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why cant i meet a mature guy

I started reading the 1st couple of pages of this thread but think it is bullshit. Dudes aren't the ones looking for the "home" and "security" in a relationship. Everyone I know is always complaining about how their women weight them down, never the opposite. I just find it really hard to believe that a women can't find a man to "run" with. Most men will run as much as their wallets will let them.
 
The only relationships that are "exciting" are bad ones
good relationships are boring by definition
 
Wulfgar said:
The only relationships that are "exciting" are bad ones
good relationships are boring by definition


LOL

thats a bit true...
 
Wulfgar said:
The only relationships that are "exciting" are bad ones
good relationships are boring by definition


We are all addicted to the drama. Self-sabotage is quite common and not all that mysterious. We need the drama. As you said, it makes things "exciting", gives people something to do. Ever wonder why people bitch and moan and complain all the time? We all know those people who every time we see them seem to have some noew drama to talk about. It's cause it keeps them busy. Gives them purpose.

It's a cheap and easy way to distract them from their lives. Take away all the drama and what's left? They'd be forced to find a way to fill the void. They'd be forced to create for themselves...and that's scary to some (this also explains the ragingly unhealthy obsession with politics and famous people).
 
^kb you've been droning on and on a lot lately
can you take a lesson from foxygellatin and provide cliff notes?

your's in non-gaynesss,

vaga
 
Vagabino said:
^kb you've been droning on and on a lot lately
can you take a lesson from foxygellatin and provide cliff notes?

your's in non-gaynesss,

vaga


I've begun writing again. So I guess it's bled into this place.

I probably shouldn't allow you guys to see my thoughts. Cause most of you aren't really capable of understanding them.

Also, it's a freekin steroid forum.
 
KillahBee said:
I've begun writing again. So I guess it's bled into this place.

I probably shouldn't allow you guys to see my thoughts. Cause most of you aren't really capable of understanding them.

Also, it's a freekin steroid forum.

lol about seeking a mature man on a steroid forum.
surfing this place in public=bad idea.
everyone comments on the outrageous roid banner
 
I'm glad I am not in an office, cause I'd always be lookin over my shldr.

Coworkers seeing roid banners on your comp = not good.
 
Vagabino said:
lol about seeking a mature man on a steroid forum.
surfing this place in public=bad idea.
everyone comments on the outrageous roid banner

!!! i was about to make a thread like that.

"do you get paranoid about being on EF at the office/work?"

I surf ef at the office (at least yesterday especially).

usually they don't see it, just the white posting box...but i think i'm gonna stay off EF at work.

most of my co workers are cool as fuck, but i don't need to do make my steroid usage public. i'm already the most fit dude in the office and everyone knows im into fitness

i have really shitty positioning for internet surfing too.
 
digimon7068 said:
underwear pics?? :waiting:
lol i didnt wear undies today - fell asleep too soon, and i ended up watcvhing the new snoop show today.
 
KillahBee said:
We are all addicted to the drama. Self-sabotage is quite common and not all that mysterious. We need the drama. As you said, it makes things "exciting", gives people something to do. Ever wonder why people bitch and moan and complain all the time? We all know those people who every time we see them seem to have some noew drama to talk about. It's cause it keeps them busy. Gives them purpose.

It's a cheap and easy way to distract them from their lives. Take away all the drama and what's left? They'd be forced to find a way to fill the void. They'd be forced to create for themselves...and that's scary to some (this also explains the ragingly unhealthy obsession with politics and famous people).
I soothe myself with food to lessen my burden on others.
 
i htought about it long and hard, and you cant expect a guy to make your life exciting, or you make his exciting. the best you can do is co-exist and fuck alot.

i dont actually have any real advice i just wanted to ask whether or not pics have been posted yet?
 
KillahBee said:
I've begun writing again. So I guess it's bled into this place.

I probably shouldn't allow you guys to see my thoughts. Cause most of you aren't really capable of understanding them.

