Best way to tell someone they can't stay?

[the_alcatraz]

you're SO subtle!

lol

 

[HAYEZ]

Why don't you just tell her the truth? Basically what you just said. And if you don't feel comfortable telling her, email her that way you will be able to organize your thoughts better.

yup with what he says!!!

 

[heatherrae]

sounds like she misunderstood why you agreed to have dinner again and is asuming sex is going to be involved.

 

[goin on 4T]

sounds like she misunderstood why you agreed to have dinner again and is asuming sex is going to be involved.

Nice might as well invite her husband too!

 

[heatherrae]

Nice might as well invite her husband too!

lol...hey, whatever you're into...lol.

 

[goin on 4T]

lol...hey, whatever you're into...lol.

Not me
1. I am not married.
2. I don't share very well.

 

[-Ariel-]

Not me
1. I am not married.
2. I don't share very well.

+1
I will sow this onto my pillow after I shower tonight.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Suggest several good and reasonably priced hotels/motels in the area.

Or the Grump just offered, tell her that you will gladly meet her for dinner at whatever hotel she is staying at.

If she comes out and asks, "Can I crash on your couch?" come straight out and say, "I'm sorry but that would REALLY offend my gf and frankly regardless of that, I don't feel comfortable with it."

 

[velvett]

Ask her what hotel she is staying at and when she pauses or tells you that she though she'd be staying with you - just be honest.

 

[heatherrae]

yep, what bikinimom and velvett said up there ^^^^^^^^^^^^


PS --she's cheating on you.