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Another personal example of why marriage works

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ponyfitness

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My ex girlfriend from many years back just called me up. She is currently married to a rich computer programmer in Cali, is a kept woman and is in town for two weeks while her father has hernia surgery. She was smoking hot in university but let herself go last time I saw her - she claims she has lost weight and looks good now.

Old pic:
mvkyhi.jpg
(the redhead on the right)

She just invited herself over to my place tomorrow night after telling me a story about another "friend" of hers that had an affair while she was away, dropping all sorts of hints about how she hasn't had good sex in a long time, etc.

Pretty sad that I'm 95% sure I will get action with her (I'm not going to of course) only because she is lonely and probably gets nothing but 20 pump dumps from her husband. I'm going to get her to buy me dinner and then throw her out after taking her panties to mail to her husband.

Another brilliant example for those who support marriage!
 
jsut because a woman wants to have sex with another guy doesnt mean that their marriage isnt working. the husband just mightnt be into sex (or whatever) yet the rest of their relationship is working

do her a favour - be discreet, and give her what she wants
 
GoldenDelicious said:
jsut because a woman wants to have sex with another guy doesnt mean that their marriage isnt working. the husband just mightnt be into sex (or whatever) yet the rest of their relationship is working

do her a favour - be discreet, and give her what she wants
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Even if my husband's cock fell off, I STILL wouldn't cheat.

I mean, he has a tongue... doesn't he? :p
 
ponyfitness said:
Another brilliant example for those who support marriage!
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mine's great. . .16 years strong in june. . .you'll never see a 16th anniversary. . .i feel bad for you. . .you have no idea what you're missing. . .
 
BIKINIMOM said:
The operative word was *SOMETIMES*.

Especially coming from ME... understatement sh/b a HYUGE overstatement... C'est nes pas? :qt:
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aaaah. . .you know i'm just jerkin' your chain. . .my arms are my understatement. . .everything else is MUCH bigger :FRlol:
 
I think it all depends on alot of things......your life experience....how far into the marriage you are(usually the first few years are great)..........a little luck helps too. But things can turn in an instant.......what you think is great is no longer great, or the person who you are with that you trust completely all of a sudden cheats for whatever reason. Life can change in an instant.
 
seaking420 said:
I think it all depends on alot of things......your life experience....how far into the marriage you are(usually the first few years are great)..........a little luck helps too. But things can turn in an instant.......what you think is great is no longer great, or the person who you are with that you trust completely all of a sudden cheats for whatever reason. Life can change in an instant.
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i could get hit by lightening tomorrow. . .doesn't mean i'm gonna stop watching the weather channel. . .
 
seaking420 said:
I think it all depends on alot of things......your life experience....how far into the marriage you are(usually the first few years are great)..........a little luck helps too. But things can turn in an instant.......what you think is great is no longer great, or the person who you are with that you trust completely all of a sudden cheats for whatever reason. Life can change in an instant.
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Honestly, I don't know if I fully agree w/your assessment. The only way I could see *some one changing in an instant* is if they were recovering from a serious brain injury. Other than that, I believe it is more of us facing the fact that we weren't honest with ourselves all along or we were just too inexperienced to realize what we REALLY wanted/needed over the long haul.
 
What relationship in your life is always happy? None. In any relationship sometimes you give more and the other person gives less and visa versa. And when things seem to be getting out of calibration you both check yourselves and say, hmmmmmmmmmm time to get back on the same page.

I won't say I am always happy in my marriage, but I am completely happy knowing my man always has my back, and I his....and those times where everyting is JUST RIGHT, well there isn't anything in the world like it...it always makes me want MORE!!!!!!
 
True, true... a marriage is a living entity in a constant state of flux. You wouldn't expect your garden or your body to continue to prosper and grow if you didn't attend to it daily? So then why would anyone expect the same from a marriage?
 
i could get hit by lightening tomorrow. . .doesn't mean i'm gonna stop watching the weather channel
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Absolutely.....I was just pointing out that shit can happen at any given moment. Dosent mean it will, and hopefully it dosent. I wasnt saying to live in fear because of it. All Im saying is that it can happen no matter how secure you are in your relationship. But that dosent mean dont get involved with someone because you're scared to get hurt or it failing. It seem like you have a very good relationship with your wife and i am very happy for you...truely.....its good to hear that people are in a long marriage and are still very happy......gives me hope
 
