You ever think that God is testing you?

[heatherrae]

The other night this man who I dated back in 1999 before I met and married my ex-husband crossed my mind. He was very kind, intelligent, gentle, mature, absolutely perfect EXCEPT there was no physical chemistry on my part.

However, I was thinking the other night that if another great person like that came into my life again, I would not put him to the side for lack of physical chemistry.

Then, the weirdest thing happened! The next morning he called me! I had not spoken to him in YEARS and it was a weird series of coincidences that landed my phone number in his hands (he is also an attorney here in Kentucky). Anyway, he asked me out to lunch for tomorrow.

Then, a guy who I had awesome physical chemistry but not much else back from when I was 19-20 years old wrote me an email. He had found me online, and he wants to hook up. What the heck! He sent current pictures and he is still EXTREMELY handsome and even is still modeling on the side. He's a physical therapist. My angel on the left shoulder knows full well I should avoid this situation at all costs, but the devil on my shoulder keeps thinking about the physical aspects.

UGH. I think God is calling my bluff.

 

[AAP]

please forward said hot pics to me.

and hurry.

 

[Raptorex]

that is called "manifesting" people do it all the time.

 

[calveless wonder]

always.........

everything happens for a reason.

 

[myway]

It sounds like a shot worth taking. If u haven't been around him for awhile, maybe u will find the chemistry has changed. Maybe he isn't the same as u remember. Maybe u have both grown. Keep ur options open.
I remember when I had a hella good looking boyfriend. All of my friends thought he was a jerk but I thought we had "chemistry".
My friends all thought I should date my friend, Nate. Nate was one of my best friends but I couldn't imagine ever being more than friends. It was like that for a couple of years.
Now, I would take my hubby(Nate) over the other guy ANY DAY.
U never know how the cards are gonna fall.

 

[heatherrae]

check your k

black hair and bright blue eyes.

have mercy!

 

[calveless wonder]

check your k

black hair and bright blue eyes.

have mercy!

favorite combo on a chick.
green eyes + dark hair is pretty hot too...

too bad they all end up being evil as fuck

 

[javaguru]

The other night this man who I dated back in 1999 before I met and married my ex-husband crossed my mind. He was very kind, intelligent, gentle, mature, absolutely perfect EXCEPT there was no physical chemistry on my part.

However, I was thinking the other night that if another great person like that came into my life again, I would not put him to the side for lack of physical chemistry.

Then, the weirdest thing happened! The next morning he called me! I had not spoken to him in YEARS and it was a weird series of coincidences that landed my phone number in his hands (he is also an attorney here in Kentucky). Anyway, he asked me out to lunch for tomorrow.

Then, a guy who I had awesome physical chemistry but not much else back from when I was 19-20 years old wrote me an email. He had found me online, and he wants to hook up. What the heck! He sent current pictures and he is still EXTREMELY handsome and even is still modeling on the side. He's a physical therapist. My angel on the left shoulder knows full well I should avoid this situation at all costs, but the devil on my shoulder keeps thinking about the physical aspects.

UGH. I think God is calling my bluff.

Nah, that's normal for an aging single mother.

 

[heatherrae]

It sounds like a shot worth taking. If u haven't been around him for awhile, maybe u will find the chemistry has changed. Maybe he isn't the same as u remember. Maybe u have both grown. Keep ur options open.
I remember when I had a hella good looking boyfriend. All of my friends thought he was a jerk but I thought we had "chemistry".
My friends all thought I should date my friend, Nate. Nate was one of my best friends but I couldn't imagine ever being more than friends. It was like that for a couple of years.
Now, I would take my hubby(Nate) over the other guy ANY DAY.
U never know how the cards are gonna fall.

yes, and that is what my intelligent, rational mind is thinking.

It is the primitive, Id portion of my mind that is messing with me.

 

[heatherrae]

that is called "manifesting" people do it all the time.

I must be particularly good at manifesting b/c I have this weird stuff happen ALL THE TIME.

I won't go into detail, but it is almost creepy some of the weird stuff that comes about after I think about it.

 

[velvett]

favorite combo on a chick.
green eyes + dark hair is pretty hot too...

too bad they all end up being evil as fuck

LOL

Dark brown and green here....and certainly part evil

 

[chaos13]

i don't believe in god.....so i guess not

 

[heatherrae]

Okay, only for a short time and then I will delete it.

Here is the great looking one:

 

[heatherrae]

he is so my "type."

 

[javaguru]

LOL

Dark brown and green here....and certainly part evil

My ex-wife is Irish and she's a brunette,5'2", fair skin, and dark blue eyes. We were at a TBA function and Harry Connick Sr. and his band was playing, "Five foot two and eyes of blue. "

 

[calveless wonder]

LOL

Dark brown and green here....and certainly part evil

just marry me already

 

[txbondsman]

nice looking man.... do him and date the other guy. done, next.

