I understand this but can't relate to it.
Weight is very tangible. if you can life more than yesterday -- that's progress. But ultimately, it's not that important. (To me). And bodybuilding is about sculpting the muscles, which takes more than just lifting more.
I'm a believer in the philosophy' "Train for shape, and strength will come."
I'm stronger than the average dude because I lift. But there are a million guys who can out lift me. Then again, I've never known a woman who got turned on by someone because they could bench press more than everybody else.
As Louie Simmons would say, that makes me a
" pretty muscle boy. " So be it. But when it comes to what a woman wants in a man (besides money) they'll say
looks, intelligence and sense of humor. I've never seen a high DL number in that requirment.
Sorry to digress.