjoys them.

We don't need to be high normally. Actually today, we haven't smoked at all. We started getting back to unpacking the house we just moved in to. See, you think that reading about how I'm smoking weed all day was the norm for us but it isn't. Marijuana is just hobby. Just like going to the bar for football and drinking. As I have already stated, there are responsible ways of using marijuana and many many people with much higher educations and salaries than both of us combined do the same thing. They go to work, raise their kids, and do all the normal things a typical family does.

Coming from someone that used to party, you must have not been able to handle it. You still consider marijuana this evil drug that confuses the mind and warps reality. I don't know why you think this if you used to party because if that's what was happening to you, you were smoking some shit that was sprayed.

you sound ridiculous with "handling" drugs. no one gives a fuck about a junkie who can handle his drugs. it aint cool. its actually really lame to wear a badge of honor that you can handle your drugs. im not even going to try and make it like i care if you think i could or couldnt, im actually pretty embarrassed of my extensive use and try and hide it in real life. it aint cool. any loser can get drugs and get high. it takes no skill or brain power.

you are on a different wave length when it comes to this topic. i would sacrifice everything for my child, you wont. its not worth discussing. please, get better. i only want you and your wife to be clean and healthy for your kid. God forbid anything were to happen to your child. that would be terrible.

 

[ortiz34]

guys relax
throwing him under the bus because he smoked some weed during this tough time is teh gay
that's like going to a bbq and snatching a beer out of every guys hand that has children and yelling at them, telling them they are bad parents because they are drinking (smoking cheeb isn't ANY worse than alcohol)

 

[Smurfy]

guys relax
throwing him under the bus because he smoked some weed during this tough time is teh gay
that's like going to a bbq and snatching a beer out of every guys hand that has children and yelling at them, telling them they are bad parents because they are drinking (smoking cheeb isn't ANY worse than alcohol)

true. except that it is illegal (however ridiculous that may be). and if youre an addict trying to quit drugs, you should probably totally quit drugs.

 

[ortiz34]

true. except that it is illegal (however ridiculous that may be). and if youre an addict trying to quit drugs, you should probably totally quit drugs.

agree and kinda disagree

I was at a family(wives) BBQ yesterday (no wtfbbq)
so anyhow, most guys were cocked.average of 2 children per couple
and about 9-10 probably drove home, not the wives
this is the norm around the country

 

[Smurfy]

agree and kinda disagree

I was at a family(wives) BBQ yesterday (no wtfbbq)
so anyhow, most guys were cocked.average of 2 children per couple
and about 9-10 probably drove home, not the wives
this is the norm around the country

thats fucked up. doesnt happen in my family

 

[Delinquent]

I'm done with all the arguing because it's simply a waste of our time and none of us will change our opinions on the matter.I should have known bringing up something like this would eventually go the way of every other thread does at this place. I should have learned years ago to keep personal shit off of this site.

I couldn't care less how people judge me in real life so I'm definitely not concerned about it on an internet message board.

Once it's decriminalized, which could possibly be soon depending on how people vote in Cali this November, this will be a moot point. Once marijuana becomes taxable just like a stamp, I'm sure people will still bitch about it but it doesn't bother me.

So this is just the final nail in the coffin for this fucking place

 

[chris302001]

agree and kinda disagree

I was at a family(wives) BBQ yesterday (no wtfbbq)
so anyhow, most guys were cocked.average of 2 children per couple
and about 9-10 probably drove home, not the wives
this is the norm around the country

yeah but since when is "the norm" what is acceptable? Shit like this would never and will never happen in my family on my watch.

 

[ortiz34]

Yeah right
the norm in america is not to go to BBQs, drink 5 or more beers and drive

happens everyday
blacks
whites
fat people
skinny
yellow
asians

alcohol is socially accepted
weed is not

two biggest funders to "the war on drugs"
1.alcohol companies
2.Tobacco

Ironic

 

[ortiz34]

pm sent on that info for your wife delenquint