WTF do men want?

[Werd]

Your girl returns an extremely expensive gift to you because she felt you hurt her feelings (no drama involved - she just left it on your nightstand) and when she tells you about it later she only keeps repeating that she loves and wants YOU and not "expensive stuff".

How would you, as the man feel about this?

 

[hamstershaver]

i would return the gift get the cash back and play poker and get a hooker with the $

 

[Code]

It's a slap in the face.
Only the red mark is more permanent.

Your man gave you the gift as a physical manifestation of his love for you.
So, in essence, you are refusing to accept his love.

 

[KillahBee]

It's a slap in the face.
Only the red mark is more permanent.

Your man gave you the gift as a physical manifestation of his love for you.
So, in essence, you are refusing to accept his love.

Yep. And it is dramatic, whether you want it to be or not.

 

[KillahBee]

PS - we also want a bloppy. or at least I do.

 

[Scotsman]

Your girl returns an extremely expensive gift to you because she felt you hurt her feelings (no drama involved - she just left it on your nightstand) and when she tells you about it later she only keeps repeating that she loves and wants YOU and not "expensive stuff".

How would you, as the man feel about this?

This is a tough one. He thought he was doing something really nice by getting an expensive gift. The idea that you didn't want it regails the "It's the thought that counts" idea. Sometimes it is better to accept something you don't really want so as to not hurt feelings. Remember buys act tough a lot but deep down are pretty sensitive about things they care about like gift giving to a woman they really like.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Dial_tone]

It's a slap in the face.
Only the red mark is more permanent.

Your man gave you the gift as a physical manifestation of his love for you.
So, in essence, you are refusing to accept his love.

<insert CHA-CHING sound>

He bought it because he wanted her to have it.

 

[Code]

Oh, and most men expect a blowjob for every 100 dollars on the purchase price of the gift.

 

[MrMuscle]

If i buy a girl a gift, its because i want her to have it. Returning it is a stab in the chest. And not a thing to do if you care about the guy.

 

[Tactile]

The confusing part is that you're confirming to the guy that you love him, and want him. My first thoughts are that the guy only knows how to express himself through an action..such as giving you a gift. Maybe when you sensed that he was getting frustrated you should have accepted the gift anyway, and reiterated that it's HIM that you really want, but you love the gift and you love him for giving it to you.