so I'm in the hog house...

[zwhit]

i must confess...i wood be too. however, i woodn't have done the go-through-the-phone-messages thing on my wife's phone...that thing belongs to her...and i'm just knot that insecure.

I'd be more pissed about the hanging with the dude I didn't like.

Why doesn't he like the guy, shirl?

 

[shirlene29]

he cant give me any valid reason....says the guy is "my type" and hes not in the "i wanna hit it sense" but hes a lot like quite a few of my friends
dudes a decently dressed, fun, well read..geek frankly

 

[underattack]

actually he'll call...and then proceed to call every 5 minutes until I come home .
Thisis whats he's done in the literally 5 times (this got counted up by him and he lost steam) that I've gone out with out him in almost 8 years

That sucks bigtime. Im sry for you! And hes prolly cheating!

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Should have replied to the text hubby sent IMI give him a bj you will be out of the dog house quick

 

[shirlene29]

ya...I'm probably gonna have to and mean it...lol

 

[superqt4u2nv]

ya...I'm probably gonna have to and mean it...lol

Well then its a win win really

 

[EarthRider]

I'd be more pissed about the hanging with the dude I didn't like.

Why doesn't he like the guy, shirl?

yeah you need to respect him not wanting you to get drunk with some dude that you sound attracted to.

he does sound insecure though. when my wife goes out with her gf's, i seriously don't call at all. i trust her completely and let her have fun. if she needs something she will call. i guess i figure too, if she is going to cheat, no way i can stop it. so i just never worry about it and love her and trust her. but i married a lady who is extrememly loyal too, so i win

 

[shirlene29]

how does that read I'm attracted to the guy?

all my IRL friends are male...I've slept with absolutely none of them
I seriously have one chick friend and thats always a couples thing cuz her and I get along and her husband and my husband get along

 

[EarthRider]

i don't know, i am sorry maybe you're knot, only you know

keep in mind what else i posted, i did say he sounds insecure and should settle down with phone calls and leave you alone when you go out

 

[shirlene29]

yeah I caught it..and yeah...he's insecure as all hell and it makes me a little mental

as far as being attracted to the co-worker..no
I think the dudes fun as hell and has been an excellent friend to me...but hes seriously like 6'4" and 160 lbs..not my sexy scene at all