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Who Has Been Through A Divorce Here

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damn sucks.
 
mountain muscle said:
sucks woots.

Never been married.

Don't really want to either.

Now get to work.
hahahah i am dogfuckin sorry bro. i tell you one thing i have alot of people to meet on this board now my first stop might be to Colorado for a hockey game
 
Yes. I went through a divorce. It was tough, but at least I could do all the legal work and my ex and I didn't fight over how anything was divided up.
 
heatherrae said:
Yes. I went through a divorce. It was tough, but at least I could do all the legal work and my ex and I didn't fight over how anything was divided up.
wow, your a good woman.
 
been through 1. the process was a breeze itself - no court, no kids, no battles.

the getting over her was a little harder.
 
Technoviking said:
hahahah i am dogfuckin sorry bro. i tell you one thing i have alot of people to meet on this board now my first stop might be to Colorado for a hockey game

Let me know brother.

I'll get tickets.


Bring your gear too, I may have gotten my lazy ass in a league by then. Working on shooting right now.
Leatham's reign of terror in the USPSA must be stopped. lol
 
been there, done that
Best thing I ever did looking back
I even remarried 4 years later so I am not jaded bro. Have as much fun as you can, start planning your two week trip to Rio NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
sucks man, i hope you get through things as pain free as possible.
 
Smurfy said:
stressful, yes, especially with kids involved, etc.

but in my case, was the best decision for me and I couldnt WAIT for it to be over.
does daisy have your password?
 
Sucks to go through.

Keep one foot in front of the other. Make progress on it every day, even if its just swapping asset lists or discussing how to divide property. Focus on the process -- not on the personal issues involved. Also, avoid doing anything dumb like drugs or too much alcohol. A lot of the negotiations over assets and alimony are wars of attrition and booze and drugs only drag you down.

When its over and done, you'll be numb for 1-2 months. Just wade through them, then go apeshit crazy for a few months (or years) before you even consider a serious girlfriend.

I know it sucks, but hang in there.
 
wow, nope never have and never want to.
I am still in shock to hear it from you. I wish you both nothing but the best and I hope this can go smoothly for the pair of you.
 
there was a formula that I learned back then

for every 4 months of marriage it would take one month to "get over it"

seems to work for periods less than a decade
 
i do lotsa litigation support/forensic accounting work for divorce attorneys. . .but i've never been through the process myself. . .
 
Spartacus said:
there was a formula that I learned back then

for every 4 months of marriage it would take one month to "get over it"

seems to work for periods less than a decade

that sounds about right--i think the second year was the worst.
 
Sorry you guys couldn't make it work. I have not been through one and I hope I never do.
 
been their twice, the first one was very tough, second was easier, and now im bout ready for this one 2 get gone, i might miss her for a couple days. its hard too ever put all ur trust in another marrage after you have been burned a few times.
 
It does suck.........or deciding if you should get divorced is tuff too.........I might be the next one on elite to be getting divoced.......definitely a tuff time.....Im still trying to work things out though...........good luck woot
 
My spirit is crushed. I cried like a child for the first time since I was 18. I loved that woman so much.
 
seaking420 said:
It does suck.........or deciding if you should get divorced is tuff too.........I might be the next one on elite to be getting divoced.......definitely a tuff time.....Im still trying to work things out though...........good luck woot
you to man. im always here if you need to talk on the phone or whatever bro. i hate seeing other people go through this also
 
Technoviking said:
you to man. im always here if you need to talk on the phone or whatever bro. i hate seeing other people go through this also
will you call me
 
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