Which is a better gift for birthday?

[-Ariel-]

I'm a little partial though....I love hoodies.....prolly got 20 of them in the closet...and now that its gettin chilly at night, I'm gonna hafta bust em out.

Make it an oversized one so she can throw it over whatever she's wearing.

Dude, you may leave the midwest, but it neva leaves U.
I'm the exact fucking way.
Hoodies, Track Jackets... and TuTus. LOL

 

[princesa]

Blech, neither. I'm sorry, if I got either of those from a guy who was my age I would immediately think they were re-gifts. Those are not items that convey "I think you are an attractive young lady whom I would be interested in pursuing a romantic interest in," they are gifts that say "Dude, just remembered it was your birthday I grabbed you this at Target on the way home from work."

If you've had really great conversations with her, get her a really classy pen and nice journal or a really good book. If you think the romance is definitely mutual then a nice but not too expensive piece of jewelry, something silver set with semiprecious stones.

Yes! I agree with musclemom.
Get her a nice piece of jewelry, it doesn't have to be very expensive. Get her something elegant and small, it has more value. Anyhow, It's the thought that counts.
The items you've picked say "hey buddy happy b-day"...I see you as a friend.
She is a cutie Ariel

 

[puddlemonkey]

Get her a nice piece of jewelry

After talking to a girl for a month? That isn't gonna spook her?

 

[cindylou]

I used to wear hoodies all the time, but I feel like such a slob.

its just me...not all of you's.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Get her a book of matches or something. Everything you do from here out will need to trump the previous gift, jewelry now = car later

 

[-Ariel-]

Yes! I agree with musclemom.
Get her a nice piece of jewelry, it doesn't have to be very expensive. Get her something elegant and small, it has more value. Anyhow, It's the thought that counts.
The items you've picked say "hey buddy happy b-day"...I see you as a friend.
She is a cutie Ariel

Damn, now the thing is I've got wisdom and seduction baggin on my shit.
How can I not listen to that?
I feel like 'Yeah but, uhhhhh.... I've got nothin'
LOL
Well, being in Grad School and still having another 4 years to go before I'm where I wanna be financially, Bailey Banks and Biddle, and Tivol are a little out of the price range. However, I get ya.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I'm half joking btw, half. I don't need a lecture on gift giving lol.

 

[chris302001]

Damn, now the thing is I've got wisdom and seduction baggin on my shit.
How can I not listen to that?
I feel like 'Yeah but, uhhhhh.... I've got nothin'
LOL
Well, being in Grad School and still having another 4 years to go before I'm where I wanna be financially, Bailey Banks and Biddle, and Tivol are a little out of the price range. However, I get ya.

lol @ only 4 years to go financially...you're forgetting about residency....

 

[snacky cake]

a hoodie or a backback for a lovely lady's birthday?

That speaks of BUDDY not a LOVER.

write something cool to her or get her a first edition book she likes or earrings or something. ANYTHING but a hoodie or a backpack. lol.

maybe something monogrammed to her like a beautiful silver letter opener or a hand mirror. ANYTHING but a hoodie or a backpack.

maybe even lovely stationary or ....well ANYTHING but a hoodie or a backpack.


LOL.

 

[princesa]

After talking to a girl for a month? That isn't gonna spook her?

I don't think so Puddle
I'm not saying, go crazy, and get her something from Tiffany's.
Based on her personality he could get her something small and cute. Which says "I'm interested in you"... "Would like to get to know you better"
I don't think it's over the top