Wife found my Var

[wirednutz]

my days of going off with my buddies at occasional week-ends fishing are over

That is UNacceptable! This sounds like a very insecure girl who doesnt trust you to be out of her sight. I can almost guarantee she has very serious self-image problems.

Am I weak for not standing my ground?

Look at what you said above and YOU tell me! Sad day when a man cannot go fishing with his buddies.

 

[DannoMight]

i've known afew people with overbearing wives/girlfriends. one of them was so insecure that my bor couldn't watch a television show with a hot chick on it without getting some flak. it turned out that she was the one with the real problem they both went to the doctor and they diagnosed her with being bipolar and having severe anxiety. then they put her on 4 different antidepressants and antipsychotics. maybe she's the one that needs help.

 

[muscleup]

Stop being a pussy

Be honest and upfront about it, and maybe try to educate her a bit. You should have never hid it from her anyway.

 

[growthspurt]

Yeah, convince her to cross over to the darkside! Maybe some clen or something? Then she can't bitch @ you anymore............it worked for me!

 

[newshipping]

sounds like someone has already swapped you BD var for BD Dbol, as the var is orange and the tabs your wife has are pink

 

[solidspine]

I have found that it is eaiser to tell my wife the truth and put up with any grief, than try and hide it or lie about it.

 

[02gixxersix2]

Any girl that dishes out that kind of "my way or the highway" ultimatum about something she probably knows nothing about is not worth being with.

Today she says no more steroids. So like the good hubby that you are, you comply with her wishes to keep the peace. What happens tomorrow when she says no more sex? Will you learn to deal with that to keep the peace too? There's more to life than sex ya know. Where do you "man up" and draw the line? Or maybe you like sleeping on the couch?

The more I hear stuff like this the more I'm glad I'm single. The feminization of men today by their strong women(feminazi) partners is turning guys into empty, castrated shells of what they once were. Because women are so independent these days, they don't really give a shit whether or not they can keep a man around. The sad part is that once she finally has you broken down completely, she'll no longer respect you and start scoping out new cock. Divorce (which she can conveniently file for online w/o ever leaving home now for about $200) will soon follow. Then after you sign the papers and give her 50% of your assets, your self esteem will be so low that you'll feel like too big of a loser to ever date again. She'll remarry and start working on the next chump like she never missed a beat. This will fuck your head up so bad that you become a reclusive alcoholic that dies of a heart attack at age 45.

The median age of this board has to be about 22 yrs old because it's apparent that most guys here haven't suffered the inevitable yet.

There is a big difference between steroids and sex bro. Sex is part of a healthy relationship steroids are def. not. My wife is more important than anything and if it bothered her that much I would stop. Either way she would never do that as I have a great girl who doesn't have a my way or the highway attitude. Sounds like you have had some bad luck with girls bro but thats not how it is with everyone.

 

[02gixxersix2]

i've known afew people with overbearing wives/girlfriends. one of them was so insecure that my bor couldn't watch a television show with a hot chick on it without getting some flak. it turned out that she was the one with the real problem they both went to the doctor and they diagnosed her with being bipolar and having severe anxiety. then they put her on 4 different antidepressants and antipsychotics. maybe she's the one that needs help.

LOL that reminds me of my friends wife. She left and was gonna divorce him because she found a porn site in his online history. I couldnt live with that but I guess some people can. Sounds like a lot of the guys on this board needs to find someone who is willing to make sacrafices as well. My wife lets me do whatever I want really and I can still go out with my friends but I don't most of the time because its not fun for both of us. Good luck to the guys who have been crushed by these women but they're not all like that guys.

 

[BigCracker]

There is a big difference between steroids and sex bro. Sex is part of a healthy relationship steroids are def. not. My wife is more important than anything and if it bothered her that much I would stop. Either way she would never do that as I have a great girl who doesn't have a my way or the highway attitude. Sounds like you have had some bad luck with girls bro but thats not how it is with everyone.

Congrats! You found the right girl! I found the right girl too-twice!!! The 1st one was quite supportive of my bodybuilding endeavors. She even paid a lot of my bills and never flipped me shit for anything. She never denied me sex and she took shots to the face like Jenna Jameson. In return I showed her how to train and got her in unbelievable shape-which really helped her self esteem. I let her leech off of my successful personal training biz and provided her with a shitload of clients. For the very 1st time in her life she had financial independence. After 5 yrs, marriage for us was just around the corner 2 carat diamond ring and all-until I came home one day to an empty apartment. Apparently I pumped her ego and enhanced her life so much that I made myself obsolete. Nobody was more surprised than I was. Personally, if someone did all of the things for me that I did for her, my conscience would never allow me to dump her. Did that stop her? Fuck no. #2 girl of my dreams was very similar. She let me do whatever I wanted and was great in the sack. Once again, I enhanced her life to the point of making myself obsolete. Once again, at that magic 5 yr mark, her riding my coat tail to financial success was no longer good enough. Almost overnight she decided she needed her own spotlight to be happy. In both relationships I was a model boyfriend. I was never physically or emotionally abusive. I never lied, cheated, or even considered cheating. I never lied by omission either-meaning I never hid anything from them at all. My point being, today's paradise could very well be tomorrow's tragedy. Even if the lines of communication are always open, there's no guarantees that your girl won't wake up one morning with an agenda that doesn't include you. Right now you say "Won't happen to me-my old lady is the shiz-nit" Well, I used to say that too. Girls wants and needs can dramatically change at a moment's notice-especially in their late 20's. You may, or may not be included in these wants and needs, and there aint a damn thing you can do about it.

My past break ups and betrayals by the girls I loved are nothing compared to what most of the guys I know have gone through. Once married w/kid(s), multiply the emotional trauma x10. Plus the guilt you'll feel for putting your kids through this emotional shitstorm is beyond description. If I knew more than just a couple of people in "happily ever after/until death do us part" type relationships, I'd be a little more optimistic. But I don't. Even my parents divorced after 20 yrs of quasi-marital bliss. The very same month my father made the last house payment, my mother served him with divorce papers. How would you like to bust your ass in a factory 20 yrs to pay for a house-only to have to move out and rent an apartment like he did? I'll die old and lonely before some selfish bitch ever does that to me.

I wish you the best of luck gixxer boy. A Suzuki guy like myself('99 Hayabusa) can't be all bad. lol Just never invest in a relationship emotionally more than you can afford to lose and you'll be OK.

 

[IRONBULL05]

I agree with the others bro,just tell her.My wife is very,very old fashioned,and when I taled to her about it,she was against it,for health and legal resons.After talking with her and explaining all the cons ,she accepted my use.She is still against it,but just accepts it as something I do.She loves me and accepts what I do,as she knows I would'nt do anything I wasn't sure about.
Tell her bro,if she loves you,she'll understand!