This great quote by Jonah Goldberg sums up the issue of "homophobia" for me.
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The Left has defined anything critical of (for want of a better phrase) "the gay-rights agenda" or "gay culture" as homophobia. Homophobia leads to hatred, the argument goes, and hatred to violence. What a coup! There are things about African-American culture I do not love. I am not afraid of, nor do I hate, African Americans. And I am fundamentally opposed to any form of racially motivated violence against black people---for any reason. There are things about Japanese culture I think are downright terrible (brutal mysogyny being one), but I don't hate the people. There are things about the Chinese I think all Americans should deplore. Does this make me a "Sinophobe"?
The exaggerated definition of homophobia is a brilliant and cynical ploy to close off any reasonable debate. I am against gay marriage. I am troubled by gay adoption. If I say so, does this mean that I am encouraging morons to kill gay people? Just a few years ago, black civil rights leaders adamantly opposed white people adopting black children on the grounds that it was "cultural genocide." Did the phone lines light up with people charging "Caucaso-phobia"---even though this view was reflected in national law? While I think homophobia is a smear word, I am beginning to think that homophilia makes a lot of sense when describing how the Left views gays. For the Left, when was the last time anything was wrong with anything gays do?
http://www.nationalreview.com/goldberg/goldberg101698.html
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The Left has defined anything critical of (for want of a better phrase) "the gay-rights agenda" or "gay culture" as homophobia. Homophobia leads to hatred, the argument goes, and hatred to violence. What a coup! There are things about African-American culture I do not love. I am not afraid of, nor do I hate, African Americans. And I am fundamentally opposed to any form of racially motivated violence against black people---for any reason. There are things about Japanese culture I think are downright terrible (brutal mysogyny being one), but I don't hate the people. There are things about the Chinese I think all Americans should deplore. Does this make me a "Sinophobe"?
The exaggerated definition of homophobia is a brilliant and cynical ploy to close off any reasonable debate. I am against gay marriage. I am troubled by gay adoption. If I say so, does this mean that I am encouraging morons to kill gay people? Just a few years ago, black civil rights leaders adamantly opposed white people adopting black children on the grounds that it was "cultural genocide." Did the phone lines light up with people charging "Caucaso-phobia"---even though this view was reflected in national law? While I think homophobia is a smear word, I am beginning to think that homophilia makes a lot of sense when describing how the Left views gays. For the Left, when was the last time anything was wrong with anything gays do?
http://www.nationalreview.com/goldberg/goldberg101698.html