At what point do you write someone off as a friend?

[Sub-Zero]

i used to get worked over by a long lost cousin all the time. he'd flake out on my at random, had the balls to ask me to be in his wedding and pulled the same shit. it resulted in me not going. cut ties with another friend before that. she was the type of chick that was a social floater. always went places uninvited, no one liked her etc. yeah i felt horrible for cutting them off but i'm better off now!

if you ever get the feeling that you're being used in a friendship. then its NOT a friendship period!

send him a text that he was going to get drafted to your fantasy friends team but he didn't make the cut.

this is the shitty thing.

when you care enough about a friend to get fucked over more than once its hard to cut them off. almost feels like breaking up. especially if they are in your social circle and u still have to see them regularly.

"oh hey let me get in on that ill pay ya back"

"uhm but u already owe me 100"

i threatened to beat up everyone in a room if they passed the blunt to one kid, who left me at the airport and owed me lota money. instead i just sat on the pot until other people in the room gave me money on his behalf. i felt like a gay tool, it wasnt about the money so much as me refusing to spot him and i didnt even invite him along anyways just tagged the fuck along

 

[ortiz34]

Doesn't sound like a friend
He needs to straighten himself up
I just got back together with a HS buddy, we have been going fishing every weekend since May. I'm now starting to realize again why I didn't hang out with this DB anymore.
Only problem is he has the boat. I'm scouring CL as we speak for a Bass boat

 

[DannoMight]

I mean partying (coke/weed/pills) is more important to this guy than seeing his own children. So where does a supposed friend who doesn't give out anymore freebee's fall into? Like I said after i quit the weed and am no longer rollin blunts of dank dude has been coming around WAY WAY less often. Plus everyday I'm finding out more and more negative shit about the DB. So good riddance.

 

[mustang_00]

this is the shitty thing.

when you care enough about a friend to get fucked over more than once its hard to cut them off. almost feels like breaking up. especially if they are in your social circle and u still have to see them regularly.

"oh hey let me get in on that ill pay ya back"

"uhm but u already owe me 100"

i threatened to beat up everyone in a room if they passed the blunt to one kid, who left me at the airport and owed me lota money. instead i just sat on the pot until other people in the room gave me money on his behalf. i felt like a gay tool, it wasnt about the money so much as me refusing to spot him and i didnt even invite him along anyways just tagged the fuck along

i saw him 3 weeks after the wedding. they rolled back into town after the honeymoon to say bye to their parents. i had no idea he was back.

i almost get side swiped off the highway by his moms SUV. i'm like WTF!? so she rolls down the window (pissed off red face) i roll mine down. she starts yelling "OH YOU WANT TO SEE HIM NOW?" i had no idea what the fuck she was talking about until i saw his face. the cock sucker was ducked down hiding behind her shoulder like a bitch. so i yell back "you're gonna get your sons ass kicked" caught her off guard cause her jaw dropped and she drastically slowed down.

that was back in july 09. he called me new years day cause he came back down. ditched me out yet again. got a call from his wife. i knew her before he did but we weren't really good friends. we just had mutual friends. she apologized for the wedding and everything else. turns out he never told anyone that he asked me to be in it. she found out threw his sister about it all.

in all honesty once you get the negative people/users out of your life. it's refreshing/relieving. you can feel yourself becoming happier without the baggage.