 

[binö]

he is so my "type."

what is the yohnson like? and how did you end up with a old crusty dude if "hot boy" is your type???

 

[AAP]

had him

 

[heatherrae]

what is the yohnson like? and how did you end up with a old crusty dude if "hot boy" is your type???

well the good looking guy is actually pretty damn smart too, but he was a bad boy. He promises that he has reformed, but I certainly am not falling for that at 37...lol. I don't usually go for bad boys for more than a roll in the hay or two...lol.

 

[heatherrae]

nice looking man.... do him and date the other guy. done, next.

mmmmmmmm....yeah. I might just do that...lol.

 

[binö]

well the good looking guy is actually pretty damn smart too, but he was a bad boy. He promises that he has reformed, but I certainly am not falling for that at 37...lol. I don't usually go for bad boys for more than a roll in the hay or two...lol.

hr, don;t take this the wrong way but i think dude could have his way with you fairly easily, bad boy or not.
i think you are vunerable, for the right guy

 

[heatherrae]

had him

lolol...like I care.

 

[txbondsman]

mmmmmmmm....yeah. I might just do that...lol.

uhhhh YEAH, duhh.....

 

[heatherrae]

hr, don;t take this the wrong way but i think dude could have his way with you fairly easily, bad boy or not.
i think you are vunerable, for the right guy

The point is that it would be my choice and there would be no misunderstanding on my part about what the whole thing was about.

See what I mean? We are all adults, afterall, and this isn't the 50's.

;-)

 

[txbondsman]

I can feel a crash diet coming on for somebody....

 

[saint808]

|I am pretty sure there is no god and if I am wrong i still think he has nothing to do with you being desperate for a male companion.

 

[heatherrae]

I can feel a crash diet coming on for somebody....

ummm...pwnd.

so true.

 

[txbondsman]

ummm...pwnd.

so true.

fyi, it's amazing how a little extra effort when giving BJ's makes a few extra LB's soooooo much not a problem for the man....( and the graitiutious morning BJ, he wouldn't even notice, I assure you )

 

[heatherrae]

|I am pretty sure there is no god and if I am wrong i still think he has nothing to do with you being desperate for a male companion.

I'm not desperate for male companionship. I have male companionship 24/7 with my son. I get asked out lots. I just haven't been going out except with one guy from TX, but TX is so far away.

 

[gotmilk]

http://www.voyeurweb.com/ig_main/2008mainfiles/02February/14/3.jpg

 

[heatherrae]

fyi, it's amazing how a little extra effort when giving BJ's makes a few extra LB's soooooo much not a problem for the man....( and the graitiutious morning BJ, he wouldn't even notice, I assure you )

LOL...don't make me think about that stuff. I was telling God the other night that I would be mature in my choices next time...lol.

 

[gotmilk]

If God wanted to test you, he'd make a solar powered vibrator

 

[heatherrae]

If God wanted to test you, he'd make a solar powered vibrator

 

[txbondsman]

LOL...don't make me think about that stuff. I was telling God the other night that I would be mature in my choices next time...lol.

the morning BJ is a mature choice, shows you really "care"....
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

 

[heatherrae]

spoken like a true man...lol.

 

[binö]

hr can i use that pic as an avatar? i need one

 

[heatherrae]

hr can i use that pic as an avatar? i need one

hell no! lol. It's not mine to give.

 

[txbondsman]

spoken like a true man...lol.

the truth is the truth, jes trying to hep ya out there gurl, time to get back on the bycycle, you haven't forgotten how to ride have you?

 

[heatherrae]

the truth is the truth, jes trying to hep ya out there gurl, time to get back on the bycycle, you haven't forgotten how to ride have you?

I have been using my visualization exercises...lol.

 

[AAP]

lolol...like I care.

of course he never owns up to it. like it didn't happen.

I promised I wouldn't tell anyone.

I lied.

 

[heatherrae]

of course he never owns up to it. like it didn't happen.

I promised I wouldn't tell anyone.

I lied.

that is okay. I wasn't thinking of marrying him.

 

[gotmilk]

sounds like you're about to get double teamed.

 

[Big Rick Rock]

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The other night this man who I dated back in 1999 before I met and married my ex-husband crossed my mind. He was very kind, intelligent, gentle, mature, absolutely perfect EXCEPT there was no physical chemistry on my part.

However, I was thinking the other night that if another great person like that came into my life again, I would not put him to the side for lack of physical chemistry.