Also, it's a freekin steroid forum.

fuck, you're becoming like me.

writing is good though...its why this place is addictive. good to have a writing outlet
 
javaguru said:
I know about three "dancers" that have their shit together and on some level the reputation is deserved but I would never name call someone for doing a job they can make a shit load of money doing without knowing them; I just try to be reasonable.

yeah, and let me guess..they're paying their way through college and investing their stack of hundreds in mutual funds :rolleyes:

there's absolutely nothing sadder than an intelligent and capable girl who has to take the easy way out and use her body to make money. met a few like this...
could have easily done anything they wanted in the world with their brains and charisma alone.


now, of course..if you're as dumb as rocks. at least they're contributing something to the world
 
why do asian girls like to have a totally american stripper name?

Thats like a white girl from texas wanting to be called Chow mein or soemthing
 
the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously. After working in a club and watching hard working girls making 6 figures and sometimes WELL BEYOND.........I'll never fault a girl for that. And it really isn't the "easy" way out bro. Those women give up alot of themselves while they work in that proffession. There's a reason coke and other drugs are so prevelant with them.

Just as I left my old club one of the girls whom I really got along with finally quit too........she was making way more a real estate agent in the Bay area than she was making as a dancer. But the danceing got her through the lean times when she was trying to make a name in the business. I suspect that in light of recent events in the homebuilding business........she may be dancing again, but so what? She's got multiple kids with no father in sight that she's got to take care of.


calveless wonder said:
yeah, and let me guess..they're paying their way through college and investing their stack of hundreds in mutual funds :rolleyes:

there's absolutely nothing sadder than an intelligent and capable girl who has to take the easy way out and use her body to make money. met a few like this...
could have easily done anything they wanted in the world with their brains and charisma alone.


now, of course..if you're as dumb as rocks. at least they're contributing something to the world
 
redsamurai said:
the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously. After working in a club and watching hard working girls making 6 figures and sometimes WELL BEYOND.........I'll never fault a girl for that. And it really isn't the "easy" way out bro. Those women give up alot of themselves while they work in that proffession. There's a reason coke and other drugs are so prevelant with them.

Just as I left my old club one of the girls whom I really got along with finally quit too........she was making way more a real estate agent in the Bay area than she was making as a dancer. But the danceing got her through the lean times when she was trying to make a name in the business. I suspect that in light of recent events in the homebuilding business........she may be dancing again, but so what? She's got multiple kids with no father in sight that she's got to take care of.

You're right about attractive girls being judged by their looks. That will never change. But why is that an excuse and who says you have to give into it? Most people think i'm a snooty south beach guido jackass just by looking at me (which is only like 30% true LOL). But why give in to what peoples initial impressions are?

Apparently you haven't worked in sales. Some of the most successful people in real estate or finance i know are good looking, smart women. They may play off it a little, but they never cheapen themselves. You talk to them for a few minutes and realize why they are where they are. They don't use their body as a crutch.
 
The girl that I knew sold real estate at east bay.........than came into frisco to dance. She was always worried about getting recognized. And if you saw her in a suit you'd never ever ever think stripper. So you don't know what women do in their spare time. If any of these women you know ever left a button or two undone or used any of that psycho body language that women do...........to seal a deal.................isn't that kind of the same thing? I dunno, only you can be the judge of that. But no good looking woman I've ever met "doesn't" use that fact at some time or another. They know that they can use their nice legs or dangle a shoe from their toes or all that bullshit to distract men for "just a moment".......and it's done, they got him.............. :)


calveless wonder said:
You're right about attractive girls being judged by their looks. That will never change. But why is that an excuse and who says you have to give into it? Most people think i'm a snooty south beach guido jackass just by looking at me (which is only like 30% true LOL). But why give in to what peoples initial impressions are?

