Why are some people mean?

[nimbus]

Another reason for being mean to someone, though less common, is disgust

 

[calveless wonder]

yea letting go of the past gets me but i quit blaming others

i really don't have low self esteem ...im just been beat up thats all

i don't know man, i think they correlate.
It's really easy to have low self esteem when everything in your life is disarray. that's just being human.

like you...going through alot of shit and adversity the past year or so has ruined my self esteem/mood, but through getting back in shape, hustling to make things happen and working on being single and on the prowl again i've regained alot of it.
not quite there yet...but getting close to being the happy, warm and successful person i was before. The real thing is your mental state...i used external shit to make me happy, instead of me being happy resulting in cool external shit

to go from being on top of the world to having basically nothing can easily change your self image, because you start blaming yourself

 

[calveless wonder]

fuck...makes me sad to think a couple of years ago i thought i had it all.

bad ass brand new luxury car, was a rising star in my industry, lived in a half a million dollar condo on the beach, had the fine ass modeling bitch that was head over heals for me(at the time) and i was semi jacked.

but fuck it, things change. sometimes you fall, sometimes you rise. nothing is absolute. the people who dwell in their misery are the people who stay bitter/mean

 

[Thunderclap47]

I get mean because my wife likes to cut me off for month's at a time. She's on Paxil and synthroid which kill her sex drive. Which really sucks when I'm on cycle.

 

[nimbus]

I get mean because my wife likes to cut me off for month's at a time. She's on Paxil and synthroid which kill her sex drive. Which really sucks when I'm on cycle.

i used to think that was bs, but then i did a few month stint with lexapro and couldnt even beat off most days.

 

[calveless wonder]

I get mean because my wife likes to cut me off for month's at a time. She's on Paxil and synthroid which kill her sex drive. Which really sucks when I'm on cycle.

synthroid shouldn't have an effect on her sex drive...if anything, it should increase it.

paxil on the other hand...SSRI's can destroy it.

why not look into another anti depressant? Remeron has no sexual sides...same with wellbuturin

 

[nimbus]

synthroid shouldn't have an effect on her sex drive...if anything, it should increase it.

paxil on the other hand...SSRI's can destroy it.

why not look into another anti depressant? Remeron has no sexual sides...same with wellbuturin

i bet chicks are way more concerned with getting fat on SSRIs than losing their sex drive; i bet it's gonna be a bitch to get her to switch if she found something that's working for her

 

[Tatyana]

i bet chicks are way more concerned with getting fat on SSRIs than losing their sex drive; i bet it's gonna be a bitch to get her to switch if she found something that's working for her

St. John's Wort (1500 mg/day) has been compared to a number of popular anti-depressants in clinical trials and found to be just as effective, but with far fewer sides.

I actually don't think people would be mean if they really saw the effect they have on others.

I have found the best way to deal with mean people is to kill'em with kindness.

 

[calveless wonder]

St. John's Wort (1500 mg/day) has been compared to a number of popular anti-depressants in clinical trials and found to be just as effective, but with far fewer sides.

I actually don't think people would be mean if they really saw the effect they have on others.

I have found the best way to deal with mean people is to kill'em with kindness.

i'd like to see those studies. i've never heard anyone have success with it. Sam-E on the other hand, that's some awesome stuff. love it

will never take a prescribed anti depressant again (although in europe it has to be prescribed)

 

[nimbus]

has there ever been anyone who you saw as so pathetic you were just completely disgusted and were mean to them because you thought they deserved to suffer?