Honestly, I don't know if I fully agree w/your assessment. The only way I could see *some one changing in an instant* is if they were recovering from a serious brain injury. Other than that, I believe it is more of us facing the fact that we weren't honest with ourselves all along or we were just too inexperienced to realize what we REALLY wanted/needed over the long haul.
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You know what BM...........i think you are absolutely right. The question is how do you know exactly what you really want........i guess until you go through it.
 
seaking420 said:
Absolutely.....I was just pointing out that shit can happen at any given moment. Dosent mean it will, and hopefully it dosent. I wasnt saying to live in fear because of it. All Im saying is that it can happen no matter how secure you are in your relationship. But that dosent mean dont get involved with someone because you're scared to get hurt or it failing. It seem like you have a very good relationship with your wife and i am very happy for you...truely.....its good to hear that people are in a long marriage and are still very happy......gives me hope
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i was just being a wise-ass. . .what you are saying is absolutely true. . .honestly, i keep expecting her to wake up some morning, look at me and say "you're a douche and you gotta move out". . .didn't happen this morning, though. :)

i think that's part of the "secret". . .neither of us ever got "comfortable" (i.e., lazy). . .we've never felt like we could stop trying to please the other one. . .yes. . .it's work. . .sometimes it's even hard work. . .but the rewards consistently belittle the work. :)

i guess if i had to give one piece of advice (see my disclaimer), that would be it. . .if you really are looking for lasting love. . .never let yourself get completely comfortable. . .never completely stop "dating" her. . .never trick yourself into thinking that you've "won". . .a little bit of effort goes a very long way. . .life is a marathon, not a sprint. . .
 
seaking420 said:
You know what BM...........i think you are absolutely right. The question is how do you know exactly what you really want........i guess until you go through it.
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One of life's cruelest jokes... that is just it, YOU DONT, until you've lived a little. Therein lies the "some people grow together and some people grow apart".

And yes, Digimon is also correct... You gotta tend to that garden just a little bit each day.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
jsut because a woman wants to have sex with another guy doesnt mean that their marriage isnt working. the husband just mightnt be into sex (or whatever) yet the rest of their relationship is working

do her a favour - be discreet, and give her what she wants
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why would he necessarily want to do her a favor..?? It seems like she dumped him because maybe his wallet wasn't fat enough.......so she goes and get's hitched to a silicone valley mother fucker, finds out those types aren't exactly tigers in bed.....and altogether passionless anyway..........so now she wants some ex to hit it right?? That's a "have your cake and eat it too" if I"ve ever seen it. I wouldn't even meet with her.........but I like homeboy's plan of having her husband pay for his dinner than excuse himself by saying I've got a late night booty date I've got to make, see ya!!!
 
GoldenDelicious said:
jsut because a woman wants to have sex with another guy doesnt mean that their marriage isnt working.
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yeah. . .i'm pretty sure that wouldn't work for me. . .or any other d00d with a functioning set of stones. . .i'll give you some k for making me laugh though. . .ur funny. . .
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Even if my husband's cock fell off, I STILL wouldn't cheat.

I mean, he has a tongue... doesn't he? :p
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What if, God forbid, his penis fell off, his tongue got cutt off and he lost his fingers....what happens then? dildo timmmeeeeee :p :evil: :qt:
 
ponyfitness said:
Found a more recent pic:

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She's definitely aged a little but if her body is still there it should be a fun evening.

Give me K for the prompt pic request fulfillment.
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she's beautiful bro.
 
redsamurai said:
why would he necessarily want to do her a favor..?? It seems like she dumped him because maybe his wallet wasn't fat enough.......so she goes and get's hitched to a silicone valley mother fucker, finds out those types aren't exactly tigers in bed.....and altogether passionless anyway..........so now she wants some ex to hit it right?? That's a "have your cake and eat it too" if I"ve ever seen it. I wouldn't even meet with her.........but I like homeboy's plan of having her husband pay for his dinner than excuse himself by saying I've got a late night booty date I've got to make, see ya!!!
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Actually we dated years ago in university, we broke up because she moved away and eventually went overseas to teach English. Her husband from her description (and pics) sounds like a dork who managed to score the hot arm candy with low self esteem. I asked her when the last time she had an orgasm was and she said she couldn't remember tee hee.

She should be here in 30 mins, I'll update when she's gone. I'm not planning on doing anything with her except finding out exactly how shitty her sex life is and then teasing her about it. If she jumps me then I might give her a pity lay but I really don't need to.
 
ponyfitness said:
Actually we dated years ago in university, we broke up because she moved away and eventually went overseas to teach English. Her husband from her description (and pics) sounds like a dork who managed to score the hot arm candy with low self esteem. I asked her when the last time she had an orgasm was and she said she couldn't remember tee hee.