Apparently you haven't worked in sales. Some of the most successful people in real estate or finance i know are good looking, smart women. They may play off it a little, but they never cheapen themselves. You talk to them for a few minutes and realize why they are where they are. They don't use their body as a crutch.
 
redsamurai said:
so is dakota really a stripper or not? If she is, I might have an answer for her question......... :rolleyes:
I think in the passed she danced but not sure what she does now. Anyway from knowing here on the boards I would not judge her by the fact that she may have worked as a dancer or still does she one of the sweetest people around these parts she deserves a good man.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
I think in the passed she danced but not sure what she does now. Anyway from knowing here on the boards I would not judge her by the fact that she may have worked as a dancer or still does she one of the sweetest people around these parts she deserves a good man.


not judging her personally, just judging the "boys" that want to date strippers. It's a fact. Stripping can make women the kind of money that takes college graduates with advanced degrees 10 years to make if not more. But forget meaningful personal relationships. The guys that want to date strippers fall into 2 categories......1) the little boys who want to go back to their dorm rooms and say they nailed a stripper and worse 2) The guys that want to sit at home and take advantage of women with notoriously low self esteem. These guys made my blood boil when I was in SF.......I honestly contemplated murdering one of them. If I had quick access to a weapon at that time, it might have gone through. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever known would get picked up outside my club by some of the dirtiest, dustiest no good mother fuckers I've ever run into.
 
redsamurai said:
the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously.



yep
 
redsamurai said:
not judging her personally, just judging the "boys" that want to date strippers. It's a fact. Stripping can make women the kind of money that takes college graduates with advanced degrees 10 years to make if not more. But forget meaningful personal relationships. The guys that want to date strippers fall into 2 categories......1) the little boys who want to go back to their dorm rooms and say they nailed a stripper and worse 2) The guys that want to sit at home and take advantage of women with notoriously low self esteem. These guys made my blood boil when I was in SF.......I honestly contemplated murdering one of them. If I had quick access to a weapon at that time, it might have gone through. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever known would get picked up outside my club by some of the dirtiest, dustiest no good mother fuckers I've ever run into.
fuck bro
I am glad I never picked up a stripper outside of a club you went too!!
 
calveless wonder said:
yeah, and let me guess..they're paying their way through college and investing their stack of hundreds in mutual funds :rolleyes:

there's absolutely nothing sadder than an intelligent and capable girl who has to take the easy way out and use her body to make money. met a few like this...
could have easily done anything they wanted in the world with their brains and charisma alone.


now, of course..if you're as dumb as rocks. at least they're contributing something to the world
I'm talking about girls I met through a guy I went through high school with. Stripping is no different than any other industry...the mortgage broker whores are paying their dues now. If you have a good product and a way to sell it then you're going to make some money. He tried to set me up with a chick back in college that cleared 1k on a weekend night for her dominatrix show. Her club was a high end one that catered to businessmen with expense accounts. We all whore ourselves out, I'm a Microsucks whore and I make very good money in a poor city(9% unemployment). Porn stars clear six figures because they have a product people want.
 
Wulfgar said:
fuck bro
I am glad I never picked up a stripper outside of a club you went too!!

It was a dude who was beating the girl and taking all her money. And when she tried to break off with him he'd come driving past the club at closing. Honest to god I asked my GM if I could take care of this guy. Apparently, 10 or so years ago...the way things worked in SF......they'd have green lighted me because the dude was coming around the club. The owners of the club, mob guys.........are a little more conservative these days.
 
redsamurai said:
It was a dude who was beating the girl and taking all her money. And when she tried to break off with him he'd come driving past the club at closing. Honest to god I asked my GM if I could take care of this guy. Apparently, 10 or so years ago...the way things worked in SF......they'd have green lighted me because the dude was coming around the club. The owners of the club, mob guys.........are a little more conservative these days.
Thats fucked up shit man

unfortunately that is how it is in the world. All the time

For every victim there has to be a perpetrator.

sad but true..

best thing to do is stay out of that whole scene
 
Wulfgar said:
Thats fucked up shit man

unfortunately that is how it is in the world. All the time

For every victim there has to be a perpetrator.

sad but true..

best thing to do is stay out of that whole scene


we're responsible for the girls till they got in their cars and left. If this dude was scouting to jump a girl on her way to the car......he was obivously bringing friends to help take care of the escorting bouncer. He was part of the reason i invested in a vest.
 
