why cant i meet a mature guy

[redsamurai]

The girl that I knew sold real estate at east bay.........than came into frisco to dance. She was always worried about getting recognized. And if you saw her in a suit you'd never ever ever think stripper. So you don't know what women do in their spare time. If any of these women you know ever left a button or two undone or used any of that psycho body language that women do...........to seal a deal.................isn't that kind of the same thing? I dunno, only you can be the judge of that. But no good looking woman I've ever met "doesn't" use that fact at some time or another. They know that they can use their nice legs or dangle a shoe from their toes or all that bullshit to distract men for "just a moment".......and it's done, they got him..............

You're right about attractive girls being judged by their looks. That will never change. But why is that an excuse and who says you have to give into it? Most people think i'm a snooty south beach guido jackass just by looking at me (which is only like 30% true LOL). But why give in to what peoples initial impressions are?

Apparently you haven't worked in sales. Some of the most successful people in real estate or finance i know are good looking, smart women. They may play off it a little, but they never cheapen themselves. You talk to them for a few minutes and realize why they are where they are. They don't use their body as a crutch.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

so is dakota really a stripper or not? If she is, I might have an answer for her question.........

I think in the passed she danced but not sure what she does now. Anyway from knowing here on the boards I would not judge her by the fact that she may have worked as a dancer or still does she one of the sweetest people around these parts she deserves a good man.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

barnes and noble or any other book store or library.

 

[redsamurai]

I think in the passed she danced but not sure what she does now. Anyway from knowing here on the boards I would not judge her by the fact that she may have worked as a dancer or still does she one of the sweetest people around these parts she deserves a good man.

not judging her personally, just judging the "boys" that want to date strippers. It's a fact. Stripping can make women the kind of money that takes college graduates with advanced degrees 10 years to make if not more. But forget meaningful personal relationships. The guys that want to date strippers fall into 2 categories......1) the little boys who want to go back to their dorm rooms and say they nailed a stripper and worse 2) The guys that want to sit at home and take advantage of women with notoriously low self esteem. These guys made my blood boil when I was in SF.......I honestly contemplated murdering one of them. If I had quick access to a weapon at that time, it might have gone through. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever known would get picked up outside my club by some of the dirtiest, dustiest no good mother fuckers I've ever run into.

 

[blueta2]

the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously.

yep

 

[Wulfgar]

not judging her personally, just judging the "boys" that want to date strippers. It's a fact. Stripping can make women the kind of money that takes college graduates with advanced degrees 10 years to make if not more. But forget meaningful personal relationships. The guys that want to date strippers fall into 2 categories......1) the little boys who want to go back to their dorm rooms and say they nailed a stripper and worse 2) The guys that want to sit at home and take advantage of women with notoriously low self esteem. These guys made my blood boil when I was in SF.......I honestly contemplated murdering one of them. If I had quick access to a weapon at that time, it might have gone through. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever known would get picked up outside my club by some of the dirtiest, dustiest no good mother fuckers I've ever run into.

fuck bro
I am glad I never picked up a stripper outside of a club you went too!!

 

[Spartacus]

I'll fly to you
judge me for yourself

 

[javaguru]

yeah, and let me guess..they're paying their way through college and investing their stack of hundreds in mutual funds

there's absolutely nothing sadder than an intelligent and capable girl who has to take the easy way out and use her body to make money. met a few like this...
could have easily done anything they wanted in the world with their brains and charisma alone.


now, of course..if you're as dumb as rocks. at least they're contributing something to the world

I'm talking about girls I met through a guy I went through high school with. Stripping is no different than any other industry...the mortgage broker whores are paying their dues now. If you have a good product and a way to sell it then you're going to make some money. He tried to set me up with a chick back in college that cleared 1k on a weekend night for her dominatrix show. Her club was a high end one that catered to businessmen with expense accounts. We all whore ourselves out, I'm a Microsucks whore and I make very good money in a poor city(9% unemployment). Porn stars clear six figures because they have a product people want.

 

[redsamurai]

fuck bro
I am glad I never picked up a stripper outside of a club you went too!!

It was a dude who was beating the girl and taking all her money. And when she tried to break off with him he'd come driving past the club at closing. Honest to god I asked my GM if I could take care of this guy. Apparently, 10 or so years ago...the way things worked in SF......they'd have green lighted me because the dude was coming around the club. The owners of the club, mob guys.........are a little more conservative these days.

 

[Wulfgar]

It was a dude who was beating the girl and taking all her money. And when she tried to break off with him he'd come driving past the club at closing. Honest to god I asked my GM if I could take care of this guy. Apparently, 10 or so years ago...the way things worked in SF......they'd have green lighted me because the dude was coming around the club. The owners of the club, mob guys.........are a little more conservative these days.

Thats fucked up shit man

unfortunately that is how it is in the world. All the time

For every victim there has to be a perpetrator.

sad but true..

best thing to do is stay out of that whole scene