Then, the weirdest thing happened! The next morning he called me! I had not spoken to him in YEARS and it was a weird series of coincidences that landed my phone number in his hands (he is also an attorney here in Kentucky). Anyway, he asked me out to lunch for tomorrow.

Then, a guy who I had awesome physical chemistry but not much else back from when I was 19-20 years old wrote me an email. He had found me online, and he wants to hook up. What the heck! He sent current pictures and he is still EXTREMELY handsome and even is still modeling on the side. He's a physical therapist. My angel on the left shoulder knows full well I should avoid this situation at all costs, but the devil on my shoulder keeps thinking about the physical aspects.

UGH. I think God is calling my bluff.

 

[Lestat]

yeah, I am sure that a supposed supreme being takes an active interest in the minute details of your day to day life. Makes perfect sense.

 

[heatherrae]

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I was not commenting on tool size. That would just be wrong on so many levels.

 

[txbondsman]

I have been using my visualization exercises...lol.

did I ever tell you that I was in American Woman mag? they had my pic in as a "most eligible batchlor (sp, good thing it wasn't for spelling) in Texas", there was 3 of us. If I send you a copy of that pic when I was younger, would you "visualize" with it? LOL
I'm hoping for a little ESP type of thing happening, heavy on the sensory.....

 

[heatherrae]

did I ever tell you that I was in American Woman mag? they had my pic in as a "most eligible batchlor (sp, good thing it wasn't for spelling) in Texas", there was 3 of us. If I send you a copy of that pic when I was younger, would you "visualize" with it? LOL
I'm hoping for a little ESP type of thing happening, heavy on the sensory.....

sure. I could use the visual help...lol.

 

[heatherrae]

yeah, I am sure that a supposed supreme being takes an active interest in the minute details of your day to day life. Makes perfect sense.

don't get pissy with me cutie. I'll visualize your brains out, next, against your will.

 

[Lestat]

don't get pissy with me cutie. I'll visualize your brains out, next, against your will.

lol. right.

do you ever get the feeling that the moon's phases affect your mood? oh wait, that is something that would actually be testable!

 

[heatherrae]

lol. right.

do you ever get the feeling that the moon's phases affect your mood? oh wait, that is something that would actually be testable!

No. Geez, are you taking the "god testing me" thing literally? It's an idiom? That is all.

 

[AAP]

that is okay. I wasn't thinking of marrying him.

BUT I WAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[heatherrae]

BUT I WAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lol...that is still okay. You might want to be careful, though, I hear he has been with some pretty wild girl...oh wait, that was me.

 

[txbondsman]

sure. I could use the visual help...lol.

I'm gonna see if I can find the damn thing or one about the same year. Lets' see I was about 32 errr 34 maybe, and now I'm......not 30...... anything, I have one somewhere... prolly have to scan it to the PC...... hummm

 

[AAP]

lol...that is still okay. You might want to be careful, though, I hear he has been with some pretty wild girl...oh wait, that was me.

You mean you learned dirty tricks than what I taught you? damnnnn

 

[heatherrae]

You mean you learned dirty tricks than what I taught you? damnnnn

no, you were my first and only.

 

[Lestat]

No. Geez, are you taking the "god testing me" thing literally? It's an idiom? That is all.

ah gotcha, I thought you really meant to say you were being put to a test by a supernatural being. Forget I ever said anything.

 

[heatherrae]

ah gotcha, I thought you really meant to say you were being put to a test by a supernatural being. Forget I ever said anything.

I literally have an angel and devil on my shoulders, too. I wish they would wear soft soled tennis shoes, at least...lol. ;-)

 

[puddlemonkey]

I'm not desperate for male companionship.

You suck at lying.

 

[heatherrae]

You suck at lying.

you suck at life.


lol////j\k.

 

[puddlemonkey]

 

[heatherrae]

there there, monkey butt. here's a banana.

 

[Bikini Mod]

The other night this man who I dated back in 1999 before I met and married my ex-husband crossed my mind. He was very kind, intelligent, gentle, mature, absolutely perfect EXCEPT there was no physical chemistry on my part.

However, I was thinking the other night that if another great person like that came into my life again, I would not put him to the side for lack of physical chemistry.

Then, the weirdest thing happened! The next morning he called me! I had not spoken to him in YEARS and it was a weird series of coincidences that landed my phone number in his hands (he is also an attorney here in Kentucky). Anyway, he asked me out to lunch for tomorrow.

Then, a guy who I had awesome physical chemistry but not much else back from when I was 19-20 years old wrote me an email. He had found me online, and he wants to hook up. What the heck! He sent current pictures and he is still EXTREMELY handsome and even is still modeling on the side. He's a physical therapist. My angel on the left shoulder knows full well I should avoid this situation at all costs, but the devil on my shoulder keeps thinking about the physical aspects.

