You guys have been great

[javaguru]

oh okay. I wasn't sure what happened cause i wasn't gonna go through this humongous thread.lol

anyways, it sounds like you blaming her for this, even though you tried to soften it up by claiming it your fault. so i'll go back to what i said earlier and say don't let this get you bitter. if whatever you had is over, letting bitterness linger is the worst self inflicted punishment.

Bitterness implies an emotional attachment...There is a reason I keep my self detached. I wish the best for Cindy...I hope she finds a good christian man to date that will treat her well.

 

[bigpokey]

No geigh....Your lifestyle choices are your own and nobody should judge you for them. I'm a proponent of equal civil rights for everyone...Just don't post your sexual fantasies about me....just keep them for your private gratification.

call him mr. raider, call him mr. wrong

 

[*ebony*]

Bitterness implies an emotional attachment...There is a reason I keep my self detached. I wish the best for Cindy...I hope she finds a good christian man to date that will treat her well.

some of ur posts the i've read say otherwise on the emotional detachment. then again you just told us not to read too much into ur posts. what do i know anyways.

and if that is what cindylou wants, then i hope the same for her as well.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Nah..I also know you stalk EF peeps and call them at work...

lol talking about me huh? please tell me he didn't do that to anyone else.

Oh, I also know about your e-affair with cindy.

 

[cindylou]

In all fairness I didn't sleep at all that night and I was only convinced for a couple seconds until I asked the alter to send me a text to prove it was you...with the phone sitting by my side and feeling the relief of having made contact and then to realize it was fake just reopened everything again. And I wasn't drinking and I'm not going to fight with you. There was no emotional affair and you know it. Me telling someone something and then cutting off contact means nothing even was allowed to happen besides a good friendship....and that's even implying that Mitch would even DO anything..you are making a ton of assumptions. I did the right thing and you're still calling me an adulterer...I did what was right out of respect for Johnny and my marriage.

I call bullshit on the no emotional attachment. Bullshit. You don't have to keep hurting me you know. You. Could. Just. Stop. I stayed off line last night on purpose. You hurting me isn't going to be your new online excitement. Where is this character and honor you keep claiming you have and why do you have to keep hurting me for pleasure?

lol@ you trying to expose my text..I made a thread calling out whoever made the alter and I admitted I forgave the alter and Ammie climbed all over me. It's deleted now. I have this pesky side of my personality that wants to forgive others no matter what they do; knowing why you do what you do helps me be able to forgive you and turn my negative emotions into postive, constructive ones...it helps me be successful in life. BTW being successful in life also includes relationships. Did you ever hear me talk bad about Johnny to you? I did everything I could to try and make that marriage work and I was going to do everything I could with our little "relationship" to work too..and why wouldn't I? You were worth it to me imo..you were worth taking a risk and meeting..you were worth the risk. Like you always said..I can't control other people but I can control what I do and I can control how I feel. You have no control over your emotions. None. The only way you can control them is to fake that you dont have any on the internet. lol nice life.

Why couldn't you just call me and tell me that its over like a normal person? I'll never understand that...we just finish watching a movie then I log on and see you've been trying to dump me for weeks and the only way you can is to hurt me so bad that maybe I'll never speak to you again...really? Do you really think at this point I believe anything you type out on this forum?

 

[billfred]

just ignore him people....maybe he'll go away.

Lol at someone with pictures off his arse in gallery going anywhere

 

[cindylou]

I watched the social network last night and it was almost uncomfortable enough to turn off...especially the first 30 min or so where he posts online about his exgf's tits and expects her not to give a shit later when he wants her back...she says...the words on the internet are not written in pencil...lol

 

[cindylou]

lol this is how the convo went in plat..

javaguru: You act like a child
cindylou: You act like a child
javaguru: You make me that way *that was convincing
cindylou: Damn you
cindylou: I don't understand why you have to be so hateful
cindylou: talking about me being molested and the pictures I sent
cindylou: I just don't understand..I dont understand
javaguru: I don't think I realize the value you are to me
javaguru: I'm sorry it has to be this way
javaguru: *here he said something about being bonnie and clyde lol this is where I got suspicious
cindylou: Prove to me that this is you
cindylou: send me a text
cindylou: send me a text with the number 7

 

[cindylou]

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[cindylou]

Bitterness implies an emotional attachment...There is a reason I keep my self detached. I wish the best for Cindy...I hope she finds a good christian man to date that will treat her well.

lol you think anyone believes that? After what you've done to me? lol @ you wishing the best for me...the things you told me in private..if they were not true and you never planned on meeting me..then you are a true psychopath.

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