She should be here in 30 mins, I'll update when she's gone. I'm not planning on doing anything with her except finding out exactly how shitty her sex life is and then teasing her about it. If she jumps me then I might give her a pity lay but I really don't need to.
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oh, so you dated her a while ago. Still though..........she went for the money, not with her heart. But if she turns you on enough.........so be it, go for it. I just would find it difficult to even achieve erection for someone like her. Not that she's bad........but she's clearly shitting on a guy whom she did pick and should have known that's how the marriage was going to be. No woman ever looked at Bill Gates like "I'll bet he's a real tiger in bed"..........but I'm sure alot of women still looked at him and tried to flirt with him.
 
So she shows up, dressed very conservatively and really didn't look that good. I was surprised and expecting her to at least show off a bit with big rocks, etc but it wasn't there. Definitely chunkier than last time I saw her. Still has incredible eyes though.

Her life sucks. Her husband is gone all the time, she doesn't work and has very few friends. She's lonely as hell. It almost got pathetic after she yapped for an hour about herself. She talked about how she hasn't had sex in many months like she was dropping a hint but I didn't pick it up. I didn't even suggest my place because once we were done I had ZERO interest.

Years ago she got by on her looks but now I don't think I'd even date her, never mind sleep with her. Kind of an eye opener in another way I guess.

Ever have that happen with an ex?
 
ponyfitness said:
My ex girlfriend from many years back just called me up. She is currently married to a rich computer programmer in Cali, is a kept woman and is in town for two weeks while her father has hernia surgery. She was smoking hot in university but let herself go last time I saw her - she claims she has lost weight and looks good now.

Old pic:
mvkyhi.jpg
(the redhead on the right)

She just invited herself over to my place tomorrow night after telling me a story about another "friend" of hers that had an affair while she was away, dropping all sorts of hints about how she hasn't had good sex in a long time, etc.

Pretty sad that I'm 95% sure I will get action with her (I'm not going to of course) only because she is lonely and probably gets nothing but 20 pump dumps from her husband. I'm going to get her to buy me dinner and then throw her out after taking her panties to mail to her husband.

Another brilliant example for those who support marriage!
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It's not the institution of marriage that does or doesn't work, it's the two people involved. My parents have been together for 30 years and they are still very happy. Not because there have never been any major hurdles...but because both were aware that marriage doesn't come easy, that it's work sometimes. They did the work, got through a couple of big rough spots, and would tell you that they are closer now than they've ever been (something I can confirm).

Divorce in this day and age is a product of a lot of societal changes, not the least of which is that we now live in a world of instant gratification. People won't do the work, they let things get to an irreparable place, and then get divorced. I feel amazingly blessed to have had my two parents as examples to grow up seeing that marriage isn't always hearts and flowers and romance, that sometimes it takes effort, and that the fruits of that effort make it worth the work.
 
my parents - married 28 years - 29 this year.

my husband's parents married 28 years as well

marriage works for those who want it to
 
so you are taking it upon yourself to punish her??

she is or was someone you cared for, and now you are going to attempt to hurt her..

Nice..
 
my parents - married 28 years - 29 this year.

my husband's parents married 28 years as well

marriage works for those who want it to
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True marriage does work for those who want it, but 30 years ago the world was much different and divorce was looked down upon, now a days divorce is no big deal to people. It happens so often
 
digimon7068 said:
mine's great. . .16 years strong in june. . .you'll never see a 16th anniversary. . .i feel bad for you. . .you have no idea what you're missing. . .
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Mine is 16 years in June as well!!! On the 8th! Still going strong as ever!! Actually better since we have both grown up!!!
 
the_alcatraz said:
What if, God forbid, his penis fell off, his tongue got cutt off and he lost his fingers....what happens then? dildo timmmeeeeee :p :evil: :qt:
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You forgot his toes!!!! With a little practice...

Just sayin'
 
ponyfitness said:
Found a more recent pic:

29qdzzn.jpg


She's definitely aged a little but if her body is still there it should be a fun evening.

Give me K for the prompt pic request fulfillment.
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If she is a kept woman, dude has real low standards!!! Sorry but if I was keeping that, I would have to throw it out! She ain't looking like that and spending my money! LOL
 
pappad said:
If she is a kept woman, dude has real low standards!!! Sorry but if I was keeping that, I would have to throw it out! She ain't looking like that and spending my money! LOL
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lol
 
seaking420 said:
True marriage does work for those who want it, but 30 years ago the world was much different and divorce was looked down upon, now a days divorce is no big deal to people. It happens so often
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My parents most recent issue hapened about five years ago. I'll never forget my mothers words - "Divorce would be the easy answer. I love your father too much for that."