UGH. I think God is calling my bluff.

Simple...

Go out with both of them. If you PASS the test, then you will realize that though the *hot* guy may still be physically attractive to you, that there ain't all that much more - you know, that whole *substance thing*? And the guy who you had no physical attraction to may or may not touch your mind and your heart. You know, with that *substance stuff*?.... You may not have moist panties by then end of the date or any time soon, but eventually if everything else is a go then you will never want to put your panties back on..... EVUH.

 

[Sub-Zero]

The other night this man who I dated back in 1999 before I met and married my ex-husband crossed my mind. He was very kind, intelligent, gentle, mature, absolutely perfect EXCEPT there was no physical chemistry on my part.

However, I was thinking the other night that if another great person like that came into my life again, I would not put him to the side for lack of physical chemistry.

Then, the weirdest thing happened! The next morning he called me! I had not spoken to him in YEARS and it was a weird series of coincidences that landed my phone number in his hands (he is also an attorney here in Kentucky). Anyway, he asked me out to lunch for tomorrow.

Then, a guy who I had awesome physical chemistry but not much else back from when I was 19-20 years old wrote me an email. He had found me online, and he wants to hook up. What the heck! He sent current pictures and he is still EXTREMELY handsome and even is still modeling on the side. He's a physical therapist. My angel on the left shoulder knows full well I should avoid this situation at all costs, but the devil on my shoulder keeps thinking about the physical aspects.

UGH. I think God is calling my bluff.

youre not as young and tight as you used to be heather. take a lesson from all the ex-clubsluts before you and latch onto this "niceguy" opportunity and hold on tight

 

[gotmilk]

then you will never want to put your panties back on..... EVUH.

LMAO at you thinking she even wears panties. She's RWA 24/7

 

[heavy_duty]

The other night this man who I dated back in 1999 before I met and married my ex-husband crossed my mind. He was very kind, intelligent, gentle, mature, absolutely perfect EXCEPT there was no physical chemistry on my part.

However, I was thinking the other night that if another great person like that came into my life again, I would not put him to the side for lack of physical chemistry.

Then, the weirdest thing happened! The next morning he called me! I had not spoken to him in YEARS and it was a weird series of coincidences that landed my phone number in his hands (he is also an attorney here in Kentucky). Anyway, he asked me out to lunch for tomorrow.

Then, a guy who I had awesome physical chemistry but not much else back from when I was 19-20 years old wrote me an email. He had found me online, and he wants to hook up. What the heck! He sent current pictures and he is still EXTREMELY handsome and even is still modeling on the side. He's a physical therapist. My angel on the left shoulder knows full well I should avoid this situation at all costs, but the devil on my shoulder keeps thinking about the physical aspects.

UGH. I think God is calling my bluff.

Y
R
U
So
Horny
?

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOL... ignore all the goofball posts, except mine.

And for the record, Ms Heatherrae, if you pick the empty-headed nothing to offer you except a good time dewd.... then you get every bit of nothing good from the experience you deserve.

Not being harsh... speaking straight from the heart because I care about you, Momma.

"Long stem roses may be the way to your heart but he needs to start with your head. Satin sheets may be very romantic but what happens when you're not in bed?"

You are brilliant Ms HeatherRae.... fuck elite. Know that there are those of us who want you to be happy and there are those that revel in the misery of others.... LOL

 

[all the whey]

Nah, that's normal for an aging single mother.

lol I knew java would take this.

The nerdy nice guys get the girls who dated, married, and or had kids with the bad boys.

They are more desirable now with there steady love. (and income)

But, they still get cheated on by the sexy guys. (that model on the side or like java.)

I have seen it happen a million times.



Now, I want to be a mod. Because, I would have locked this thread immidiately after java's post to avoid the loooovee talk..and fait...or god brought us together now. Plaleeeessss

 

[Wulfgar]

I think it is better to be in the hot guys shoes

cause he will get laid wether or not HR decides to date the old crusty fucker

 

[heatherrae]

I think it is better to be in the hot guys shoes

cause he will get laid wether or not HR decides to date the old crusty fucker

The other dude isnt old. Well, no older than me, anyway.

 

[Arabian]

Please take your birth control this time.. we cant stand another pregnancy..lol

 

[javaguru]

The other dude isnt old. Well, no older than me, anyway.

That qualifies as really old on EF since you're already "old" by EF standards.

 

[javaguru]

Please take your birth control this time.. we cant stand another pregnancy..lol

Yeah, I never got the dish, was this a planned pregnancy, unplanned or a trap by HR to snare the wealthy ex?

 

[FriendlyCanadian]

sometimes