been cheated on

[crazyivan]

hi this is my first post here, im normally in the other forums but here it goes.i recently found out my gf of 4.5 years has cheated on me. ive always thought if it happened i would just end it, but i realy dont want that option, i cant even explane how messed up i feel. i havent confronted her yet, i kinda want her to fess up to it, it happend while we were in a low spot in the relationship and took a couple weeks apart which was the beginning of this month.
i basically just need to vent, there is really no1 i can talk to about this in person not even my best friend.

 

[Cutiebaby]

Damn that sucks...
Well what you really need to do in my opinion is step on away from the computer and take time to think about what you want and need to do. No ones advice from here is real, we are all fake people....
Any ways if you love her and want to work it out than over look it, you said you were in a period where you were taking a break. Not that I am saying what she did was right...However it is all on you and how much you love her and if you want this to work.
Best of luck

 

[wootoom]

join the club

 

[manny78]

join the club

That's what happened with your ex-wife ? Damn bro...

Crazyivan: There's only one advice I can give you: get the fuck outta that relationship NOW ! Dont try to understand something that cannot. Fuck her sister, beat your meat, go to the strip joint, you could even hang out at the local glory hole but first you need to stop it.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I'm gonna keep my pie hole shut for once on this subject...

 

[Wulfgar]

happened to the best of us broly

best thing to do is just stop any and all contact and communication with her. like cut that shit cold turkey. if u have stuff at her place go get it. Put all her stuff outside your front door

dont return her calls, dont return her text messages NO MATTER what

the bigger man walks away...always has always will

 

[Wulfgar]

btw women are whores

 

[Cutiebaby]

join the club

holy say what????

 

[puddlemonkey]

holy say what????

He may have been referring to the break up itself and not the original posters underlining issue. Maybe?

 

[Cutiebaby]

He may have been referring to the break up itself and not the original posters underlining issue. Maybe?

most likely