Sorry to hear Nan. I never felt one iota of guilt when i got divirced. It was amazing and the best decision for me in the long run. So much happier now!
nan what you're feeling is normal. You made your decision, you don't want to waste any more precious time if you're going to just end up like this again years from now. You don't have kids together, you have no religious pressure to stay married...
He just guilted the fuck out of me for giving up, for not trying counseling for throwing our future away. He asked me if I was sure because he wouldn't take me back. Of course I'm not sure, how can one ever be totally sure!? Only thing I'm sure of is that I refuse to keep living like this.