Saying people get divorced because there's less stigma and they are lazy doesn't change the fact that marriage can and does work.

The key thing I stated is my parents are together and HAPPY. They aren't together just because they think there's a stigma attached to getting divorced. Hell, my mom divorced her first husband back when it was less than popular to do so (he was abusive). They are together simply because they want to be and because they were willing to do what it took to make it work.
 
Lots of guys are married to cunts. I feel for them.
 
Lotta women married to losers. I don't feel for them at all.

You know why divorces are so expensive?

Because they are sooooooooooo worth it. :lmao:
 
the_alcatraz said:
What if, God forbid, his penis fell off, his tongue got cutt off and he lost his fingers....what happens then? dildo timmmeeeeee :p :evil: :qt:
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Yup... that and the fact that he is KIND to me, treats me like I am THE MOST IMPORTANT HUMAN BEING ON THE PLANET is what made me decide to marry him and what causes me to STAY married to him.

He ain't perfect and neither am I. If couples would only remember that a little kindness goes a loooooooooong way.
 
For those who say that "divorce is too easy nowadays" I won't disagree too much, HOWEVER, there were many, MANY, MANY women who were forced to stay in horrible marriages because there was no way out at the time.

Divorce is a blessing and a curse, like marriage, I suppose.

I guess it is for us to make "our own".... C'est nes pas?
 
The typical male response is classic, the cock is clearly the salve to all unfulfilled girlfriends and repressed house wives, and the true path of salvation for all the sad lonely ladies out there, that we can slowly fuck them all back into full bloom, give them their confidence boost, and carry on with the quest.
 
JayC9 said:
The typical male response is classic, the cock is clearly the salve to all unfulfilled girlfriends and repressed house wives, and the true path of salvation for all the sad lonely ladies out there, that we can slowly fuck them all back into full bloom, give them their confidence boost, and carry on with the quest.
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i'm not so good at the slow stuff :whatever:
 
m: it’s ‘him’, not ‘her’, it’s a guy remember
h: out of respect i use ‘her’, you’ll get knifed referring to her as a male
m: still, you’re having intercourse with another man
h: they’re not men, they’re a species unto themselves
m: rubbish, it’s a guy in a dress
h: no it’s true, they’ve physically and emotionally morphed themselves into another species, ok they’re not female but also definitely no longer male, it’s living evolution
m: they can’t reproduce
h: they don’t need to, their very existence is enough to influence those with like thought and feeling, look at the case of the sixteen year old who had his testicles removed, his younger friends couldn’t wait to get there’s cut off too, the government changed laws after that incident, which only acknowledges their actuality in society.
m: big hands and feet
h: not all of them, some are unbelievably stunning and they’re better than most women in bed, she came round at four this morning and didn’t leave till after ten, six straight hours and three packs of condoms later.
m: guess you’d use more when there’s two in play
h: true
m: you’re fucking a dude with makeup, i can’t believe this
h: i’m fucking a transitional new species that happens to constantly need sex
m: that’s delusional
h: it can be like that

dark side -
 
JayC9 said:
m: it’s ‘him’, not ‘her’, it’s a guy remember
h: out of respect i use ‘her’, you’ll get knifed referring to her as a male
m: still, you’re having intercourse with another man
h: they’re not men, they’re a species unto themselves
m: rubbish, it’s a guy in a dress
h: no it’s true, they’ve physically and emotionally morphed themselves into another species, ok they’re not female but also definitely no longer male, it’s living evolution
m: they can’t reproduce
h: they don’t need to, their very existence is enough to influence those with like thought and feeling, look at the case of the sixteen year old who had his testicles removed, his younger friends couldn’t wait to get there’s cut off too, the government changed laws after that incident, which only acknowledges their actuality in society.
m: big hands and feet
h: not all of them, some are unbelievably stunning and they’re better than most women in bed, she came round at four this morning and didn’t leave till after ten, six straight hours and three packs of condoms later.
m: guess you’d use more when there’s two in play
h: true
m: you’re fucking a dude with makeup, i can’t believe this
h: i’m fucking a transitional new species that happens to constantly need sex
m: that’s delusional
h: it can be like that

dark side -
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i don't get it. . .but that's not uncommon. . .
 
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