redsamurai said:
It's AA spelling for "samurai"..........he's drinking again, and heavily. It's really sad.
fuck you
I'm bored
I've already made my living
what I need the white picket fucking fence too?
 
bomb redsammich and I'll give you a 48hundred positive kay hit
asshole
wants to play rough
 
calveless wonder said:
Apparently you haven't worked in sales. Some of the most successful people in real estate or finance i know are good looking, smart women. They may play off it a little, but they never cheapen themselves. You talk to them for a few minutes and realize why they are where they are. They don't use their body as a crutch.

bro please! I know female AE's who'd let LO's run trains on her ass to get their loans. Don't talk like they're "above" all that. :rolleyes: Even the ones who don't let guys fuck them still flirt their asses off.

I've seen it all bro. More power to them. Some of them really know their shit too, but as a man I had to know more. Always. I had to be the one the girls could ask questions to when they didn't know it.
 
round up AAP boy after him wipe off his dick
to join in the parade
in actuality
I have a bigger heart and would open the doors to my home
far quiker than that ass maggot AAP
he'd charge you
 
you're the miserable cock suck that knots yourself with marriage
they fucking laugh at what you done
 
antsy pantsy dakota
spend a week with with me
I dont even know aht yopu nlool likle
balls in your corut
 
spart........what is you malfunction? Is it the booze like they say? Or is it more........I can't tell, you're all over the fuckin place. And if you can actually jot down a coherent sentence, please fuckin enlighten me what your fuckin problem with me is.......pm me if you wish.
 
Dakotah said:
who is as adventurous, as i am finding out i am.????
well atleast we can say,, u starting your search looking in the right places :) :)
 
redsamurai said:
so is dakota really a stripper or not? If she is, I might have an answer for her question......... :rolleyes:
i am a exotic dancer an
d i only occasionally (like every 6 months to a year) work a nite for some extra cash or else to fill in for dumb bitches that dont show up lol.


as for being a stripper - i love my day job and hope it can make my life as comfortable as i want it to be; but i want someone who isnt a cheat or liar,







i want too damn much !!!



as for being asian - nope im not - im dakotah native
:qt:


redsamurai said:
the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously. After working in a club and watching hard working girls making 6 figures and sometimes WELL BEYOND.........I'll never fault a girl for that. And it really isn't the "easy" way out bro. Those women give up alot of themselves while they work in that proffession. There's a reason coke and other drugs are so prevelant with them.

Just as I left my old club one of the girls whom I really got along with finally quit too........she was making way more a real estate agent in the Bay area than she was making as a dancer. But the danceing got her through the lean times when she was trying to make a name in the business. I suspect that in light of recent events in the homebuilding business........she may be dancing again, but so what? She's got multiple kids with no father in sight that she's got to take care of.


ur just awesome!!! and i mean that sincerely

we can make some dough and nope its not the easy way out- people just say that cause they cant do something like that. it does take alot to do that job (for some of us)
and some of us make the best of it while we can while others abuse the situatuion.

I say rake the dough in if the guys are giving it; besides we arent going to be hotties forever.


superqt4u2nv said:
I think in the passed she danced but not sure what she does now. Anyway from knowing here on the boards I would not judge her by the fact that she may have worked as a dancer or still does she one of the sweetest people around these parts she deserves a good man.

:bigkiss:

redsamurai said:
not judging her personally, just judging the "boys" that want to date strippers. It's a fact. Stripping can make women the kind of money that takes college graduates with advanced degrees 10 years to make if not more. But forget meaningful personal relationships. The guys that want to date strippers fall into 2 categories......1) the little boys who want to go back to their dorm rooms and say they nailed a stripper and worse 2) The guys that want to sit at home and take advantage of women with notoriously low self esteem. These guys made my blood boil when I was in SF.......I honestly contemplated murdering one of them. If I had quick access to a weapon at that time, it might have gone through. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever known would get picked up outside my club by some of the dirtiest, dustiest no good mother fuckers I've ever run into.


