i'm white and i can definitely dance....and no, i'm not gay. i've been dancing since i was 14. i guess it has alot to do with what kind of music you're into. i grew up in chicago and was around house/dance music all the time, so it was natural for me to learn how to be a good dancer. all i know is that it's a major plus to the ladies if you can dance, and if a girl can't dance, it's a turn off to me.