Are you misunderstood?

[chazk]

Its human nature.

Human nature follows the law of attraction..
we are attracted to things. and that we are not attracted to we are not interested in.

As far as bodybuilding as a image to the public eye . Some women think bodybuilders are big cuddly teddy bears that would never hurt a fly but protect them in times of danger. Those ARE women attracted to bodybuilders.

Women that are NOT attracted to bodybuilders think bodybuilders are assholes,pricks,meatheads becuase they are simply not attracted to them.

You can not please everyone women not every women will be attracted to bodybuilders and some can not get enough of bodybuilders
just as simple as that

 

[Sub-Zero]

I was thinking about this recently....

The image and style i've created for myself have only perpetuated this.
Since i was young i always wanted to "appear" a certain way and have acheived that, but the impression people get of me initially is certainly not the one i wanted.

I've molded myself into someone who is in good shape (bodybuilder ish bc of my traps, but not huge), dresses well and has style, and is decently good looking. You think this would be a good thing...but i feel like people prejudge me as kind of a cocky prick, or arrogant or unapproachable, or superficial.
I feel this is especially true in certain environments that are not as..i dunno trendy or whatever. Doesn't help that i am very sarcastic and while i could be completely joking with good intentions, people interpret that as the above. I actually have to be careful with that when i first meet somebody....

Once people get to know me they realize it's not really the case....and that i'm very charismatic, intelligent, deep, laid back and a caring/good person...but it is annoying.I can kinda understand now why girls who "appear" bitchy, often because they look a certain way or very attractive, complain about the same thing.

does anyone feel like this? Do you kinda fit your mold? or no?

im very shy, and used to be a fatty goofy fucker.

i wanted to look scary cause i think bodybuilders are awsome, so i started getting huge.

now im that "crazy lifter dude". but inside im still a goofy fat fuck.

arnt you the one who told me making yourself into a scary jacked dude is just that...becoming a hard to approach misunderstood scary jacked dude...?

anyway, my friend in hs senior year said,
"everyones afraid to talk to you at first cause they think you are going to be a dick, then they hear you talk and realize your a nice guy...then they actually listen to you and think youre a dick again".

everyone hates me waaah, no girls approach me, i suck, we suck, lets post on EF all day

 

[Sub-Zero]

Whatever you perceive is a reflection of yourself.

good point. everyone probably just thinks im fat

 

[puddlemonkey]

good point. everyone probably just thinks im fat

 

[myway]

I am only misunderstood by dumb people ....
I am so," BAM!!!! This is ME!!!!!!!" Only a dummy could misunderstand...

 

[biteme]

Don't give a fuck if I am or not. Just a free spirit. Watching the wheels go round and round. Wheeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Lumberg]

What? I don't understand the point of this thread.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I understand what he is saying and I do humbly disagree.

OTHER PEOPLES' PERCEPTION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.... THAT IS, UNLESS YOU ALLOW IT.

That is why I always tell others to never let someone else decide YOUR reality.

If someone doesn't "get me" that is THEIR loss... not mine.

 

[habitualhealth]

Fine... I'll participate.

I'm not misunderstood, I AM a jackass. I didn't always use to be this way, I use to be very kind and warmhearted, but scandalous people and Asian drivers turned me into an ass.

+1


speaking of wonton drivers.....i got sideswiped in a hit and run by one the other day. i should get a free numa sistey nine wit fry rye.




i know, i know....hell awaits me.

 

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