My homosexuality is not due to rebellion. At 5yo, I did not have a clue what sex or homosexuality was, and I can remeber having a crush on a friend of mine. I never acted on any of the feelings I had, and I made a effort to sleep with as many women as I could to prove that these feelings were not valid. However, I had to fantasize about men to finish the deal. It is like asking you if you chose be be straight or if you did so to rebel. It is ludicrous. Just because you can not understand something, does not mean it is not valid or wrong.
I never respond to these threads, because I think they are a waste of time. I do have to wonder why it seems so many of the straight men on here are so preoccupied with this subject. Why do you care if you are not gay? What is your objective in wanting to prove that homosexuality is a choice, sickness, or whatever else you claim it is. We do not give a damn that you are straight, and would never think that you should change your sexual orientation so what do you care what our sexual orientation is?