Congrats! You found the right girl! I found the right girl too-twice!!! The 1st one was quite supportive of my bodybuilding endeavors. She even paid a lot of my bills and never flipped me shit for anything. She never denied me sex and she took shots to the face like Jenna Jameson. In return I showed her how to train and got her in unbelievable shape-which really helped her self esteem. I let her leech off of my successful personal training biz and provided her with a shitload of clients. For the very 1st time in her life she had financial independence. After 5 yrs, marriage for us was just around the corner 2 carat diamond ring and all-until I came home one day to an empty apartment. Apparently I pumped her ego and enhanced her life so much that I made myself obsolete. Nobody was more surprised than I was. Personally, if someone did all of the things for me that I did for her, my conscience would never allow me to dump her. Did that stop her? Fuck no. #2 girl of my dreams was very similar. She let me do whatever I wanted and was great in the sack. Once again, I enhanced her life to the point of making myself obsolete. Once again, at that magic 5 yr mark, her riding my coat tail to financial success was no longer good enough. Almost overnight she decided she needed her own spotlight to be happy. In both relationships I was a model boyfriend. I was never physically or emotionally abusive. I never lied, cheated, or even considered cheating. I never lied by omission either-meaning I never hid anything from them at all. My point being, today's paradise could very well be tomorrow's tragedy. Even if the lines of communication are always open, there's no guarantees that your girl won't wake up one morning with an agenda that doesn't include you. Right now you say "Won't happen to me-my old lady is the shiz-nit" Well, I used to say that too. Girls wants and needs can dramatically change at a moment's notice-especially in their late 20's. You may, or may not be included in these wants and needs, and there aint a damn thing you can do about it.
My past break ups and betrayals by the girls I loved are nothing compared to what most of the guys I know have gone through. Once married w/kid(s), multiply the emotional trauma x10. Plus the guilt you'll feel for putting your kids through this emotional shitstorm is beyond description. If I knew more than just a couple of people in "happily ever after/until death do us part" type relationships, I'd be a little more optimistic. But I don't. Even my parents divorced after 20 yrs of quasi-marital bliss. The very same month my father made the last house payment, my mother served him with divorce papers. How would you like to bust your ass in a factory 20 yrs to pay for a house-only to have to move out and rent an apartment like he did? I'll die old and lonely before some selfish bitch ever does that to me.
I wish you the best of luck gixxer boy. A Suzuki guy like myself('99 Hayabusa) can't be all bad. lol Just never invest in a relationship emotionally more than you can afford to lose and you'll be OK.
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Not because I don't want him around, but so I could take more naps, lol. I am always freaking tired. I don't expect him to be with me 24/7 - nor do I want him to be. He is his own person, as am I. We should have our own free time too.