something u said made it ring in my head-

i ended up with someone who had a great education but in the end didnt do anything with it- had the world by the balls if he/she wanted and tossed it for alcohol and sluts(true sluts that just give it away)
he had a fucking mid life crisis and i payed for it big time!!

education doesnt make u smart in all areas!!

its funny cause all my exs boys and s called friends are tryin some goofy shit thinking im special ed myself- and that i would actually date their retarded asses.
What gave them the clue that i actually want anything to do with them??? or i should be asking - who ever told u i would be interested in u after ur friend was a retard???
 
some of my best friends are whores and strippers...
I think Dahkota+ Lestat would be a match made in heaven
 
<< mature guy looking for a sugarbaby. Hates long walks on the beach or anywhere else for that matter, doesn't cuddle w/o previous sex, funny but only if you like severe sarcasm, doesn't tollerate stupidity for any reason, expects damn near complete silence when O'reilly or Hannity and Colmbs are on, into hockey and baseball helps if you are too, willing to spend BIG $$'s but you'll need special skills to maximize opportunity...
 
txbondsman said:
<< mature guy looking for a sugarbaby. Hates long walks on the beach or anywhere else for that matter, doesn't cuddle w/o previous sex, funny but only if you like severe sarcasm, doesn't tollerate stupidity for any reason, expects damn near complete silence when O'reilly or Hannity and Colmbs are on, into hockey and baseball helps if you are too, willing to spend BIG $$'s but you'll need special skills to maximize opportunity...

lol

She'd be crazy not to jump on that.
 
txbondsman said:
<< mature guy looking for a sugarbaby. Hates long walks on the beach or anywhere else for that matter, doesn't cuddle w/o previous sex, funny but only if you like severe sarcasm, doesn't tollerate stupidity for any reason, expects damn near complete silence when O'reilly or Hannity and Colmbs are on, into hockey and baseball helps if you are too, willing to spend BIG $$'s but you'll need special skills to maximize opportunity...


If I were a woman I'd swing a bat at your head for watching those mysoginst swine..........how's that for silence? :lmao:
 
txbondsman said:
<< mature guy looking for a sugarbaby. Hates long walks on the beach or anywhere else for that matter, doesn't cuddle w/o previous sex, funny but only if you like severe sarcasm, doesn't tollerate stupidity for any reason, expects damn near complete silence when O'reilly or Hannity and Colmbs are on, into hockey and baseball helps if you are too, willing to spend BIG $$'s but you'll need special skills to maximize opportunity...

lmao
 
redsamurai said:
If I were a woman I'd swing a bat at your head for watching those mysoginst swine..........how's that for silence? :lmao:

I'm under educated and I have no idea what that means and it would take too long for me to look it up and then try and use it in a sentance, everybody would know I didn't really use that word in my normal conversations any so I'll just say "thank you", as I know that you gave me a compliment as usual.....
 
txbondsman said:
I'm under educated and I have no idea what that means and it would take too long for me to look it up and then try and use it in a sentance, everybody would know I didn't really use that word in my normal conversations any so I'll just say "thank you", as I know that you gave me a compliment as usual.....



mi·sog·y·nist (m-sj-nst)
n.
One who hates women.
adj.
Of or characterized by a hatred of women


oreilly/hannity=misoginists
 
redsamurai said:
mi·sog·y·nist (m-sj-nst)
n.
One who hates women.
adj.
Of or characterized by a hatred of women


oreilly/hannity=misoginists

:-) I'll take that to heart..... I tried to find it but I culdn't spel Dikshunery.
 
txbondsman said:
:-) I'll take that to heart..... I tried to find it but I culdn't spel Dikshunery.

If you order this shirt we will have matching shirts. It's from Mr.sexist.com

(buy a larger size. they are fitted)

mysog.jpg
 
I want mine to say "Missgynogist". gyn.o HAS to be the root for some word that has to do with nani, right?..... hence gyn.o-cologist.
 
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