I took the time to talk to a guy that I KNOW is working through the same 'aches' I have been, but his are turning more to injury ... do to lack of stretching, weight TOO heavy, and POOR form, esp. during unassisted dips ... I don't care how old you are... you can get injured at any age when things are NOT done properly ... There was a trainer in there working out, but of course never says anything, and to boot, left his weights on the OBB flat bench ... clamp'd ... I cringed ... so one of the regulars I see training often with regular #2 (who wasn't there) was laying on a flat bench, reached back, arched his back to grab the 60 lb WBB for skulls .. I say lay down full supine, the back arch, imbalance showed right away and went up tp him and said "sorry I don't mean to be a bitch, but I better not EVER see you grab a weight like that again ... " Esp. after we spoke in detail about the possible injury, need for deep tissue, stretching & icing & he's going to need to lower the weights along with the *test* when training with another male, which is fine , but you MUST check yourself ...
He wanted to know how much weight I lost, how I know so much, and why I am so dang lean ... week to week, if not day to day changes they see ... why? what am I doing? even called me skinnny (I corrected to leaning out, he understood *forgiven*) & grabbed my bicep (ugh why ya gotta touch me ... it's aight he married, & the tan + white + worked may the muscles look pretty sick again *brushed shoulder off* )
I gave him like to my story on EF via Google ... "Amanda Victoria" and told him No, I'm not the porn star
So that's where I've been, where I came from how I learned... Hopefully he & his wifey will check it out & help inspire them in some way.
I often get .. "What are you training for? ... "
My answer ... "My life..."